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ESSAYS ON ARIOUS SUBJECTS, PRINCIPALLY DESIGNED FOR YOUNG LADIES.

BY MISS HANNAH MORE.

[...]or you, I shall advise you in a few words; aspire only to those virtues that are PECULIAR TO YOUR SEX; follow your natural modesty, and think it your greatest commendation not to be talked of one way or the other. Oration of Pericles to the Athenian Women.

PHILADELPHIA: Printed and Sold by YOUNG, STEWART, and M'CU [...]LOCH, the Corner of Chesnut and Second-streets.

M.DCC.LXXX.VI.

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CONTENTS.

  • Introduction, 1
  • On Dissipation, 7
  • Thoughts on Conversation, 16
  • On Envy, 27
  • The Danger of Sentimental or Romantic Connections, 33
  • On true and false Meekness, 46
  • Thoughts on the Cultivation of the Heart and Temper in the Education of Daughters, 53
  • The Importance of Religion to the Female Character, 68
  • Miscellaneous Observations on Genius, Taste, Good Sense, &c. 77
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INTRODUCTION.

IT is with the utmost diffidence that the following pages are submitted to the inspection of the Public: yet, however the limited abilities of the author may have prevented her from succeeding to her wish in the execution of her present attempt, she humbly trusts that the uprightness of her intention will procure it a candid and favourable reception. The following little Essays are chiefly calculated for the younger part of her own sex, who, she flatters herself, will not esteem them the less, because they were written im­mediately for their service. She by no means pre­tends to have composed a regular system of m [...] or a finished plan of conduct: she has only end [...] [...] to make a few remarks on such circumst [...] [...] seemed to her susceptible of some improve [...] [...] on such subjects as she imagined were [...] interesting to young ladies, on their first [...] [...] ­tion into the world. She hopes they will not [...] offended if she has occasionally pointed out certain qualities, and suggested certain tempers and dis­positions as peculiarly feminine, and hazarded some observations which naturally arose from the subject, on the different characters which mark the sexes. And here again she takes the liberty to repeat that these distinctions cannot be too nicely maintained; for be­sides those important qualities common to both, each sex has its respective, appropriated qualifications, which would cease to be meritorious, the instant they ceased to be appropriated. Nature, propriety, and custom have prescribed certain bounds to each; bounds which the prudent and the candid will never attempt [Page 2] to break down; and indeed it would be highly im­politic to annihilate distinctions from which each ac­quires excellence, and to attempt innovations by which both would be losers.

WOMEN therefore never understand their own inte­rests so little, as when they affect those qualities and accomplishments, from the want of which they derive their highest merit. "The porcelain clay of human kind," says an admired writer, speaking of the sex. Greater delicacy evidently implies greater fragility; and this weakness, natural and moral, clearly points out the necessity of a superior degree of caution, re­tirement, and reserve.

IF the author may be allowed to keep up the allu­sion of the poet, just quoted, [...]e would ask, if we do not put the finest vases, and the costliest images in places of the greatest security, and most remote from any pr [...]ability of accident or destruction? By being so situated, they find their protection in their weak­ness, and their safety in their delicacy. This meta­phor is far from being used with a design of placing young ladies in a trivial, unimportant light; it is only introduced to insinuate, that where there is more beauty, and more weakness, there should be greater circumspection and superior prudence.

MEN, on the contrary, are formed for the more public exhibitions on the great theatre of human life. Like the stronger and more substantial wares, they de­rive no injury, and lose no polish by being always ex­posed, and engaged in the constant commerce of the world. It is their proper element, where they respire their natural air, and exert their noblest powers, in situations which call them into action. They were intended by Providence for the bustling scenes of life; to appear terrible in arms, useful in commerce, shining in counsels.

[Page 3] THE author fears it will be hazarding a very bold remark, in the opinion of many ladies, when she adds, that the female mind in general, does not appear capa­ble of attaining so high a degree of perfection in science as the male. Yet she hopes to be forgiven when she observes also, that as it does not seem to derive the chief portion of its excellence from extraordin [...]y a [...] ­lities of this kind, it is not at all lessened by the impu­tation of not possessing them. It is readily allowed, that the sex have lively imaginations, and those exqui­site perceptions of the beautiful and defective, which come under the denomination of Taste. But preten­sions to that strength of intellect, which is requisite to penetrate into the abstruser walks of literature, it is presumed they will readily relinquish. There are green pastures, and pleasant vallies, where they may wan­der with safety to themselves, and delight to others. They may cultivate the roses of imagination, and the valuable fruits of morals and criticism; but the steeps of Parnassus few, comparatively, have attempted to scale with success. And when it is considered, that many languages, and many sciences, must contribute to the perfection of poetical composition, it will ap­pear less strange. The lofty Epic, the pointed Sa­tire, and the more daring and successful flights of the Tragic Muse, seem reserved for the bold adven­turers of the other sex.

