STRICTURES ON FEMALE EDUCATION [...]TLY AS IT RELATES TO THE CULTURE OF THE HEART. IN FOUR ESSAYS.
BY THE REV. JOHN BENNETT.
E [...]T QUOD [...] PRODIRE TENUS, SI NON DATUR ULTRA.—
PRINTED AT WORCESTER. BY ISAIAH THOMAS, JUN. SOLD AT HIS BOOKSTORE SIGN OF Johnson's Head. 1795.
Preface.
THESE Essays are to be considered as only an introductory specimen of a much larger work, consisting of Letters to a young Lady, on the much neglected subject of Female Education.—These letters were intended to be comprised in three small pocket volumes; the first recommending religious duties and writers for the culture of the heart; the second proper studies and authors for the improvement of the understanding; and the last pointing out the necessary, domestic duties, as well as the proper manners, graces and accomplishments of the sex.
The whole work was intended to have made its appearance at the same time; but the intervention of other [Page]s [...]dies, professional engagements, as well as many private reasons of del [...]y, which the Author does not feel himself at liberty to disclose, have induced him to suspend, at least for the present, the publication of these Letters. Nor perhaps, may they now ever see the light, though nearly prepared for it, unless particularly called for (which he scarcely expects) by the encouragement given to these preparatory sketches. He has little to say concerning the performance now before the public; but only that he conceives the subject to be important, whatever may be its execution. He is sensible how invidious a task it is to attack established systems, prejudices, habits, errors, that have been ridiculously consecrated, as it were, by the lapse of time, and what disgraceful epithets are lavished on the man, who sets up, from whatever motives, either for a censor or a reformer of his age. He [Page v]is conscious that neither his talents nor his station will justify him in assuming so arduous a character, and has therefore cautiously concealed a name, which might only raise a prejudice against his bold undertaking, and hidden himself behind the shade of secrecy, until criticism shall have fully emptied its quiver, and ‘the indignation of publick censure is overpast. *’
Still as he conceives that the cause of truth and virtue should fear no discouragements, and that neither mediocrity of talents nor obscurity of station should discourage a man from great undertakings, the time may come, when he shall openly avow these productions of his pen, contented with the pittance, which an impartial publick shall be pleased to give him, of censure or of fame.
CONTENTS
- ESSAY I. Containing a slight survey of the treatment of women in different ages and nations of the world, and an investigation of the causes, which have contributed to the obvious and shameful negligence in their education.
- ESSAY II. Observations on the manner. in which the treatment of this sex will be influenced by, and will reciprocally influence the taste, the sentiments, the habits and pursuits, the manners, the morals, the publick and the private happiness of a people.
- ESSAY III. A disquisition concerning the nature, quality and extent of female talents, and the comparative difference of understanding in the sexes.
- ESSAY IV. Reflections on the dangers and insufficiency of Boarding Schools, considered as a mode of Female Education.
STRICTURES ON FEMALE EDUCATION.
It i [...], me thinks, a low and degrading idea of that sex, which was created to refine the joy, and to soften the ca [...]es of [...]manit [...] by the most agreeable participation, to consider them merely as objects of sight. This is abridging them of their natural exte [...]t of power, and putting them upon a level with their pictures at Kne [...]er's.—
WHEN we consider the natural equality of women with the other sex, their influence upon society, and their original destination [Page 8]to be companions and comforters of man; when we recollect the pleasures derived from their* agreeable vivacity and sprightliness, the soothing tenderness of their friendship, and the ardency of their affaction; when we call to mind all their charms and attractions; above all, when we reflect, that the youth of both sexes are under their management for many of those [...]orly years, when all the durable impressions must be made, it may justly appear a matter of amazement, that their education has been so much and so generally neglected; that no nation, ancient or modern, has esteemed it an object of publick importance that no Philosopher or Legislator has interwoven it with his system, nor any [Page 9]witter deemed it a subject worthy of a full or a serious discussion.
Many systems of instruction have been adopted for the other sex, various as the countries, the religion, the climate, or even as the caprices of the writers, who, at different periods, have undertaken to compose them. But, by a strange fatality, women have been considerably omitted in the account, as if they were not gifted with reason and understanding, but were only to be valued for the beauty of their persons, for the elegance of their manners, or the symmetry of their forms.
At the same time, we make no concessions, or abatement in our expectations from them, for this contemptuous neglect. Forming a high and flattering estimate of what their character should be, we extend no allowance for this [Page 10]insuperable disadvantage. We expect a rich, spontaneous harvest to spring from an untilled soil; and whilst we make their failings inevitable by our remissness, we fail not to load them with the heaviest censure, ridicule and contempt.
Complaints against the foibles and imprudence of women are almost coeval with the foundation of the world.—Whatever, in other instances, may have been the scarcity of genius and talents, yet their imperfections have never wanted recorders. To do them ample justice, and place them in every varying point of view for the amusement of a busy and illnatured curiosity, for the gratification of a dark and malignant spleen, or the purpose of a publick and humiliating correction, the shafts of satire, the flights of poetry, the lucubrations of the moralist, and even the more [Page 11]dignified labours of the Divine have, in turns, been employed. Many* famous author of Greece and Rome, of modern Europe, and of our own country, have formed an ignominious phalanx, to wage, in inky armour, an unequal battle against this tender and defenceless sex. Even the sacred books of Revelation have been called in to sanction these malevolent effusions; and, because Solomon declaimed, at an early period, only against the worst and most abandoned of the sex, he has been followed by a number of servile imitators, of all ages and nations, who indiscriminately, have applied the dark portrait to all. I will not add a Chesterfield to a group, (whose letters [Page 12]to his son, from beginning to end, are one continued libel upon women) because I wish the memory of his immortal graces, and his refined dissimulation, to sleep forever with him in his grave.
Nor is this sex more indebted, in general, to those, who assume the appearance of friendship and esteem. Like princes, they seldom hear the language of truth. Many, like a Judas, betray them with a kiss. Their charms excite a fugitive passion. Passion vents it [...]f in profuse adulation. And that flattery has frequently little more in view, than a momentary pleasure, which must borrow its existence from their misery and ruin.
To enumerate the various charges, which have been adduced, at different times, against this amiable part of the Creation, would be a very difficult and laborious [Page 13]undertaking. They are as the complexions or pre [...] the persons from whom [...] proceeded, as the circu [...] which have checquered the [...] lives, or the feelings wh [...] circumstances have excite [...] breast.
Some men of a saturr [...] gloomy complexion, ha [...] demned them for that [...] which constitutes the f [...] sweetest of their charme [...] might as well be angry [...] sky is not all over sable, w [...] streak of white or blue to [...] the horizon; whilst othe [...] retaliated on the sex at la [...] injuries and offences they [...] ceived from a few.
The Philosophe [...] comp [...] their levity and g [...]ddin [...] man of sentiment inveigh [...] the frivolousness of their t [...] [Page 14]the frothiness of their conversation. He who courts their society from motives of fashion, and makes it a system to say every thing but truth, pronounces them greedy of flattery in the extreme, and capable of swallowing that undeserved praise, which is the severest satire in disguise. The scholar is disgusted with their ignorance and insipidity; the lover with their coquetry, caprices and inconstancy in the tender connections. And he, who seeks them with the most honourable views, for the companions of his life, is terrified with the prospect of that fondness for gaiety, which would sacrifice every emotion of the heart to splendour and parade, and, instead of making his retirement a Paradise, threatens to convert it into a dreary wilderness of vexation and remorse. From all quarters they have been attacked; [Page 15]and whilst their form is confessed to be enchanting, they are treated, by the bulk of men, as fit for little else but some domestick drudgeries, or some indelicate enjoyments.
How far these heavy charges are founded on truth, it would appear invidious, and it is not, by any means, necessary to determine. Suffice it to remark in favour of this injured and persecuted sex, that the judge would be esteemed a monster of cruelty, who first induced a person to be a culprit, and afterwards condemned.
It is an established and universally received maxim, that the future sentiments, actions and characters of men are considerably influenced by their earliest education; and if we consider the superior susceptibility of women, and that exquisite sensibility, which so [Page 16]wonderfully dispose them to receive all impressions, and, in fact, have made so many of that sex, in different periods, and in various circumstances, martyrs to love, to friendship and devotion, it is reasonable to conclude, that, if they are defective in any rational attainments, it is for want of a judicious and timely cultivation. If a soul, so lodged, was not neglected, it would not be without its necessary excellences. If a mine so rich, was worked with skill and industry, it would reward its owner with as great a quantity of solid gold and treasure, as, now, it only mocks him with a light and superficial tinsel, that glitters on the eye [...] To censure them before we have made this experiment, is ungenerous anticipation. It is expecting to reap, where we have [Page 17]not sowed, and gather where we have not strewed.
Whether we look into foreign countries or our own, and whether into the ancient or modern histories of both, it will plainly appear that the instruction of women has engrossed but a little share of the publick attention; and, to a speculative mind, it may afford a moment's curious entertainment, if I endeavour to investigate the cause of this phaenomenon, why mankind have so uniformly neglected the heart and understanding of a creature, whose person has called forth their warmest panegyricks, and whose shrine they have approached with the richest incense of idolatry and adulation.
The happy age of our first parents in Eden is no subject of this contem [...]on. A state or intimate [Page 18]communion [...]th God supposes every possible degree of intellectual information. The knowlledge of both sexes issued immediately from the fountain of light, and, if it was not communicated in equal rays to both, our first father would be impelled by the combined workings of duty and affection, to make up, in the most insinuating manner, the difference to a woman, whom heaven had so lately given "as its last, best gift;" whom he had led "so sweetly blushing to the nuptial bower;" whom solitary haunts and familiar conversations must have riveted so very closely to his heart; whose unstudied innocence, and unartisicial charms must have poured a delicious rapture through his soul, who combined in her own person all the tenderest relationships, and monopolized all the [...]eliest names [Page 19]and attachments, and without whose society, all the fragrant shrubs, and fruits, and blossoms of his Paradise would have been but insipid and unanimated blessings.
So soon as we lose fight of Paradise (and alas! the golden prospect soon fades upon the eye) we trace the dawnings of shameful negligence to women. We discover the baneful operation of a system, which, insensible to their charms, and unmindful of the blessings which they pour upon society, has bound them in the fetters of an illiberal oppression. The earliest ages of the world are disfigured with a degrading treatment of this sex, which, notwithstanding all the allowance to be made for difference of manners, and primitive simplicity, necessarily involves but little moral culture, and less rational instruction. The sacred [Page 20]writings exhibit women, engaged in the most laborious and servile employments, tending flocks, carrying water and performing many other domestick drudgeries, which, whilst they strike us as unsuited to the dignity of their character, or the delicacy of their frame, evidently bespeak the very low estimation in which they were held.
The truth is, (and it is a first principle, to which we must often have recourse in the progress of thi [...] quiry) a considerable civili [...]ation must have taken place in any age or country, before the manners of women will be sufficiently captivating to raise our admit [...]ion, or before we ourselves shall ha [...] [...]ny susceptibility of their many little, [...]meless and delicate attractions. In the beginnings of society, such a politeness must be utterly unknown. It springs from [Page 21]a constant collision with* mankind, from that unrestrained intercourse with other people and country [...]s, which only an extended commerce is observed to open in any part of the world; and from the liberal cultivation of those arts and sciences, which, if they are not always nursed in the bosom of luxury, at least suppose a period of accumulated wealth. On this morning of the world such an aera had not dawned. The pastoral life and agriculture, as they supplied the wants, occupied the hours and bounded likewise the wishes of these primitive and undesigning men. Satisfied with a plain and [Page 22]frugal repast, they sighed not for riches, and never so much as dreamed of a commerce, which in maturer progressions of society, should spend its days, and nights and soul to accumulate, if possible, upon a single point, the treasures of the world. Ambition was, as yet, asleep, nor had Imagination opened to their dazzled view, its boundless regions of artificial pleasures, or artificial pains. Science was uncultivated, and taste was unborn; the manners of the men were proportionably coarse, and the women were unrefined. It was happy, indeed, for the latter, that they were so. If they had been otherwise, their sensibility must have shuddered at the lowness of their servitude, and the rigours of subjection.
Amongst the Aegyptians, who were celebrated for their learning, [Page 23]astronomy and Magi, women met with some partial and some distinguishing marks of attention. They were admitted to the publick lectures in philosophy; the laurel of science wa [...] not supposed improper for their brow; and, by a taste, unparalleled and unheard of in any other country, they wer-entrusted* with the management of negociations, of commercial interests and other publick undertakings. But this was erring in another ridiculous extreme. It 'was attempting to make them move in a sphere for which Nature never gave them talents, nor Providence designed them. This people had not discovered, from a rightly cultivated taste, the true and striking point of female perfection. The sort of [Page 24]knowledge, which these sages communicated, unmade the women* It raised her understanding on the [...]ain of her graces. An Aegyptian Lady does not captivate us in recollection, however, in such darker ages, she might shine. Such Heroines may dazzle in the page of history, but they are not the females, who in the stiller walks of life, attract us by their softness, and enchant us by their ease.
In the history of the Babylonians and Assyrians, we meet with little but conjectural hints, to direct our enquiry concerning the treatment or education of women. The ingenuity of the former appears in the working† of those [Page 25]carpets, hangings, embroidery &c. which might agreeably amuse the solitary, whilst it relieves the melancholy hour. Such a trait in the portrait, likewise, may convince us that riches and luxury had made considerable advances in this kingdom, and that minds, at rest from procuring the necessaries, could exhaust their most ingenious efforts on the elegances of life. It proves nothing of any moral culture directed to their hearts, or any efforts made to extend their understanding. One probable conclusion, however, it involves, that, in the bosom of luxury, we must not expect unvitiated women, any more than to discover firmness of nerves, or delicacy of features in the torrid zone. If this presumptive [Page 26]reasoning is not satisfactory, their* shocking and indelicate custom of collecting all their young, marriageable women, and disposing of their charms and person [...] by auction, whilst it brings a blush on every modest cheek, may abundantly convince us, that this people had but slender ideas of female importance, of any moral qualities in the sex, or any mental perfections.
The Medes and Persians afford us no specimens of any great partiality exercised to the fair. Still they groan under the rigour of the times. Still they are unmentioned, and still they are unknown; or if any of them, casually, pass in review before the eye of the inquisitive reader, it is only to shock [Page 27]him with the mention of a body, prostituted, at the call of a capricious tyrant, to a bestial degradation, or a mind abandoned to the grossest ignorance, neglect and disorder.
The luxury of the Assyrians was communicated to* the Medes; that of the Medes was transmitted to the Persians. The dissoluteness of the Persian court was, proverbially, flagrant. For a refinement of sensual gratification, kingdoms were ransacked, ingenuity was tortured, and a considerable reward§ offered to the person, who should extend the narrow boundaries of appetite, and possess the singular ability and address of inventing a new pleasure. Even the hardy, martial spirit of Alexander caught [Page 28]the luscious infection: and his sol diers, by dissolving, for a very little while, in the† Luxuries of the metropolis, had nearly lost that bravery and vigour, to which they owed all the glories of the field.
It would be hoping, therefore, against all hope, and doing violence to all the common principles of probability, to conclude that the females of such a country, or of such an aera, had any regular instruction. A mad, furious Savage, boldly intent on conquering the whole world, imposing his arbitrary edicts upon all, and binding, in equally inglorious fetters, their bodies and their minds; for the sake of a harlot, burning a magnificent city, and in a fit of drunkenness, murdering his nearest friend, affords but slender hopes of such a moral policy, or virtuous [Page 29]legislation, as would consult the less spacious, though more important interests and happiness of women. Universal savageness, in short, and a species of brutality disgrace these darker ages of the world; and very little mention is made of a sex, who could contribute nothing to the trophies of a Conqueror, to the extension of empire, of the splendours of a despotick throne. Women, in such a mode of calculation, were comparatively, cyphers; and, when they had produced a race of savage and of healthy warriors for the state, were supposed to have fulfilled the purposes of their existence, if they did not even possess one sentiment of the heart, or one illuminating ray of understanding.
After poring so long ever these dark ages, I congratulate, at once, myself and the reader on arriving [Page 30]at a period which History has irradiated with a clearer information. I mean the famous ages of Greece and Rome. Here we may expect the condition of women to assume a very different, and more chearing aspect. Here we may suppose their captivity will cease, and their trampled honour and dignity revive. But this, like many other illusive hopes, is only formed to be disappointed. It is one of those bright mornings which is quickly overcast with darkness and clouds.
It is certain the Greeks were the very patterns of every thing that could be charming and exquisite in taste. It breathed in their statues; it glowed in their paintings; it fascinated in their orators; it warms us with all the ardour of enthusiasm in their poets; and their writings are still the model [Page 31]of excellence to every refined and cultivated mind. To them the fine arts, in general, owe an exquisite perfection, which all succeeding ages emulate in vain. Still they wanted that true politeness and urbanity of manners, which extend to women all the delicate civilities, and all the flattering attentions.*
With their exquisite sensibility to every other sort of beauty, with a passion for seeing all her lifeless perfections, glowing on the canvas, they suffered, by an amazing kind of indifference, the charms of living women to wither in neglect. "and waste their sweetness on the desert air."
[Page 32] The truth is, eloquence and valour were the sole, exclusive ambition of the times. As yet, women had not emerged from a low and inglorious condition of servility. It was a still, unexploded system to shut them up from* society, and the consequences of this confinement were strongly discernible in the features of both the sexes. The men were rough and insolent; and the women, for want of a collision with their natural associates, had not every possible elegance to charm. Thus imbosomed in solitude, the manners of the Grecian Ladies might be pure, but they were not very captivating; their taste might be innocent, but it was not improved. Retirement gave them awkwardness; and awkwardness [Page 33]in its turn, denied them admiration.
As taste, however, gradually advanced, and knowledge made the feeling [...] exquisitely alive, the Greeks began ardently to pant for an intercourse with the sex: And, to the eternal disgrace of their morality, they found it in their courtezans. They gave to vice the distinctions of virtue, and offered, at the ignominious shrine of prostitutes, what should have been the unvarying rewards of merit, of delicacy and discretion.
In reality, it was not so much a matter of wickedness, as of taste. Whilst women of modesty were deprived of all advantages for improving themselves, these courtezans, by mixing in publick circles, had acquired all the interesting allurements [Page 34]and* attractions. Hence the unbound [...] [...]ions they received [...] most learned [...] a [...] their houses. Hence poets of the highest fame paid homage to their charms; and hence the most celebrated painters endeavoured to immortalize, with a licentious pencil, their merit and their graces! So true it is, that taste is not always, a concomitant of virtue; and that over a people, in certain periods of society, languishing with sensibility, and enfeebled in their morals, the brilliant accomplishments will have a greater influence, than all the virtues and good qualities united. Amongst such a people what was [Page 35]female Education? Whilst modesty was thus openly violated and shocked, where was moral discipline, culture and improvement?
The behaviour of the Romans to their women assumes a different aspect, according to the varying state of their taste, from the revolutions of their empire, the extension of their conquests, from their intercourse with other nations, and the progressive culture of knowledge, politeness and refinement.
At first, a hardy, warlike and heterogeneous race of men collected from the banditti of all places and countries, fired only with the passion of military glory, frugal in their taste and rigid in morals, they expected, and they experienced a* strong similarity of rigid [Page 36]qualities in their women, a faithful attention to domestick duties, an inviolable constancy and a submissive, unremitting attention. But their conduct to the sex was that of Despots to their slaves, unmixed with esteem, and unsoftened with affection. They never thought of treating wives, as their Equals, with the luxury of confidence, or the reciprocity of tender and* endearing conversation. If their women had but plain and homely virtue, it was all they desired. They left it to others, whose minds [Page 37]grasped at less than the conquest of the globe, to engage in so very effeminate an office, as that of nursing the embryo graces of their heart, or calling forth, by adequate encouragements, the native and unsuspected vigour of their understanding. Valour and a thirst for military glory, considerably swallowed up all the tender emotions; and, whilst to die for their country was the height of their ambition, they left it to the Quixotism of other times to expire for a woman. The heroism of those early ages* had not that agreeable accommodation [Page 38]in its manners, that gentleness in its nature, or humanity in its exercise, which later times have produced. Warriors had not tempered intrepidity with softness, nor courage with sensibility. They had not softened the forbidding portrait of the soldier with the milder graces of the citizen, the philosopher or the friend. A successful hero did not, then, invite a general he had vanquished, to partake of the social, elegant repast, prepared by politeness, and sweetened with a noble and a generous commiseration. Such a combination of, seemingly, opposite qualities, such a softening of the natural [Page 39]horrors of war, we certainly owe to the superior progress of modern civilization. It was an honour reserved for the conquerors of the present age, and will last, when the greenest of their laurels has decayed.
Occasional mention, indeed is made of some illustrious Roman* Ladies, who, by stooping from their dignity, to the painful and arduous office of forming youthful minds, did honour to humanity and to their sex. But this attention was, chiefly, lavished on the boys. It had only in contemplation the training up of orators or heroes for the state. Girls are not so much as mentioned in the account. They were silently abandoned to that untutored ignorance, [Page 40] [...] which Nature had produced them. Amongst this celebrated people, women were always thrown into the back ground of the piece. The picture, at large, was grouped with the laurels, and emblazoned with the trophies and atchievements of the men.
* As we approach farther into Roman civilization, a new page opens on us in the history of women. A revolution, similar to that of all other countries, in certain stages of society, took place in the treatment and manners of the sex. Dragged from a long and inglorious confinement, their patronage was courted, and their charms were admired. In a state of roused passion, and of inflamed imagination, as objects of pleasure, they had a temporary consequence. [Page 41]Asiatic luxury, imparted to [...] capital, viewed them as a part [...] sensual refinement; and, havi [...] exhausted all the other varied: [...] gions of sensuality for its gra [...] fication, wished at last to revel [...] their arms. But the sex are n [...] indebted to any age or count [...] for this kind of valuation. It insults their delicacy; it degra [...] their understanding, and has [...] most unhappy influence on th [...] fortunes and their taste.
* The manners of the Roman [...] quickly took the infection of t [...] times. In the hot bed of luxury, [...] their virtues and graces relaxe [...] Their modesty declined, their chas [...] ty became less tremblingly alive the unhallowed touch; and, by degrees, their delicacy lost its nati [...] [Page 42]fairness, till, at length, it was tinged with the darkest shades of indecency and vice. Never was the female character* more prostituted than at Rome. A reader, who enters on their history with admiration, is obliged to close it with amazement and regret.
Knowledge, which is, generally, seen in those epochs of society, when luxury has made considerable advances, dispensed, indeed, some of its favours on the sex. The Romans enumerate several illustrious women, whom science crowning with its greenest laurels, has preserved from that oblivion, which is, too generally, the portion of the sair. But they are mentioned, only to be disapproved by every person of sentiment and [Page 43]taste. Their attainments were of an enormous and improper kind; a dropsy in the understanding. Besides the reign of their talents was but short. It preceded but a little while, the extirpation of the Empire. The taper just shot forth an extraordinary blaze, before it was about to be extinguished forever.
Where, in short, shall we turn, or whither change the scene, to see women with no marks of degradation upon them, treated with respect, and educated, as rational and intelligent creatures? The greatest lawgivers and the brightest geniuses, that ever figured in antiquity,* Confucius, Zoroaster, [Page 44]Solon and Lycurgus, famed through the world for their extensive talents and wise legislation, have scarcely made one single decree in favour of this sex, excepting with some view, remote or immediate, to political advantage. In the prosecution of their favourite schemes of policy and of national greatness, they have considered them but as mere, passive instruments of an extensive population. Some of these Sages have done violence to their delicacy by the most immoral and arbitrary regulations. Their chastity has been violated; their modesty shocked, and the sacred tie of marriage modified and changed, as the ever fluctuating interests of society have seemed to require; and, with bodies to answer all political purposes, very little thought has been lavished on their minds.
[Page 45] * Though in the ages of Chivalry, women received a kind of adoration, and numbered in their service, such a pompous crowd of heroes, warriors and knights, yet this appears not to have proceeded from that heart felt esteem, which is conferred on intrinsick merit, or an elevated understanding. In fact, they were distinguished merely for their sex. Because it was the fashion, they were courted as objects of a romantick protection, and as instruments of a ridiculous, and visionary honour. And, though, when this rage expired, their abilities were carried to an extraordinary height, under the powerful workings of an unnatural enthusiasm, they were but disgusting monuments of talents misapplied, [Page 46]and of taste misdirected. A* woman, issuing out laws, disputing in philosophy, [...]ranguing the Pope in Latin, writing Greek, studying Hebrew, commencing Theologian, and preaching in publick, may be a literary heroine, that challenges our wonder, but has nothing of that softness, timidity and reserve, which, in that sex, so powerfully captivate our hearts, and inchant our imaginations.
§ To this spirit of chivalry, however, the women owe an eternal obligation. It was this which called them forth from confinement and obscurity into publick [Page 47]attention. It was this, which has given birth to that species of gallantry, which, moulded as it has been by increasing knowledge, still, in a greater or a less degree, pervades every part of the continent of Europe. It is this, which, by giving them a collision with society, has wonderfully heightened all their graces and their charms; which has appropriated to them no inconsiderable rank in civilized society, and made the strength and consequence of the other sex, fashionably, subservient to their ease and their protection. Highly as we think of our gallantry and politeness, they have issued from this northern source. From Barbarians we have learned complaisance to the sex, if not to instruct them.