NOR does this assertion, it is apprehended, at all injure the interests of the women; they have other pretensions, on which to value themselves, and other qualities much better calculated to answer their par­ticular purposes. We are enamoured of the soft strains of the Sicilian and the Mantuan Muse, while, to the sweet notes of the pastoral reed, they sing the Con­tentions of the Shepherds, the Blessings of Love, or the innocent Delights of rural Life. Has it ever been ascribed to them as a defect, that their Eclogues [Page 4] do not treat of active scenes, of busy cities, and of wasting war? No: their simplicity is their perfection, and they are only blamed when they have too little of it.

ON the other hand, the lofty bards who strung their bolder harps to higher measures, and sung the Wrath of Peleus' Son, and Man's first Disobedience, have never been censured for want of sweetness and refinement. The sublime, the nervous, and the mas­culine, characterise their compositions; as the beau­tiful, the soft, and the delicate, mark those of the o­thers. Grandeur, dignity, and force, distinguish the one species; ease, simplicity, and purity the other. Both shine from their native, distinct, unborrowed merits, not from those which are foreign, adventitious, and unnatural. Yet those excellencies, which make up the essential and constituent parts of poetry, they have in common.

WOMEN have generally quicker preceptions: men have juster sentiments.—Women consider how things may be prettily said; men how they may be properly said.—In women, (young ones at least) speaking accompanies, and sometimes precedes reflection; in men, reflection is the antecedent.—Women speak to shine or to please; men, to convince or confute.—Women admire what is brilliant; men what is solid.—Women prefer an extemporaneous sally of wit, or a sparkling effusion of fancy, before the most accu­rate reasoning, or the most laborious investigation of facts. In literary composition, women are pleased with point, turn, and antithesis; men with observation, and a just deduction of effects from their causes.—Women are fond of incident, men of argument.—Women admire passionately, men approve cautiously.—One sex will think it betrays a want of feeling to be moderate in their applause, the other will be afraid of exposing a want of judgment by being in raptures [Page 5] with any thing.—Men refuse to give way to the emo­tions they actually feel, while women sometimes af­fect to be transported beyond what the occasion will justify.

As a farther confirmation of what has been advan­ced on the different bent of the understanding in the sexes, it may be observed, that we have heard of many female wits, but never of one female logician—of many admirable writers of memoirs, but never of one chronologer.—In the boundless and aerial regions of romance, and in that fashionable species of composition which succeded it, and which carries a nearer approx­imation to the manners of the world, the women can­not be excelled: this imaginary soil they have a pe­culiar talent for cultivating, because here, ‘Invention labours more, and judgment less.’

THE merit of this kind of writing consists in the [...]raisemblance to real life as to the events themselves, with a certain elevation in the narrative, which places them, if not above what is natural, yet above what is common. It farther consists in the art of interesting the tender feelings by a pathetic representation of those minute, endearing, domestic circumstances, which take captive the soul before it has time to shield itself with the armour of reflection. To amuse, rather than to instruct, or to instruct indirectly by short inferences, drawn from a long concatenation of circumstances, is at once the business of this sort of composition, and one of the characteristics of female genius*.

[Page 6] IN short, it appears that the mind in each sex has some natural kind of bias, which constitutes a distinc­tion of character, and that the happiness of both de­pends, in a great measure, on the preservation and ob­servance of this distinction. For where would be the superior pleasure and satisfaction resulting from mixed conversation, if this difference were abolished? If the qualities of both were invariably and exactly the same, no benefit or entertainment would arise from the tedious and insipid uniformity of such an intercourse; whereas considerable advantages are reaped from a se­lect society of both sexes. The rough angles and as­perities of male manners are imperceptibly filed, and gradually worn smooth, by the polishing of female con­versation, and the refining of female taste; while the ideas of women acquire strength and solidity, by their associating with sensible, intelligent, and judicious men.

ON the whole, (even if fame be the object of pur­suit) is it not better to succeed as women, than to fail as men? To shine, by walking honourably in the road which nature, custom, and education seem to have marked out, rather than to counteract them all, by moving awkwardly in a path diametrically opposite? To be good originals, rather than bad imitators? In a word, to be excellent women, rather than indiffe­rent men?

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ON DISSIPATION.

‘D [...]lgic c [...]rte, allegrezze incerte!— PETRARCA.

AS an argument in favour of modern manners, it has has been pleaded, that the softer vices of Luxury and Dissipation, belong rather to gentle and yielding tempers, than to such as are rugged and ferocious: that they are vices which increase civilization, and tend to promote refinement, and the cultivation of humanity.