Whilst the institution of Chivalry rendered women of such unusual consequence, and celebrated [Page 48]all their charms with eulogies in Europe, a Lawgiver and a Religion had sprung up in Asia, which rigidly doomed them to an inglorious confinement, as mere objects of a sensual and fugitive delight. This slavery and this confinement, time has not altered. The customs of the* Orientals are, in general, as unchangeable as the rocks, which surround them. The increasing humanity and learning of the times have not yet been able to penetrate into the East, or give this injured sex the shadow of relief. Instead of consulting the improvement of their minds, their tyrants and adorers expect nothing from them, but to give their persons every perfume, and every luscious advantage, that may communicate a [Page 49]higher zest to an indelicate moment, and heighten the luxury of mere, animal indulgence. As if they had no souls, they are treated but as brutes of a superior order. Even their very virtue is rendered involuntary; their distresses are unpitied, and their signs are unheard.
In Africa, or the wilds of America, it is vain to expect a better fate, or a more respectful attention to females. Savages of all countries, indolent and cruel, take advantage of superior* strength to oppress the weaker sex, and blind them in the fetters of slavery and subordination. In some of these countries, the hardships of women are grievous beyond all possible description. In one place‡ treated [Page 50]as beasts of burden, carrying to the war their children, hammocks and provisions on their backs; in another, though nominally united to Sovereigns, yet performing* the drudgeries of common slaves; in a third, permitted† to appear, only, in a kneeling posture, in the presence of their Lords; in a fourth,‡ hired out for the wages of prostitution; here, sold like cattle, to the§ highest bidders in a publick market; and there, doomed, when nature has pronounced them incapable of bearing children, to‖ be put to death, what heart of tenderness relents [Page 51]not at their lot? What mind of delicacy does not shudder at the prospect? But, destitute of knowledge, and devoid of sensibility, the cruel* savage beholds such sufferings with a stupid unconcern, and would load a single murmur of an oppressed sex, with a redoubled oppression.
Hitherto I have placed the cause of female neglect in the want of a proper civilization and refinement, and considered it as resulting from a particular stage of society and manners. I have been reviewing periods and nations, in which a savage barbarism or an ardent thirst of extending dominion was considered as the essence of wisdom and of glory. I have been speculating, at leisure, on the conduct of men, uninfluenced by [Page 52]religious sentiments and unenlightened by the gospel. If, therefore, we have blamed their treatment of this sex, their criminality is considerably alleviated by their ignorance, and those very physical causes, which produced, palliate the moral guilt, which would, otherwise, attend it. We pity women; and, from views more enlarged than their despots had, we even pity or forgive their oppressors. If the first were degraded, insulted or enslaved, candour pleads in favour of the latter, that no proper sense of duty operated on their conscience; that revelation had not dissipated their intellectual darkness, or pointed out the awful consequences of actions; and that they did not know the richness or the value of the jewel they despised.
[Page 53] But when we come to countries and aeras, when all the secondary causes of advanced knowledge, taste and civilization combine with that, which should always be the first (I mean religious principle) to give women every possible advantage of moral discipline and cultivation; when, as men valuing themselves on their refinement, we should deny no attentions to this weaker sex, and, as Christians, [...]e taught that they, like all oth [...] [...] man creatures, are of infinite consequence in the sight of heaven; that they are gifted with the treasure of an immortal soul; that they are training for eternal happiness or misery; that the awful alternative will very much depend on their present education; and that the care of it, therefore, is the highest duty, that can possibly engage the parental solicitude—with [Page 54]these phy [...]l advantages—these suggestions of conscience—and these powerful impressions of religion on the mind—what can be said, if any negligence is still observable to those, who, at the same time, are confessedly the fairest and most elegant part of the creation; who bear and nurse our offsprings, are admitted to our bosoms, alleviate our cares; who, by their gentleness, compose the agitations of our minds, and are formed to contribute to all the delicate pleasures and transports of life? What pleas can we offer to extenuate our guilt? What evasions can we make at the tribunal of reason or of Heaven, and what more than even savage insensibility must darken our characters with an indelible disgrace.
The condition of women in England, no doubt, may justly be [Page 55]pronounced to be supremely happy, if we compare it with what that of many females has been in some of the ages, that have just passed in review before us, or what it is, at present, in most countries of the world. They have certainly, in their allotment here, as many obvious advantages, over women in general, as Nature has given them a marked superiority of personal beauty, figure and attractions. If Europe has been called the Paradise of the sex, Britain seems to be the choicest spot of this Paradise, in which the sovereign Former has deigned to place the fairest of the fair, and munificently, to distil, upon their favoured heads, the richest of his sweets. In a happy, and enviable temperature of climate, in the riches of commerce, in the improvement of the arts, in the blessings of liberty, [Page 56]and of a religion purified from bigotry on the one hand, and fanaticism on the other, they are, doubtless, equal partakers with ourselves. Nor in the present scale of society, do British ladies want considerable weight. Is it the fashion of the times to pay them attentions; and gallantry is planning honours for itself, when it seems only studious to decorate the brows, and to enhance the consequence of women. Incivility to a female, however frivolous, would, in modern estimation, redound upon its author, however distinguished; and even men of rigid principles are led, almost mechanically, to heap flattering compliments and encomiums upon women, for which their private judgment does not always find a claim in their hearts or understanding. Still if this sex could [Page 57]diseriminate nicely, and would divest themselves of an infatuating vanity, perhaps they would discover, that even all this amounts not to a rational or an adequate attention.
Is it not a strong impulse of passion, that suggests such smooth things? Is it not a selfish vanity, that would be called polite, and stand well with the sex? Is it not a studious accommodation of ourselves to (what we conceive) their frivolous sentiments and taste? Is it not a policy, which shrinks from their censure, and would not wholly sacrifice their applause and admiration? Is it not the mechanical influence of manners, unaccompanied with any correspondent conviction, or is it not a motley figure, composed of all these different materials, which we offer at their shrine, without any very high opinion [Page 58]of the sex, or any proper [...]timation.
It the Ladies knew what unreserved observations, we make upon them, in their absence, and what degrading liberties are taken with their characters, particularly by those, who offer them, when present, the most fulsome adulation, they would know, that this is a necessary caution, and they would learn to distinguish a supersicial politeness from a real respect. If they would reason justly, they might soon be undeceived. They might conclude from the very face of their prevailing education, that we wish them to bewitch our senses by their beauty and accomplishments, instead of securing our love and our esteem by any solid qualities or any rational acquirements.
[Page 59] But let us carefully analyze this subject. Let us come to first principles, and reason from facts.
Till of late years, a very remarkable negligence prevailed in the culture of their understanding.
It requires no violent effort of memory to recall the period, when there were females, and of no trifling rank, that were not able to compose or even spell a letter with propriety; and though of late, this defect has been considerably remedied, yet how insufficient is the education, which we still, generally give them to fit them to be prudent mothers, sensible companions, wise and valuable members of society, or (what is most of all) thoughtful and religious christians? As soon as they are born, we consign them over to the care of a mercenary nurse who infuses, with her milk, [Page 60]the illiberality of her mind, the ruggedness of her temper, and the p [...]p [...]le diseases of her constitution, and, when they are of age to discriminate, and lay in a stock of ideas, we fend them to a boarding school to learn, what? Musick, dancing, accomplishments, dissipation and intrigue—every thing but solid knowledge—every thing but humility—every thing but piety—every thing but virtue?
Is this an adequate discharge of the parental (that is) the highest of all christian and social duties? Can a mother easily acquit her conscience, if a girl thus vitiated from her early years, becomes the slave of folly, the plaything of fashion, the dupe, as she grows up, of some insidious villain, or, at least, the insipid poisoner of a connexion, that promised every [Page 61]sweet and every blessing? When such a mother lies upon her deathbed, will she feel no melancholy regret for a daughter's past, and no dreadful anticipation of her future indiscretions? Can she bid her the last adieu with a composed heart, and will not these words dart, like a sunbeam, on her awakened conscience, ‘And thou shalt teach these statutes diligently unto thy children, (of these surely daughters are a part) and shalt talk of them, when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down and when thou risest up?’
There are, doubtless, many exceptions to be made of parents, who are studiously and religiously attentive to this important duty. The Queen of these realms is an illustrious instance. Amidst all [Page 62]th [...] incir [...]ling cares of greatness and the enchantments of a throne, she has never forgotten, even for a moment, the tenderest or the minutest attentions of a mother. Her royal daughters do honour to her efforts and proclaim her success. Strangers and foreigners are captivated with their persons, but they who know them best, declare that they discover still superior charms in their hearts and understanding. Group them in one part, as cultivating laudable improvements of the mind, reading the best authors, proficients in the belles lettres, and conversant with the studies, which particularly interest and ornament their sex, Geography, Astronomy, Natural History, Poetry, &c. in another, as excelling in all the creative efforts of the needle, fancy work, flowering, embroidery, &c. and [Page 63]you will have a beautiful picture before* you, that exhibits woman in her zenith of perfection, and will be viewed with admiration, by the latest posterity, when all the little earthly distinctions of royalty are fled.
Nor do I wish to deny the merit of those few, who have even handled the pen upon this subject. I am ready to acknowledge every attention bestowed on the sex, by the labours of a Halifax, by the the sensible and religious observations of a Chapone, and the more elegant and judicious sketches of a Gregory. The present writings of Madame la Comtesse de Genlis are a treasure to young Ladies. And I review, not without a singular pleasure, the great and ever pious Fenelon, esteeming it a [...]st [Page 64]the highest of his pastoral cares, to become as well by his pen, as his discourses, the religious guardian and instructor of women; whilst the spectators, tattlers, the guardian, the world, the rambler, in their respective times, must be confessed to have attended, in many excellent, fugitive pieces of raillery and of seriousness, to their knowledge and improvement. Still a few examples, to the contrary, do not affect a general observation. Such a partial remedy is not calculated to remove the malignant disorder. Even royal virtue, in this instance, has not spread with so diffusive a rapidity, as would probably, have attended royal indiscretion.
It may be said, that England justly boasts many literary women. True. But who can say that they are not so many prodigies in their [Page 65]species, or that general rules admit not of exceptions? There are uncommon me [...]eors in the planetary world. There are eccentrick bodies in the heavens, which challenge our amazement. There are females, enriched with an etherial spirit, which mounts up to its kindred skies. I wish not to deny the fame of a Graham, the knowledge of a Carter, or to pluck one single, well earned laurel from the temples of a Seward. But prodigies of female genius do not prove at all, the general state of female talents, or the ordinary level of female understanding. I would ask, at the same time, whether, for one of these cultivated few, we have not thousands of an opposite description, unlettered and unread.
Besides, I am not arguing for these great attainments. I am only contending for that degree of cult [...]e, [Page 66]and, particularly, of m [...] culture, which shall conven [...]tly incorporate with the mass of common duties; which shall administer a proper share of principles and taste, and, whilst it does not exalt a woman to an unnatural and invidious eminence, does not depress her to an abject state of frivolousness, insipidity and contempt.
Though the* French Ladies, by being educated in convents, and there relieving the uniformity and loneliness of their prison with entertaining books, and afterwards by a constant intercourse with the other sex, have acquired considerable knowledge and refinement, yet what principles of just morality or decorum can have been graven on their hearts, when their characteris [...]k [Page 67]feature is levity, and fashion is int [...]gue? It is obvious to any discerning observer, that female literature, in this country, is swelled beyond its natural dimensions. To sit as judges upon literary productions, is intruding on the prerogative of the other sex. I want not a plethora, but a sound and undistended state of the female understanding; and if a woman had every thing that glitters in knowledge, or fascinates in taste, what comfort would she administer to the possessor of her person, if he could not rely on the tenderness of her friendship, and the sincerity of her affection? To trust graces with such women, is putting weapons into the hands of one, who is intoxicated or insane. To give the charms of knowledge, is only furnishing incentives for a speedier seduction. It is laying thorns under pillows, [Page 68]that thould have down; and it is cou [...]ting ease in the bosom of vexation.
France, indeed, is so far from being any proper model of female education, that I conceive it to be the vitiated taste of this people, which, set off with a graceful and bewitching manner, has infected many other countries of Europe, but particularly, our own, and overwhelmed them, at least, with a deluge of frivolity, if not of crimes.
The levity, or (to speak in softer terms) the vivacity of this people, arising from air, climate, food, education, government, frequency and peculiar kind* of intercourse, and unchecked by a religion, that is contrived to be made very easy [Page 69]to the conscience,* has burst those [...]ber barriers, which either principle or delicacy would impose, and, and where the female sex are concerned, thinks of and studies nothing, but the graces.
In this school, a Chesterfield learned his art of profound dissimulation. From such originals, he took his disgusting portraits of the whole sex. From this source, principally, issues the impure stream of British indiscretion, intrigue and infidelity.
In proportion as our people of quality have been connected with the French, they have imbibed their [Page 70]maxims. Morals have been sacrificed to graces, principles to politeness. Hence the fashionable mode amongst ladies of high taste, is to be frank and easy. Hence a system, which calls delicacy, prudishness; and reserve, the unweildy incumbrance of a gothick age, though a celebrated writer has, somewhere, remarked, that ‘"There's no woman, where there's no reserve."’
* The depraved education of females in Italy, is abundantly obvious from every page of their writers. We trace it sufficiently in the prevalence of a ridiculous custom, [Page 71]which, affecting all the quixotism of platonick, fosters at least, the strong suspicion of indulgence to the impurest love; a custom, which degrades a husband into the mere, passive, uncomplaining beholders of nameless indiscretions; which represents a woman as the dupe of a foolish, visionary refinement, the slave of vanity, or of still more criminal and indelicate desires; and which under the pretensions of subliming sentiment, counteracts the visible appointment of providence, and robs the happiest connexion in the world, of all its reciprocal confidence and sweets. How is it that such a vision has not, long since, disappeared in the cultivation of philosophy, and the progress of civilization? In what future, happy era shall the sun of reason shine, uneclipsed, on the fair inhabitants of this enviable, and delicious, quarter of the globe? When shall a religion, purified from absurdity, whisper with success, [Page 72]this plain and obvious article of its creed, in their ears, that marriage is the providential tie of one man to one woman, for their mutual society, comfort and assistance? When their education is more rational. they will know the [...]r true dignity. When they understand their true dignity, they will seek, at once, their happiness and their honour in the sole exclusive friendship and attentions of the man, to whom they have already disposed of their hands, and should, at the same time, have given their affection. Their present system of culture and maxims, is absurd in the extreme; an injury to the other sex, a libel upon their own. It is a mortal, grasping at the clouds. Or, in a truer sense, it is Vanity, tissued with indelicacy and with guilt.
In Spain,* whether the true spirit of philosophy has never yet been [Page 73]able to penetrate, and where the bigotry of a dark and clogging religion still reigns in all its force, we* are delighted with the sight of many beautiful women, but have no pleasure from contemplating their character or education. We view their persons and are charmed; we survey their minds and prejudices, and turn away disgusted and amazed.
On the minds of this people, the ancient rage of Knight Errantry has, still, left such a wild and romantick enthusiasm, that a woman, happening to be left alone with a man, would consider herself as highly neglected, if a sensibility to her charms did not prompt him to such indecent liberties with her person, as the females [Page 74]of most other countries would esteem an indignity, and think them selves obliged to punish with eternal resentment.
With such sentiments, how fallen and how undesirable is Woman! In such a country, what can be her culture! Under the tyranny of such notions, what the pleasures she is able to bestow! Can they be mixed with confidence, can they be relished by the heart? What sweet flowers perish in such a clime, for want of expansion? What rich and what luxuriant boughs spread around their possessors, only a moping and a melancholy darkness, which, if they were judiciously pruned and directed, might serve to furnish out a most agreeable shade to refresh and enliven all their retirements. From the high soul'd enthusiasm [Page 75]of Spanish Ladies, under proper regulations, what might not be expected?
The great and despotic Frederick, a prodigy of talents, boundless in his genius, and restless in his schemes, in a very long life, that has been still more extended by continual exertions, has done nothing over his extensive dominions, that evinces any great attentions to the sex. They are much in the same predicament of ignorance and frivolity here, as in many other quarters of the globe: The* only creatures of his kingdom that have not shared in the benefits of his political greatness, and his wise legislation.
[Page 76] What advantages they have enjoyed, have arisen from pure, physical causes of society and manners, unconnected with any moral force from religion, or any political edicts from the throne.
Like other great warriors, the King of Prussia has been swallowed up with views, of too immense a nature, to attend, in any great degree, to the softness, to the charms and blandishments of woman. Unlike some other heroes, he seems to have experienced little even of the physical instinct, that attaches to the sex; like many other great and insulting Legislators, he has studied more the fecundity of their nature, than the formation of their minds; through his territories, rewards have been offered to women, who were pregnant with an offspring, that matrimony has [Page 77]not legitimated* with its sacred rites; the interests of morality, he has not scrupled to sacrifice to those of population; and though with a mind, that grasped at universal knowledge, and unlimited fame, his palace at Sans Souci, has been the hospitable retreat of† literary men, poets and philosophers, [Page 78]seems not to have entertained one single thought of calling forth the dormant abilities of women. Too little or too frivolous to engage his notice, they have not been so happy as to experience his protection.
The Emperor, bent as he seems on universal reformation, aiming, with an enlightened mind and an enlarged philosophy, to found a powerful and an extensive empire, on the ruins of an absurd and desolating religion, appears not, any more than his illustrious neighbour, the patron of this sex. Amongst the various projects of his inventive fancy, and his restless, ambitious mind, female culture has not been dignified with a place; and, if monasteries are no longer to immure in chains and darkness, the weeping or misguided fair, it [Page 79]is not that they may become inteligent companions, or diffuse a soster charm and lustre on society; but only that they may turn out more prolific mothers, and more robust and healthy nurses of embryo heroes, warriors, politicians, subjects and servants, to carry on his vast and complicated schemes. Still their value is placed in their persons; still their milky bosoms are supposed to comprise all their virtues and their charms.
Over* the immense territory of Russia, a darkness and a barbarism have, hitherto, prevailed, which obstruct every idea of female, or indeed any other species of cultivation. In a country, where the Clergy themselves have been represented [Page 80]as palpably¶ ignorant, little information can be supposed to have dawned on the bulk of the people. In an empire of so much savageness, where, not very long ago, even punishments of the† most indelicate nature were inflicted upon females, where, the, spirit of their religion forbids all enquiry, and the throne rests most securely on the basis of ignorance, it would be contrary to one of my grand positions, that women should rise into any great degree of consequence or notice. And though the present adventuring spirit of the Empress wishes to make Petersburgh the residence of the‡ [Page 81]arts, civilization and politeness, yet there is little in her character to encourage the hope of any great attention* to the women of her kingdom. Herself wanting true, female taste, she is not likely to issue forth the laws, which regulate and enforce it. A great and uncommon heroine, she seems to know little of those charming graces, timidities and delicacies, which culture should call forth in woman, and encouragements should ripen; her portrait is made up of all the glowing colours, [Page 82]without any softening shades from the mild and the attractive. She may be a great woman, and the wonder of the North; but she is not a Charlotte, more beloved, than feared; a pattern of graces and virtues to her sex, and infinitely more distinguished by these, than all the splendors of her throne.
One wonder strikes us on the whole of this investigation. Whilst the Christian religion is professed in these kingdoms, whither is its spirit fled? Under all its varying forms and ceremonials, what becomes of its actuating principles, of its spirit and its power?
The truth is, Christianity is the proteus image of every varying country and taste, debased with the impurest mixtures of men; now shackled with superstition, then as falsely sublimed by fanaticism; often [Page 83]forging chains for the person or the conscience: Always made subservient to the established polity; seldom enlightened or strong enough to influence the conduct, and as rarely looking to the real happiness or interests of mankind.
I will not shock the reader, or any longer exhaust his patience with the horrid pictures I could draw* of Danish,† Polish, or‡ Swedish women. If I was disposed for it, a rich abundance of materials is at hand, to convince him that in none of the last recited countries, the condition of women is at all less unhappy, or the clouds of their oppression and ignorance dispersed. Enough has been said to evince their general degradation and neglect. The fact [Page 84]is too notorious to be mistaken, and too strong to be controverted. Even in the most civilized kingdoms, women, in the same moment, are courted and despised. With an exquisite organization, lively passions and a happy imagination, that give a disposition for most talents, and for every virtue, we train them up to be FRIVOLOUS and INSIPID; and, whilst we rob the shade of all its sweetest comforts, are doing injuries to society, that can never be repaired.
ESSAY II.
QUID DE [...]AT, QUID NON, QUO VIRIUS QUO FE [...]AT ERROR.—
* THAT the passions were implanted in us by the Deity, as the springs of all our actions, and are [Page 86]therefore, in a certain degree, innocent and lawful, is too obvious a doctrine, in the theory of morals, to need any illustration.
Amongst these passions, the love of the other sex is infinitely the strongest and the most universal; and by operating at a time of life, when the character and habits are most essentially affected, has given rise to the greatest revolutions in society, and to some of the most extraordinary incidents of common life.
To touch upon the subject of love, is gliding with an electrick force and quickness, into every bosom. The description of it never fails to create an universal interest, or to arrest the general attention, [Page 87]whether we read its progress, its adventures and its revolutions in the sublime and dignified language of history, in the patherick tragedy, in the visionary novel, or hear it only glanced at in the casy and familiar play of social conversation. To the old, it recalls, in an agreeable manner, early glowing fondnesses, and early scenes, which the chilliness of years, only, now, permits Imagination to enjoy; whilst younger people with a rapture, that thrills on all their finest sensibilities, apply the picture, thus gratefully exhibited, to the nearest and the dearest favourite of their hearts.
Love, like all other passions, has suffered in the wrong opinions, and the perverse representations of different men. Libertines have degraded it into downright brutality, [Page 88]forgetting that sentiment is a part of our frame, and that we are something raised above the groveling nature of the beasts that perish.§ Platonists, on the other hand, have refined it into an abstracted [Page 89]union of souls, independent of matter, as if we were pure, disembodied spirits, or as if the physical instinct, for the propagation of the species, had not been implanted in us by a Being, who never errs; whilst a gloomy religion, ever intent on its own power, emoluments and grandeur, has exalted vows of continence and perpetual virginity into an high degree of sanctity, and esteemed it meritorious to triumph over feelings which a God of purity and perfection had ordained.
I need not enter on a serious refutation of opinions which carry their own absurdity on their forehead. The creed of libertines is contrary to every dictate of reason, conscience, religion and to every principle of sound policy and wise legislation. It militates, in the [Page 90]strongest manner, against that wise appointment of providence, which, obviously, from the near equality of numbers, designed to appropriate one woman to one man. It strikes at the root of a sacred connexion, which is the parent of every social and tender relationship, the replenisher of private families, and the storehouse of the state. It would destroy, at least, the happiness of an union, whose very essence is reciprocal confidence, and reciprocal esteem; a train of children to be rationally and religiously educated by those, who discern in their features, and would impress upon their manners, a resemblance of their own. And it would, ultimately, be subversive of that increase of population, which the commerce of the sexes was designed to promote.
[Page 91] The second opinion is too visionary too be noticed; an attempt at being angels in this tabernacle of clay, and an attempt, which has generally sunk its abettors as much below the point of their real dignity and excellence, as they had raised themselves above it in airy speculation. These purest of the pure have betrayed frailties, which the pride of their philosophy forbad them to confess; their* spirit has wonderfully amalgamated with matter, and a friendship formed, seemingly, in heaven, (by what they have called a sympathy of souls,) has been impurely consummated on earth, whilst nature has asserted her trampled rights over the devotees of a particular [Page 92]church by telling all the world in the anecdotes of history, that they have only substituted the stolen debaucheries and excesses of a convent, for the pure and hallowed pleasures of the marriage bed.
Nothing but a sound and comprehensive philosophy, grounded on the principles of nature and of truth, will ever stand the test of experience, or of a critical investigation. All other notions of this passion, not founded in such philosophy, will quickly disappear with the authors, who abet them. The frothy bubble bursts, as soon as it is handled. The cobweb system is deranged by the touch of life. Love is a passion, not to be cradicated, but only to be properly regulated and controuled. And it will always rage with a violence in [Page 93] private, proportioned to the unnatural restraint laid on it before the public eye. Priestcraft and fanaticism may appear to have totally extinguished the flame; but the embers will revive with the first gale of opportunity, and the fire will consume happiness and morals.
This passion of love will always receive its particular form and modification from the peculiar circumstances of rudeness or civilization, from the particular climate, government, religion and temperament of the people, amongst whom it is found. The mode, in which love is considered, will always prescribe the method of treating women, who are the objects of it. The light, in which females are viewed, whether of respectability or degradation, will [Page 94]produce their particular kind of education. Their education will principally form their character and manners; and, if we consider the strong and universal force of this passion, the manners and characters of women will have the strongest reciprocal influence on the pursuits and habits, on the complexion and the taste, on the private and the publick happiness of any people.
This sympathy for the other sex is then in its proper state of vigour and perfection, when, to that ardour of passion, which is directed to their persons, we join a tenderness of sentiment, which esteems them as companions, as formed to soften the sorrows and misfortunes, and to communicate a zest, an elevation and a poignancy to all the real pleasures and [Page 95]enjoyments of life. The first of these causes multiplies the species and extends population; the latter tissues animal with rational, sentiment with sensation, and makes the knowledge and understanding of the man rise above the g [...]ossness and stupidity of the brute.
Such a rational and proper sentiment of women will not be the produce of every age, or of every situation. Many happy circumstances must concur to produce and cherish it. The first and latest stages of society, in any country, will not be propitious to its growth. It is but in a certain state of manners, that it will vegetate or spring Rudeness is a frost, which nips it in the bud, and, under the scorching sun of extreme refinement, it gradually dies. It is very late in [Page 96]making its appearance, and, like other of the sweetest flowers of mortality, it is but for an hour. It wholly depends upon the state of kingdoms; and kingdoms never long "continue in one stay."
It has occurred, in the course of the former essay, how savages treat women. Love, with them, is mere animal instinct. It has nothing of sentiment in its groveling composition; and they gratify it with as little ceremony, as their hunger or their thirst.
Women, in such places, and such aeras of society, are the mere involuntary slaves* of their despots. [Page 97]Their charms do not appear of sufficient consequence to instigate the desire of an exclusive appropriation. Every comer is admitted to their bosoms; and a bosom, struggling with indiscriminate violence, feels no preference, and can know no distinction.
As society emerges from the infancy of rudeness into some degree of form, the idea of property [Page 98]of every species will begin to prevail, and women will be included in the estimation. That desire, which has lavished on the sex at large, will be confined to a few. Considering females, as a species of treasure, a man will wish to become the sole, exclusive proprietor of one or more of them, as of any other object, according to the laws and circumstances of his country. The same taste, which appropriates a fine garden or an estate, will prompt him to fill his little ser [...]glio with the fairest of the fair.
When any people have arrived to a certain degree of knowledge, civilization and politeness, women will have all that rational consequence, which I have described. The finest feelings of the soul will vibrate to their charms, their delicacy [Page 99]will inspire attention; their weakness will be the strongest claim to protection. Love and friendship will bow at their shrine, and offer them that mingled tribute of sentiment and of desire, which is alone worth their acceptance. The virtue of such an era will both produce and preserve the purity of their morals, and the purity of their morals will be reflected back on the honour, the existence, and prosperity of such a state. This will be the golden age of the sex. It will be the epoch of their triumphs, and their conquests.
I know not whether this idea may be overstrained, and drawn beyond the line of human imperfection; but, in revolving over the history of the world, I feel myself inclined to doubt, whether [Page 100]a period has ever existed, it does not appear in the annals of* antiquity. It is not visible in the present face of Europe. Has it been in the past?
As prosperity and riches increase in a kingdom, the morals of the women, like those of the other sex will not fail to suffer in the general corruption. Passions, heated by excesses, and unrestrained by religious principles, will be violent and ungovernable; and that luxury, which seeks every other sensual pleasure, will not fail to dissolve in that, which is confessedly the highest species of animal gratification. Licentious writings, (the produce of so rank an era) [Page 101]Romances Novels, Pictures, and the varied, indelicate representations of the stage* will accelerate [Page 102]the last convulsions of virtue, and smother the just expiring embers of female reserve. An enervated body in the sex cannot long resist this extraordinary ferment. An enfeebled mind will not have vigour to struggle with temptation. Marriage will be a burthensome, and intolerable restraint on a roving inclination. Inconstancy will [Page 103]be frequent, and divorces sued for as the only resource, however poor, and however disgraceful, from an unhappy connexion. A vagrant, ever restless appetite will pant for variety. Libertinism will erect its desolating standard on the ruins of delicacy; and, in the general perversion of taste, chastity will become an unfashionable virtue. Such have been most nations of antiquity in a certain stage and progression of their empire. Such were Nineveh, Babylon, Tyre, Athens, Rome, in the accumulation of successes; and (not to mention other invidious instances) such in some degree, at the present moment, is the prosperous and opulent island of Greatbritain.
The absurd and romantick spirit of Chivalry never yet totally extinguished, which pays unmeaning compliments, where it feels no esteem, in conjunction with the other causes, which have been enumerated, [Page 104]composes that motley mixture of attention and neglect, of flattery and contempt, of homage and of insult which we extend to the fair. For in fact, whatever a cold hearted politeness says, or the affectation of sensibility may pretend to feel, women in this country, by the majority of men, are considered but as instruments of vanity and pleasure. Our love is chiefly fashion, mixed with a considerable portion of ingredient, which it would be improper and indelicate to name. The latter we gratify with those unhappy creatures, whose ruined character requires no reparation; and for the first, we shift attentions, in an endless rotation, with those more illustrious names, whose fashionableness can give eclat and dignity to our choice, and whose fortune has propitiously placed them in a rank to resent our seductions. Our eulogies have no sincerity; our attachments [Page 105]have no ardour, no constancy, no zest; we seek a pleasure from the sex, but we do not find it, because it is not sought in the qualities of the heart.
What but this strange opinion of women, sanctified by fashion, and connived at by our penal laws, could have emboldened the worthless and puny libertine to boast of his triumphs over the innocence of a credulous and tender sex, whose honour it is certainly his business to guard, and whose delicacy to protect? What but the idea of a fashionable consequence annexed to intrigue, and of credit resulting from a multiplicity of amours, could have qualified, with any accommodating softness, the natural horrors, indecency and guilt of violating the marriage bed? What other cause could have effectually skreened either of these characters from the universal odium and infamy they deserve? And what else [Page 106]could have induced an injured and insulted sex particularly to caress these assassins of their peace, and to consider the number of seductions in a man, as so many scar [...] of glory, gained in the field of love, which entitled him to superior notice and distinction.
I need not stop, a moment, to enumerate the evils (for they occurred in the beginning of this essay) resulting from such a taste. An absolute dissolution, a weakening, or a total prevention of that union which is the very bond and cement of society; suspicion substituted into the room of confidence, inconstancy of attachment; vague and criminal pleasures, which communicate disease, which hinder propagation, and suppose a total absence of sentiment and esteem; a youth emaciated from early excesses, without principles, without constitutions and without love, leave a nation nothing to expect but a race [Page 107]of puny, spiritless creatures, ill prepared to become the defenders of their country, and bearing, on their very characters and faces, every foreboding symptom of its approaching dissolution.
With this sentiment of women, we are cautious to give them a corresponding education. It is wholly turned on vanity and trifles, calculated only to embellish those persons, which we wish to enjoy; to feed that vanity, over which we mean to triumph, and to observe that abjectness and inferiority of mind, which are favourable to oppression. Person and manner are the great object in the education of this sex. To render the one beautiful, and the other enchanting, are our highest care. This in general, is the employment of the governess. To this are devoted all the labours of the toilet. To this are consecrated their mornings, and their days. The consequence is, [Page 108]that they dazzle or inflame the senses, but convey no joy or relish to the heart. The artificial flower has no smell or essence! The painted statue has no soul or animation.
The company of women, whatever may be their taste, will always, in a greater or less degree, be courted by the other sex. With the vain and fashionable, it has passed into a system, to devote a very considerable portion of his hours to the fair, and it is generally esteemed a necessary step to politeness and the graces.
I shall not stop a moment to examine the truth or fallacy of this opinion. Suffice it to remark, that in this intercourse all young men indiscriminately, will endeavour to please. In order to be agreeable, they must have such qualities, as captivate the sex and converse upon subjects, in which they are interested. What is this conversation? [Page 109]The* little anecdotes of the day; the last intrigue or amour which publick fame has glanced at, or some well informed friend has confidentially whispered; the brilliance of a birth night; the adventures of a ball; or which is most to be preferred in colours, lilach or peagreen. The man who attempted to change the ton of such a conversation, and substitute in its stead, any thing of science, or any thing of taste, would be esteemed an horrid boor,‡ unfit for [Page 110] polite or rational society, to be exposed with ridicule, and branded with contempt.
In this career of gallantry, much time must be spent, and, in that precious and important season of life, when the foundations of every thing great should be laid, when activity should be roused, when talents should be ripened, and when the thirst of glory should be felt, as the grand and stimulating movement of the foul. With men of finished gaiety, scarcely is a little life sufficient for the purpose. Attention and attachment must be varied and multiplied in an endless succession. This fair one must be forsaken, and another must be addressed. [Page 111]It were horrid to be constant, where variety is the fashion, where fashion only gives the laurel of distinction, and adjudge [...] it to sit most gracefully, upon the brow [...] of those, who can make their ravages amongst the sex, diffusive as their connexions.
Nor is the loss of time the only disadvantage, arising from this system. The propensities it gives are unfavourable to every great and magnanimous exertion.
Young men become insensibly assimilated to the frivolousness they address, and affect to admire; and that frivolousness extends itself to all their habits and modes of thinking, to all their designs and all their undertakings, to all their actions and intercourse with the world. They get modes of levity, effeminacy and dissipation, which [Page 112]are equally incompatible with the acquirement of science, or the laborious efforts of virtue. Their pursuits of every kind will be marked with this frivolity. The youth, which should be the glory of a nation, will become its reproach. Instead of climbing, with arduous labour, the sacred hill of virtue or of learning, they will endeavour to transform and remodify their nature, and take up with such imperfect fragments of both, as they are able to find in the bosom of pleasure, or the inglorious vale of indulgence. Such a revolution this age has experienced. This expedient has been ridiculously attempted. Phisosophy has resigned its usual sternness, and dropped in, abstracted language to please the Ladies. Authors, in general, affect to lie upon the toilet. They [Page 113]skim the surface, and publish the beauties of fine writers. Morality assumes the matricious dress of novels to captivate the taste. We have very pretty preachers; we have amiable Senators; we have very polite officers, and few great men. Consequences so malignant, and so comprehensive in their effects, deserve consideration. A disease, so interwoven with the vitals of the constitution, should not be neglected.
I have not enumerated half the evils of this fashion. If it prevents many marriages, it robs those, which do exist, of all their sweetness and all their joys.
It is in retirement, that sensible minds look for real, heartfelt satisfaction. It is in women, as the friend and companion of that retirement, that selfish is exalted [Page 114]into social enjoyment, and that the sweets of friendship and the luxury of confidence leave us nothing to desire but their stability and their duration. How does the most distant prospect of such a state, amidst the toils of labour, the wrinkles of care, and the agonies of disappointment, charm the most elevated and penetrating mind! How often has it administered courage to the hero, eloquence to the senator, and how equally do the monarch and the peasant court it, as a relaxation from their toils! The tender interview of Hector with Andromache, immortalized by Homer, and the modest, timid shrinking Astyanax from his helmet, are pleasures which the purest virtue may acknowledge for her own, and which the greatest Scholars, Generals [Page 115]or Politicians need not blush to accept as a recompence for their fatigues! How pleasing to resign the sceptre and the laurel for the softnesses of such an intimacy, the caresses of such a friend; and to forget, in the affection of a virtuous woman, tumults, conflicts, disappointment and the world!
But let not fancy dream over all the bliss of such a scene, to be awakened only in disappointment. The present education of women blasts this prospect, and destroys such an hope. Sensible men, if they be determined to form this connexion, must do it often to a disadvantage. They must, in general, marry females merely. They must not always expect in them, associates or friends. The union of knowledge and talents witl [...] [Page 116]frivolousness and insipidity, cannot be agreeable. What is not agreeable, will not be lasting. The heart can feel no durable attachment, where it knows no esteem. Without the secret concurrence of the heart, there cannot be enjoyment. Marriage is nothing more than a bare, ceremonious union of hands. This seeming paradise of sweets, will roughen, as we approach it, into a wilderness of thorns. The senses are soon palled. Disgust succeeds to satiety, quarrels to disgust, where the soul has no fresh graces to expand, and there remain no new and unexplored treasures in the understanding.
Though this subject is of so immense a magnitude, and so intimately connected with the first and dearest interests of society, as [Page 117]to deserve the attention of any monarch or legislator in the world, yet, in a free and opulent country like our own, where education cannot be made a publick concern, and where any particular edicts of a prince would be esteemed a gross infringement on the liberty of the subject, it is only in the power of parents or guardians to remove or palliate so malignant an evil. If there be a specifick, it is a better and a more rational education of women; and, if that education is to be better and more rational, it must not be left to a vain, a superficial or mercenary governess, but planned by the wisdom, and executed by the zeal and affection of those mothers, who under providence, have given them existence.
If we consider the exquisite pleasure, which Nature has annexed, in every creature, to an early care [Page 118]and protection of his offspring, it is amazing that they, who are dignified with the human form and the privilege of understanding, should form the only melancholy exception, by appearing wholly insensible to, or not shiving to enjoy it; that woman who lays claim to an exquisite sensibility, can tamely give her child, from the moment of its birth, into the bosom of an illiberal, low, or perhaps, a diseased nurse, to imbibe at once in her corrupted milk, the unhappy peculiarities of her mind and constitution! But how much more wonderful is it, and melancholy still, that she can be contented with barely affording existence to a girl, and afterwards resign her to the frippery, the pride and nonsense of a publick school, regardless of her early morals [Page 119]and impressions, whilst she is seeking for herself an artificial enjoyment in the glitter of gaiety, in the tumult of pleasure, or the intoxicating fumes of publick admiration.
Though fashion may sanctify such a scandalous inattention, and she may limit the horizon of good and evil, of virtue and of vice by the applauses or the censures, by the customs and extravagancies of a licentious age, yet the moment is at hand, when she must think that a daughter, stepping into a world of seduction and of snares, needed every salutary caution, and every prudent admonition; that a woman formed to be the mistress of a family, should have had her accomplishments mixed with substantial qualities and domestick attention; that a woman exposed, [Page 120]from the nature of her sex, to frequent sicknesses, sorrows and misfortunes, would have wanted a powerful balm of religion to alleviate and heal; that woman formed to be a help meet for the man, the partaker of his fortune, as the sharer of his bed, should have cultivated an ability for rational knowledge and amusing conversation; and (what is the highest consideration of all) that a woman, born for an eternal existence, born for the society of glorified spirits, and the enjoyments of God in a future existence, should certainly have received some more interesting lectures than the graces of manner, the fluctuations of fashion, or the trifling, and empty study of elegance or admiration.
If a mother can think that there is not only an unnatural indecency, [Page 121]but even the highest criminality in the neglect of such instruction, she has yet to learn what are the first, initiatory principles of nature and of virtue, and perhaps her awakened conscience may teach them at a time, when, her beauty being shrivelled with the wrinkles of age, there is no syren voice of flattery to bewitch, and repetition has made all the circle of her pleasures too stale to amuse!
Why indeed had woman her existence but to dignify and ennoble it by such superior employments? When doe [...] she appear to so much advantage, as when, surrounded, in her nursery, by a train of pratlers, she is holding forth the moral page for the instruction of one, and pouring out the milk of health to invigorate the frame and constitution of [Page 122]another? When is her snowy bosom half so serence, or when thrills it with such an innocent and pleasing rapture, as in these silent moments of domestick attention, or these attitudes of undissembled love? What painter, wandering, with a creative fancy over all the exhaustless riches of nature, can give us so enchanting and delightful a picture in so elegant a frame? What pleasures of the Levee, the Drawing Room, or masquerade can vie, in flavour with these more retired, maternal satisfactions? And when can woman ever be said to consult the real dignity and happiness of her sex, but when she is thus conscientiously discharging her duty to the man, to whom she has plighted, at the altar of her God, her vows and her affections?
[Page 123] Such maternal culture, such a revolution in the sentiments and conduct of that sex, would be attended with the happiest advantages. An alteration would soon be visible on the face of society.
If the minds of women were placed upon solid objects, by a judicious and early culture, they would become at once the ornament and blessing, as now there is but too much reason to apprehend, that they are only the bane and corrupters of society. Their charms would be the stimulating prize of valour, merit, and understanding. Their conversation would be a soft, but powerful spur to every noble action; and, in the intervals, which would be then devoted to their company, the soul would be acquiring an elasticity [Page 124]and a vigour for every great and dignified undertaking.
Little do women know of their own real interests, if they do not think themselves essentially interested in such a revolution. They would then be approached with esteem and veneration. The frothiness of compliment would, gradually, be changed into the language of truth. Their empire over our hearts, then, founded on the immutable qualities of the mind, would be glorious and permanent, not subject to expire in the wrinkles of age, or wither with the transient roses of beauty. Their conversation would give chearfulness and delicacy of sentiment; and ours would give instruction. There would be a gentle conflict and emulation of talents, and both parties would be mutually [Page 125]improved by the mutual collision. Their friendship would be courted, and our morals would be improved. In the refinement of our taste, we should disdain to stoop for pleasure to an harlot; we should look for real enjoyment with women, who had sentiment and understanding.
We should dare to converse upon rational subjects, and they would listen with attention. They would not expect that extravagant homage, which steals our time, as well as our attention from elevated pursuits. They would incite us to great and noble atchievments in the senate or the camp, in science and the arts; and their glory would consist (as it always should) in sharing our distinctions. The petit maitre would dwindle into his native insignificance. [Page 126]Without qualities to procure the esteem of one sex, this poor, amphibious animal would justly become the derision of the other. Marriage would be more frequent, inviolate and sacred, not checked by extravagance, not disgraced with infidelity or poisoned with dissipation. Unimpaired constitutions would produce a race of hardy and of healthy children, who, in time, might become the defenders of their country, and the pillars of a declining state. Women would attain to that golden age, which I have been describing; and men, though not in paradise, would have delicious pleasures spread round their retirements.
ESSAY III.
Quis autem dicat Naturam maligne cum muliebribus ingeniis egisse, aut virtutes illarum in arctum retraxisse? Par illis, mihi crede, vigor; par ad honesta (libeat) facultas est. Laborem doloremque ex aequo, si consucvere, patiunter.—
—TO KNOW NO MORE IS WOMAN'S HAPPIEST KNOWLEDGE, AND HER PRAISE.—
THE nature of my undertaking calls for some reflections on the quality, the degree [Page 128]and extent of female talents. And this will involve me in the hackneyed comparison, which has so frequently been made, betwixt the natural endowments and understanding of the different sexes—an enquiry, which though it has agitated the curiosity, and employed the pens of so many ingenious writers, does not seem to have been pursued with that disinterestedness and candour, which had so much in contemplation the discovery of truth, as the supporting of a system.
The talents of women have been degraded by some to an unreasonable ebb of feebleness and frivolity, and exalted by others to as unnatural an eminence of brilliancy and distinction. In the ages immediately succeeding those of Chivalry, it was fashionable to [Page 129]speak of women, as of prodigies in science, and to decorate, with equally lavish encomiums, their understanding, and their charms. Nor was this taste confined merely to individuals. Even nations have been as§ proud of producing a list of literary heroines, as of tracing their antiquity from the remotest ages or their origin from kings.
Interest, policy, or fashion have continued what enthusiasm thus began.
Authors, who have wished to stand well with the sex, to lie upon the toilet, to be distinguished with their favours, and to acquire the reputation of gallantry and [Page 130]taste, have supported the same fulsome panygericks. A rational enquirer has only to observe, that, if such extraordinary women ever did exist, they were only a kind of phenomena in their horizon, and neither prove the general state of female talents nor the general superiority of female understanding. From the foot of an Hercules, there is no deducing the usual stature and proportions of a man. The Alps would give a most improper idea of the common mountains and scenery of nature.
Though I am privately convinced of the absurdity of this comparison betwixt talents of the sexes; though I conceive it to be more a matter of curiosity than use, more calculated to amuse or display ingenuity than to serve the cause of science or of truth, yet [Page 131]philosophers have condescended to enter into it with so much minuteness, and to enlarge upon it with so nice a discrimination, as to have rendered it a plausible, and to the general design of this work, something of a necessary and an essential investigation. They have dissected the peculiar organization of women to discover the most latent stamina of talents, or the physical, unhappy causes which obstructed their existence. From the size, formation, temperature and quality of their brain,* Aristotle, Almaricus, Malabranche, and many others have reasoned to their particular degree of capacity and understanding; but whoever has read their observations must allow, that such [Page 132]a species of research is but laborious trifling, from which no certain inferences can be drawn, and no solid or rational improvements can be reaped.
It may be supposed with great probability and fairness, that their very outward frame is marked with a physical inferiority. It appears not to be calculated for such efforts of thinking, as the more abstracted sciences require, and which entail on the most robust constitution even of men, languor and disease. The delicacy of the everlasting pea, which so happily unites elegance with sweetness, would be easily oppressed. The tender plant, which is refreshed with gentle gales, would be entirely overwhelmed or exterminated by a whirlwind. Providence always wise, and always benevolent, [Page 133]has adapted the frame and organization, to their burdens.—Where robustess is denied, vigorous, and athletick exercises are not expected.
Principles of analogy are favourable to my argument. Observations on the brute creation confirm it.
* Amongst birds, beasts, insects, animals in general, the males are observed to have greater strength, courage, vigour, and enterprize; females, superior beauty of plumage, form, proportion, more delicacy and softness, but withal an higher degree of timidity and weakness. The great God of nature is thus uniform in all his plans and in all his operations. Superiority, for the sake of order [Page 134]and protection, must be lodged somewhere. And it seems providentially lodged in the males. But let us not take up with this presumptive reasoning. Let us rather have recourse to experience and facts.
There are but two points of view, from which we can see this subject, or pursue the comparison with fairness and precision. Culture makes so great a difference in favour of our sex, that, to discover the precise bounties of nature to each, we must compare a boy and girl at the age of six or seven; or we must look into some savage countries, where both are in their primitive state of rudeness without knowledge or instruction. At this age, in point of quickness, docility and imitation, females may be pronounced to have the advantage. [Page 135]But this is, by no means, any adequate proof of their general superiority. Possibly the profounder thoughtfulness of the boy may obstruct the more brilliant and shewy exertions. It is not the most solid bodies, that sparkle most in collision. Gold does not glitter half so much as tinsel. The louring, heavy cloud involves more moisture, than is contained in the glistening dew drops of the morning.
The conceptions of a girl, instantaneous as lightning, astonish and surprize. She interests us by the liveliness, with which she enters into all our instructions. Her fancy gives a pleasing hue to every image she receives, and reflects it with advantage; nor does human life afford a more agreeable employment, than carefully to tend [Page 136]the beauties of this opening flower, and shew them in perfection. Pitiable is the mother, who knows not that such an office has sweets beyond the giddiness of pleasure, the incense of admiration and the essence of perfumes.
At the same time, the very nature of these qualities precludes that superiority of strong judgment and of nice discrimination, which are the more peculiar prerogative of men. Vivacity is unfavourable to profound thinking and accurate investigation. And yet it is profound thinking and accurate investigation, which carry all knowledge and all literary improvements to their zenith of perfection. Even men, who are gisted with a fine imagination, and the more lively talents, are frequently observed to be, proportionably, [Page 137]defective in the substantial. Whilst they cultivate the charms of poetry, or the polite arts, they have not extension, subtility, or comprehensiveness of mind enough for more severe and abstracted speculations.§ The [Page 138]union of a warm and a vigorous imagination, with a very sound and discriminating judgment, is rare indeed. Nature has conferred so rich a fortune on few of her children. Her favours are, in general, dispensed with a nicer equality, and with a seeming parsimony, to individuals, that has [Page 139]generously had in contemplation, the portioning of all. In some instances, indeed, they have been blended. and they have worked miracles. The fire of Aetna has boiled up in the cold and chilling regions of the North.
* Savage countries do not invalidate, but strengthen this opinion. There, in general, women appear to have the advantage over the other sex, because nature displays the lively, and because the substantial endowments of the mind are not unfolded by culture, or roused by emulation.
But there seems to be an error and absurdity in making the comparison. The sexes were providentially formed as counterparts of one another. They have each of them abilities suited to the [Page 140]sphere in which an all wise providence intended them to move; but, as that differs essentially in the two sexes, so* likewise does the nature of their faculties and the texture of their understanding. Who would think of contrasting the oak with the willow, or a myrtle with the delicate and almost transparent balsam? Who would compare the abilities of an Archimedes with those of an† Addison? [Page 141]Their merits were wholly opposite in their cast; yet merits they both had, which have challenged the universal admiration of the world, and to which the very latest posterity must bear an ample tribute of applause.
Let us, however, look more nearly at the contrast. Women then have a more brilliant fancy, a quicker apprehension, and a more exquisite taste. When they apply these faculties to their proper [Page 142]studies, how wonderfully do they charm and how poignantly do they delight! In works, that require the efforts of Imagination only, how animated and descriptive is a woman's pen! What pictures does the exhibit! How soft are the tints, how glowing are the colours, and how impassioned the touches of her pencil!
But whether it arises from an original defect in their frame and constitution, whether it is that an unquiet imagination and ever restless sensibility afford not opportunity or leisure enough for deep meditation, it is very certain, that they cannot, like the men, arrange, combine, abstract, pursue diversify a long train of ideas, and in every thing, that requires the more substantial talents, must submit to a strong and a marked inferiority. [Page 143]The truth is, that restlessness of sensibility, and that inquietude of imagination, which debar the possibility of great attainments, were providentially designed to compose the very life and essence of their graces. They are the very medium by which they please. If they were constituted to have our firmness and our depth, they would want their native and their strongest attractions. They would cease to be women, and they would cease to charm.
It may be said, that judgment is principally formed by comparison and observation; and that the weakness of theirs arises from their want of opportunities to improve it; the reserve of their sex, their domestick duties, and sedentary life chiefly confining them to a very narrow circle, [Page 144]whilst business, ambition, curiosity or pleasure, lead us into the world, to see various countries, manners, customs; to hear in different coffee houses, clubs and societies the sentiments of all ranks and denominations of people, and to witness characters of every kind and magnitude, of every different shade and every opposite complexion. This is all in some measure, true. Still it does not account for that original difference betwixt the intellects of man and woman, which is discoverable at an early period of life, for that palpable opposition of the thoughtful to the lively, of the firm to the delicate and of the profound to the chearing, which nature seems industriously, to have made characteristick of [...]
[Page 145] I would ask the warmest panegyrist of women, whether he can fancy that there ever existed one in the world, who, with the utmost stretch and cultivation of her mind, could have pursued such a train of thinking as a Locke, could have combined with a Montesquieu, arranged like an Euclid, or scrutinized the secrets of nature like a Newton. It is true I have mentioned only prodigies of men. It is true that nature, by extraordinary efforts in the production of such characters, seems to have exhausted, for a considerable time, all her riches and her powers. The question, likewise, it may be urged, will always be unfair, till women have enjoyed equal advantages, and been called forth, by similar encouragements, into literary greatness. But dropping all the subtil ties of [Page 146]argument, and reasoning only from what appear the original stamina in the minds of both, I conceive it to be a question, which every man's convictions and private observations will answer in the negative, whatever tenderness to the sex may lead him to affect, or delicacy to conceal.
But here again comes in false panegyrick. Women have been described with every talent, that does honour to humanity. Illustrious§ Queens, Politicians, Heroines, [Page 147]glitter in the historick page. Some women have encountered the abstruseness‖ of [Page 148]mathematicks. Others have loved to wander in the labyrinths of metaphysicks. But what progress have they made? What great feats have they atchieved? Let cool experience answer the question.
[Page 149] If we admit that such descriptions have not been exaggerated; if we could suppose that we were not treading upon fairy ground (and yet who must not have his [Page 150]doubts?) have any of these female efforts pleased, or have any of these unnatural labours gained immortality? Either they never existed at all, or they have been raised infinitely beyond the bounds of probability and truth.
As to politicks, what were they, at any of the periods, when women [Page 151]have been celebrated for their political attainments? Were they not the petty interests of as petty a territory, whose views and wants terminated chiefly in itself, without looking into any other quarter of the globe? Did they ever require that universal penetration, that comprehensiveness of research, that stretch and vigour of thought, that wonderful combination of schemes and ideas, that retrospection and anticipation, that bringing past and present into one common point of view, which the immense, diffusive, complicated concerns of large, extended kingdoms, at the present period, and in the modern circumstances of Europe, absolutely demand? It will follow from the observations, likewise, that have been already made in this essay, that women are not calculated to [Page 152]preside over kingdoms. They were not formed to hold the reins of empire, to penetrate into the views and wants, or adjust the various and complicated interests of conflicting states. The reign of queens has generally, been a burlesque upon government, the tyranny of some capricious favourite, whom they have espoused, and whose sentiments they have adopted, in proportion as they have admired his person or address. On him have devolved all the burdens of the state, and to him has been allotted the more enviable office of apportioning the royal smiles.* He has been the real [Page 153]pilot of the vessel, whilst the woman he has governed by his policy or his attractions, has sat, in ostensible majesty, at the helm. Besides the political greatness of these Ladies is equivocal from the peculiar circumstances of their age. Amidst a race of pigmies, a person of ordinary stature is a giant. When times are ignorant and barbarous, common knowledge is considered as a prodigy. The Rustick, who can spell a newspaper, is at once the scholar and the oracle of his village. The star, that twinkles in a dark and gloomy night, is welcomed as a sun.
Nor let the sex suppose me their accuser or their foe. If I have not wholly mistaken the method, I mean to be their advocate and friend. I have left them the seeds of every thing, that pleases and [Page 154]captivates in woman. Their brows were not intended to be ploughed with wrinkles, nor their innocent gaiety damped by abstraction. They were perpetually to please, and perpetually to enliven. If we were to plan the edifice, they were to furnish the embellishments. If we were to lay out and cultivate the garden, they were beautifully to fringe its borders with flowers, and fill it with perfume. If we were destined to superintend the management of kingdoms, they were to be the fairest ornaments of those kingdoms, the embellishers of society, and the sweeteners of life.
If we consult scripture, we shall discover, that such was the original intention of heaven in the formation of the sexes. The sentence of subordination obviously [Page 155]implies, that man should have the preeminence on subjects, that require extensive knowledge, courage, strength, activity, talents or laborious application. Women were not formed for political eminence or literary refinement. The softness of their nature, the delicacy of their frame, the timidity of their disposition and the modesty of their sex, absolutely disqualify them for such difficulties and exertions. Their destiny of bearing and nursing children, the necessity of superintending domestick concerns, and the peculiar diseases, to which they are liable, leave them little time for such publick undertakings, whilst the humble offices in which they are engaged, confer a blessing and a benefit upon society, that are infinitely beyond the coldness of [Page 156]knowledge, and the apathy of speculation. The wife, the mother and the oeconomist of a family would unfortunately, be lost in the literary pedant; the order of nature would be totally reversed, and the population of the globe preposterously sacrificed to the cold, forbidding pride of a studious virginity. The woman of the cloister would grant the graces of a citizen of the world. In that ardour of understanding, which rouses emulation, she would lose that soothing manner, which conciliates and endears. The world would be deprived of its fairest ornaments, life of its highest zest, and man of that gentle bosom, on which he can recline amidst the toils of labour, and the agonies of disappointment.
[Page 157] So far as the qualities of the heart are concerned (and this has, sometimes formed a part of the question) I think the sexes will not bear a comparison. Women, in this respect, have every claim to a marked superiority. If their retired, domestick life did not, of itself, lead to more innocence and contemplation, their natural dispositions are certainly more favourable to piety and virtue. Their strong sense of weakness prompts them to supplicate the protection and assistance of a superiour, invisible powe [...], whilst their exquisite sensibility powerfully disposes them for all the energy and ardours of devotion.
In the list, which Scripture has given us of converts to Christianity, in the very early ages, we meet with holy women, not a few, [Page 158]The fathers of the Romish church maintained an opinion, which was borrowed, no doubt, from close observation, that the number of glorified females in heaven, would exceed that of men; and monasteries can produce their thousands of this sex, who, impelled by a holy, though misguided zeal, have sacrificed beauty, fortune, friends; every thing that could charm and every thing that could engage, for the loneliness of a convent and the rigid austerities of a perpetual devotion!
It has been said that women are more artful, and fond of subterfuge than the men, and perhaps there may be some degree of justice and authenticity in the observation. But does not this arise from the just and necessary jealousy [Page 159]they entertain of the other sex, and from the cruel task we impose upon them, of not knowing whether in the guise of a friend they may not meet with a betrayer and a foe? If a woman has not reserve upon many occasions, we criminate and despise her; if she has, we load it with the odious name of artifice and dissimulation. In so rigorous a system, we do not leave her the possibility of escaping without censure. Either she is called a prudish hypocrite, or she is called indiscreet.
If we carry our researches through the whole creation, we shall find, that, as any creature is deficient in strength, it is always furnished with a proportionate share of art and contrivance; and a little more reflection will serve to convince us, that such is the [Page 160]all wise appointment of the Deity, and that these inferior qualities are absolutely necessary to its existence and preservation.
In the intercourse of Love, which forms an essential part in the history of this sex, how powerfully do they eclipse our own, and wrest the palm of triumph from the men! If a woman has once a proper confidence in a man's sincerity, how generous is her breast! How noble is her conduct! How undisguised and unbosomed her soul! How tender is her friendship! How ardent and how immoveable is her affection! The love of man, in general, has many foreign ingredients of selfishness or vanity in its composition. He affects to love (perhaps, persuades himself he loves) a woman, whose connexions, beauty, fashionableness, [Page 161] e [...]lat, do honour to his choice, or whose fortune gives the widest range to his hopes, or opens the most unlimited prospects to his ambition. If a woman loves, it is the men himself. She has but this one object in view, and it engrosses her soul. Pride, ambition, vanity, dissolve into tenderness, and are humbled by the passion. She risks friends, character, fortune, ease, for the sake of her idol. In privacy, she broods over the beloved image, and if mentioned in publick, she tinges it with blushes. This man is become her Universe; for him alone she lives; with him she would die!
Let this favourite be called by business or pleasure into some foreign country, her days are melancholy, her nights without sleep! [Page 162]Life is insipid, and her soul has no joy! Her fancy conjures up a thousand apprehensions. In her few, slumbering moments she dreams of his danger, and she starts, at once from thought and repose! Every billow is his grave! Every traveller is besmeared with the blood of the endeared absent! How despicable is the villain, who can betray so much fondness; how insensible is the soul, that can laugh at so much tenderness; and how execrable is that fashion, which substitutes, in its place, the windings of art and the coldness of affectation!
At the same time, if the merit of virtue is to be estimated (as it always should) from the strength or the weakness of the determining motives, how much superior is [Page 163]woman's! The love of fame, riches, honour, consequence, give birth to almost all great atchievements that distinguish our own sex. If a man be celebrated for valour, science, enterprize, he is received into all companies with eulogies. His Sovereign applauds. Theatres welcome him with bursts of admiration. In the countenance of his admiring friends, he continually reads his glory and his greatness; and, when he dies, history sheds over his unperishable memory, an immortal perfume.
Not so with women. Their virtues, exercised in solitude and springing purely from the heart, make no noise, and court no observation. Lavished chiefly on their children and their friends, they blaze not on the world, nor are [Page 164]they thought of dignity or consequence enough to embellish the recording page.
Still let not these degrading fair ones despond. Let them not complain of their humiliating lot. Whilst virtue, taste, sensibility or discernment remain in the world, they will always have a high degree of influence and respect. Their rank, though subordinate, is not unimportant. The services they do to society, though not trumpeted by fame, are recorded by gratitude, and graven on the heart; and they share in the honour and distinctions of the men. Their influence often lends considerable aids in the formation of those characters, which history distinguishes with its undying honours. Many are the heroes [Page 165]they have roused into glory. Innumerable are the statesmen they have raised, by their secret magick, into fame; and whenever they are tempted to repine at the appearance of insignificance and inferiority, it becomes them to remember that their greatest strength lies in their weakness, their commands in their* tears; that their softness has frequently disarmed the rage of emperor's and tyrants, that their blandishments have a soothing and persuasive energy, which great and generous souls are seldom able to resist; that charms have worked miracles in [Page 166]every age and nation, and brought about the most important revolutions of the world.
ESSAY IV.
Legimus epistolas Corneliae, matris Gracchorum: Apparet cjus fi [...]os, qui eloquentia floruerunt, non solum in gremio matris educatos tuisse, red etiam ab ea sermonis elegantiam hausisse. Maximum autem matronis orhamentum esle liberos bene nistitutos, merito putabat sapien [...]ss [...]ma illa mu [...]er. C [...]m Campana matrona, apud illam hospita, oruamenta sua, quae erant illo seculo pretiosistima, ostentaret et mutrebriter, traxit eam sermone, quoso [...]e a schola redirent liberi. Quos revertos hospitae exhibens; "Et haec, inquit, or [...]amenta mea sunt." Qu [...]nt. Lab. 1. C. 1. Cic. in Brut. N. 210. Val. Lab. 4. C. 4.
Sic Corneham, Gracchorum, he Au [...]cham Justi Caesaris, sie Attiam, Au, usti matrem praefuisle educatiombus liberorum accep [...]mus.
HOW far a publick or a private education is most to be preferred, is an enquiry, that has [Page 168]agitated the curiosity, and employed the pens of many distinguished writers both of ancient and modern times. From the days of Quintilian to the present moment, plausible things have been frequently advanced in favour of both, and attacked with as many and forcible objections. Some, indeed, seem to have undertaken the subject only from a partial, selfish principle of recommending the plan, which was best accommodated to their own private interests or peculiar situation, and notwithstanding the various theories, that have prevailed, the general opinion seems considerably unfixed; at least, both schemes are indiscriminately adopted, as other, collateral circumstances of fortune, convenience, connexion or accident influence and direct.
[Page 169] Without entering at all into the detail of the argument, or attempting to appreciate the separate merits of the different reasoners, a sensible mind forms this conclusion, that a private education is more favourable to morals, that young people at least, should never be trusted to the dangerous infection of publick schools, till principles and even habits of virtue have had time to take ro [...]t, but that neither a private, nor publick, but an education uniting, in some degree, the advantages of both, is most eligible for those, who wish their children to be, at once, possessed of talents and of virtues.
But every thing, in fact, that can be offered on this subject, will be only vain or amusing speculation, till the nation is disposed to be [Page 170]liberal in rewarding the Instructors of our youth.
Whilst an exorbitant profusion, and extravagance of expense, in almost all other cases, characterize the kingdom, the education of children, though an object of the highest, private and national importance, is an article, which we treat with the most abject and ill judged parsimony, except only, in those circumstances which relate to frivolousness, accomplishments or conceit, to a dancing, a musick, or a fencing master, who are to teach them* graces, and initiate [Page 171]them in all the petits trifles of fashionable life.
Circumstanced as we are, publick schools are the only possible, general receptable for the education of youth; and, as we pay the teachers, in order that a person may not starve by his profession, these seminaries must contain such numbers of young people, as it is impossible for him to tend with [Page 172]any adequate vigilance, so as either to know their dispositions or their talents, their virtues or their vices.
Hence men of any liberal sentiments, or any decent fortune will not submit to the humiliating task. Hence (excepting in a few publick schools, endowed by the munificence of our more virtuous ancestors, and requiring a graduate from the universities) masters, in general, are but poorly qualified for the office they assume; and hence an employment, in itself the most elevated and honourable of all others, in its tendency the most useful and important to the state, in the eye of religion and of enlightened reason, requiring the strongest union of goodness and of talents, and, in the sounder policy of the ancients, devolving only on the most distinguished and [Page 173]unexceptionable characters, is sunk amongst the frivolous and dissipated moderns, into considerable disrepute, whilst its professors intitled to the publick gratitude, generally meet with little but the publick contempt.
Let it not be said, that their manners have deserved it. Let it not be urged that their ignorance of life and customs, their rudeness, their pedantry, their carrying into society the imperiousness of a school, and expecting indiscriminately from the people they converse with, the homage paid by pupils to their despotick throne, have been the real cause of such an odious stigma thrown upon their order. Though the conducting of a school is not favourable to the temper or manners, yet a person of real education and [Page 174]good sense, will generally rise, in his intervals of relaxation, above such little disadvantages; but, if our avarice forces others, and of a lower cast, into this department it is our avarice, chiefly, that should be blamed for their foibles and defects.
With regard to women, I do not know that this famous question about a publick or private education has ever been agitated. Indeed it is not necessary. Though such parents, as think of being generous and liberal, seldom fail to give them the first, yet the latter, in the estimate of sober reason, is certainly to be preferred; and, whatever elegant or high sounding schools may be sought out for a girl, yet a mother seems the only governess, intended by nature.
[Page 175] Three principal advantages of publick schools for boys are; 1st. That they cure a timid bashfulness, and establish a confidence, so necessary for any publick character or employment; 2dly. That they excite a proper emulation by the collision of talents; and 3dly. That they foster early, lasting friendships, sometimes of a powerful kind, which frequently lead the way to worldly honour and advancement.
The first of these effects will not, by a judicious friend, be recommended to women. Confidence, in them, "is a horrid bore;" and let a silly fashion suggest what it will, their sweetest graces are the crimsoning blush and the retiring timidity.
As to emulation, there are often children enough in their own family, [Page 176]or in the circle of their nearest acquaintance to communicate the spirit, so far as it is necessary or useful amongst those, who are not to hold the reins of government, the offices of state, or the post of a commander, and who cannot aspire to sacred greatness in the honours of the purple.
The last effect is superseded, likewise, by the nature of their sex; as the grand promotion, of which they are capable, is a dignified marriage, which their sister acquaintance are not capable of conferring; which a publick life is not likely to ensure, and which they will always have the greatest chance of forming to advantage, of they rather court the shade of a meritorious retirement, than the intoxicating notice of the publick eye.
[Page 177] So far, therefore, from their receiving any solid advantages from this method of exposure, I conceive that it often subjects girls to numerous inconveniencies, dangers and temptations, which their early age, and yet unripened virtue are not always found sufficient to resist.
Thrown together in shoals, into one common reservoir, at a dangerous age, when nature bids an unusual fervour rise in their blood, when they feel themselves sprung into a new epoch of existence, actuated with similar feelings and similar desires, and when a restless leisure awakens all the powers of imagination and the senses, they insensibly convey an infection to each other by tales of sentiment, sympathy and friendship, and by various communications, schemes [Page 178]and artifices, which the vigilance of no governess is able to discover, nor her power to suppress. In the heat of imagination, her restraints are considered as but a prudish bar to the only solid happiness in life; a connexion with the other sex. In the taste of a licentious age, viewing passion, as a business; in the fervour of nature, feeling it as an instinct; and, in the inexperience of youth, fancying it a paradise, in which are no thorns, a country, whose landscapes are all real, as they are beautiful, they behold an enemy in the woman, who restrains them, and have recourse to every private method of breaking through the chains, the despotism and formalities of their temporary convents.
Hence, from so many offensive breaths all pent up together, proceeds [Page 179]a total putrefaction of the moral air. Hence swarms of novels to inflame their fancy, and effectually to pave the way for their future seduction. Hence private correspondences, assignations and intrigue. Hence levity, giddiness and a total forfeiture of that delicacy and softness, without which it is impossible for any woman to be lovely, or to secure the esteem, whilst she engages the partiality of an impassioned beholder.
If I have exaggerated in the description, let experience contradict me. If I have said the truth, the prejudices or the interests of particular individuals should not be regarded.
The qualities, which every man of real taste and sense wishes, particularly, to find in a woman, are [Page 180]innocence, simplicity and domestick worth. To these he would sacrifice all the fanciful accomplishments. They are to soothe his sorrows, they are to bless his marriage and sweeten his retirement.
Boarding schools wholly counteract these dispositions. They trample upon nature, and give us artificial creatures, artificial looks and artificial smiles. In their formal walls, airs, gestures, syllables, articulation, all are studied, and are sure to disgust. Like hot beds, they give a forwardness to fruits, but deprive them of their natural healthiness and flavour; and the fine ladies they send into the world, feel themselves ridiculous [...]y exalted above (what they conceive to be) the groveling offices of family economy, or domestick attentions.
[Page 181] If women wish to please, they should consider that nothing can please long, but the simplicity of nature; at the same time, it behoves them to remember, that they were certainly born for something more important, and that when the short reign of their charms, shall expire, they will be able to procure a durable esteem by nothing but the solid qualities, and the domestick virtues. The mistress of a family is no longer a girl; and, if men are to distinguish themselves by business, or letters, by enterprize, or valour, females are surely called on, in their turn, by motives of gratitude and a dignified ambition, to immortalize themselves, if possible, within their own walls, and to tend, with unremitting care and vigilance, the little tender pledges [Page 182]of their mutual affection. What says the wise man? "A good woman looketh well to the ways of her household, and all her family is clothed in scarlet."
Whatever undomesticates a woman, so far unmakes her, as to all the valuable purposes of her existence, and is at once the bane of her usefulness, her happiness and virtue. It rifles her of her tenderness, sensibility, delicacy and of all the sweetest of her virtues and of her graces. It is undomesticated women, that poison the sources of our sweetest comforts. It is undomesticated women, that have houses without any order or arrangement, servants without discipline, and children, without instruction; that are friends, without friendship, w [...] without constancy, and parents, without affection. And it is, I conceive, a [Page 183]publick education, which first inspires the rage for pleasure and dissipation.
Almost every thing in and about these seminaries, has a tendency to corrupt the heart. What is it these fair pupils are taught to pant for? Admiration. What is proposed as the highest object, the ne plus ultra of all their endeavours? Admiration. What are considered as the steps to it? Elegant dress, appearance, equipage, wit, smartness, dancing, singing. In the mean time what becomes of the love of God, which Christianity represents, as the first of duties? How little do they study the example of their saviour, who was meek and lowly in heart? Where, all this while, is the mortification, and religious government of their passions, indifference to the world, [Page 184]the discipline of their heart, thoughts, and imagination, modesty, humility, heavenly mindedness, and all the lovely train of christian and evangelical graces? With such impressions, how vain and groveling must be the heart! How full of petty jealousies, and paltry competitions! How closed to all the nobler sentiments and affections, and how great a stranger to any solid, or any permanent repose!
Without unreasonably suspecting the abilities of a governess, it is impossible she should attend to the prodigious number of young people she receives, so as to discover their infinite varieties of talents or dispositions; and it may be presumed, from the nature of things, that she will not be often equal to the arduous undertaking.
[Page 185] It will be allowed me without controversy, that, in every education, principles of religion and virtue should form the great and primary consideration. Without these, all other qualities and all other accomplishments are but a specious structure, raised on the sand, which must totter in the moment of sorrow and of trial. But, to instil these in the best and most effectual manner; to illustrate them with the most proper images and embellishments; to diversify her efforts according to the endless variety and taste of her fair pupils; to communicate her knowledge and virtue, in such a manner as to make them, always, seem a rose without a thorn, requires no ordinary talents and exertions.
[Page 186] To accomplish such an end, a governess, in the first place, should be a prodigy of virtue. Like charity, "she should suffer long and be kind." She should deny herself pleasure, ease, slumber, every thing for the sake of her tender flock. She should love them, as her daughters, and consider herself engaged in the noble employment of training up so many angels for the skies.
She should have great knowledge, and that knowledge should be embellished with taste. It should appear, like the fair ones, to whom it is recommended, always lovely, and always inviting. She should know the best books, and she should be able to discriminate and select the most striking and interesting passages for their instruction.
[Page 187] Her address, likewise, should be conspicuous above all her other qualities. She should be able to see the heart in all its foldings and recesses. She should know how to multiply and variegate herself, as exigencies require; here she should sooth, and there she should expostulate; here she should endeavour to affect by the spirited, and there by the pathetick; in one place, she should be gentle like the dew, in another, thunder, lightning and storms.
It would display a great ignorance of human nature to suppose, that such a combination of great talents is frequently to be met with in any female; and it would argue a still higher degree of absurdity and inexperience to expect them concentred in the character of such a one, as generally undertakes [Page 188]this particular employment.
So little is the esteem, in which the character of Governess, like that of Schoolmaster, is held, and so inadequate are the rewards, conferred on these people, that the office, in the best point of view, will, very frequently, devolve upon those, who, having once seen better days, but now fallen from their dignity, have contracted not a little of that despondency and sourness, which attend degradation; and, in the worst, will, as often be undertaken, as a last resource, by many, who are not famous for the liberality of their sentiments, as they have not been distinguished by that of their education. To expect that such women should be patterns, either of the graces or the virtues, would be hoping against [Page 189]all the probabilities of things, and amusing ourselves with an airy and romantick shadow, that vanishes on the touch of experience and fact.
Nor do I conceive that Boarding Schools have such a tendency, as has generally been imagined, to give the so much valued excellence of politeness.
Without ease, there can be no grace. Without grace, there cannot be politeness. But these seminaries nurse a formality and stiffness, and their seclusion and restraints like those of a college, are unfavourable to these attainments. Whence springs politeness, but from collision with a great variety of characters; from living in habits of genteel and mixed society; from being frequently in the company of those, whom [Page 190]we look up to with a degree of deference, and feel ourselves inspired with the ambition to please? None of these circumstances generally exist in schools; and, if there was no other reason, either of the sexes living aloof, and separated from the other will always contract a number of peculiarities, ungraceful and unpleasing. But the great consideration, after all, is virtue. And female virtue appears a plant of too delicate a nature, to bear this scorching method of exposure.
It will appear from the general complexion of these remarks, that they are designed, principally, to apply to people in the higher ranks of life. Amongst others, cases, doubtless, will occur, in which a publick school may have [Page 191]its advantages, and be the best resource.
In a flourishing, commercial country, like Great Britain, some parents will attain, from very low beginnings to so ample a fortune, as to wish their children a much better education, than they themselves have enjoyed, or are capable of imparting. And it will occur to every reflecting person, from the nature of the case, that, under their roofs, daughters might imbibe only a set of illiberal notions, or a system of vulgar, purseproud superciliousness. To such, these seminaries, defective as they are, may have their uses and advantage.
The sentiments of such girls, as well as their manners, may here receive an elevation and refinement. They may feel themselves [Page 192]levelled, nay usefully humbled by the company of their superiors. Little mortifications beget humility, and little superiorities produce subordination. The Queen of the village may be stripped of her usurped plumes, and insensibly taught to treat those with respect, whom once she considered with scorn and aversion. But where mothers are themselves equal to the task (if a task it must be deemed) there cannot be a doubt about the difference of advantage, as a matter of duty, if all the casuists of Europe were consulted, they could not bring the shadow of an argument against it. No; reason, religion, the thrillings of affection, the voice of nature, and the voice of God, the interests of society, the happiness of private life, the honour, the dignity and [Page 193] true policy of woman—all say, that a mother should be the preceptress of her children, and that such children would stand a chance of the happiest instruction. ‘If well nurtured sons grow up as young plants, such daughters would be as polished corners of the temple.’
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