BUT this is an assertion, the truth of which the ex­perience of all ages contradicts. Nero was not less a tyrant for being a sidler; He* who wished the whole Roman people had but one neck, that he might dispatch them at a blow, was himself the most debauched man in Rome; and Sydney and Russel were condemned to bleed under the most barbarous, though most dissipated and voluptuous, reign that ever disgraced the annals of Britain.

THE love of dissipation is, I believe, allowed to be the reigning evil of the present day. It is an evil which many content themselves with regretting, with­out seeking to redress. A dissipated life is censured [Page 8] in the very act of dissipation, and prodigality of time is as gravely declaimed against at the card table, as in the pulpit.

THE lover of dancing censures the amusements of the theatre for their dulness, and the gamester blames them both for their levity. She, whose whole soul is swallowed up in "opera extacies," is astonished, that her acquaintance can spend whole nights in preying, like harpies, on the fortunes of their fellow-creatures; while the grave sober sinner, who passes her pale and anxious vigils, in this fashionable sort of pillaging, is no less surprized how the other can waste her precious time in hearing sounds for which she has no taste, in a language she does not understand.

IN short, every one seems convinced, that the evil so much complained of does really exist somewhere, though all are inwardly persuaded that it is not with themselves. All desire a general reformation, but few will listen to proposals of particular amendment; the body must be restored, but each limb begs to remain as it is; and accusations which concern all, will be likely to affect none. They think that sin, like mat­ter, is divisible, and that what is scattered among so many, cannot materially affect any one; and thus in­dividuals contribute separately to that evil which they in general lament.

THE prevailing manners of an age depend more than we are aware, or are willing to allow, on the conduct of the women; this is one of the principal hinges on which the great machine of human society turns. Those who allow the influence which female graces have, in contributing to polish the manners of men, would do well to reflect how great an influence female morals must also have on their conduct. How much then is it to be regretted, that the British la­dies should ever sit down contented to polish, when they are able to reform, to entertain, when they [Page 9] might instruct, and to dazzle for an hour, when they are candidates for eternity!

UNDER the dispensation of Mahomet's law, in­deed, these mental excellencies cannot be expected, because the women are shut out from all opportunities of instruction, and excluded from the endearing plea­sures of a delightful and equal society; and, as a charming poet sings, are taught to believe, that

For their inferior natures
Form'd to delight, and happy by delighting,
Heav'n has reserv'd no future paradise,
But bids them rove the paths of bliss, secure
Of total death, and careless of hereafter.—
IRENE.

THESE act consistently in studying none but exte­rior graces, in cultivating only personal attractions, and in trying to lighten the intolerable burden of time, by the most frivolous and vain amusements. They act in consequence of their own blind belief, and the tyranny of their despotic masters; for they have neither the freedom of a present choice, nor the prospect of a future being.

BUT in this land of civil and religious liberty, where there is as little despotism exercised over the minds as over the persons of women, they have every liberty of choice, and every opportunity of improvement; and how greatly does this increase their obligation to be exemplary in their general conduct, attentive to the government of their families, and instrumental to the good order of society!

SHE who is at a loss to find amusements at home, can no longer apologize for her dissipation abroad, by saying she is deprived of the benefit and the pleasure of books: and she who regrets being doomed to a state of dark and gloomy ignorance, by the injustice, or tyranny of the men, complains of an evil which does not exist.

[Page 10] IT it a question frequently in the mouths of illite­rate and dissipated females—"What good is there in reading? To what end does it conduce?" It is, how­ever, too obvious to need insisting on, that unless per­verted, as the best things may be, reading answers many excellent purposes besides the great leading one, and is perhaps the safest remedy for dissipation. She who dedicates a portion of her leisure to useful read­ing, feels her mind in a constant progressive state of improvement, whilst the mind of a dissipated woman is continually losing ground. An active spirit rejoiceth, like the [...]un, to run his daily course, while indolence, like the dial of A [...]az, goes backwards. The advan­tages which the understanding receives from polite li­terature, it is not here necessary to en [...]merate; its ef­fects on the moral temper is the present object of conside­ration. The remark may perhaps be thought too strong, but I believe it is true, that next to religious influ­ences, an habit of study is the most probable preserva­tive of the virtue of young persons. Those who cul­tivate letters have rarely a strong passion for promis­cuous visiting, or dissipated society; study therefore induces a relish for domestic life, the most desirable temper in the world for women. Study, as it rescues the mind from an inordinate fondness for gaming, dress, and public amusements, is an oeconomical pro­pensity; for a lady may read at much less expence than she can play at cards; as it requires some appli­cation, it gives the mind an habit of industry; as it is a relief against that mental disease, which the French emphatically call ennui, it cannot [...]ail of be­ing beneficial to the temper and spirits, I mean in the moderate degree in which ladies are supposed to use it; as an enemy to indolence, it becomes a social vir­tue; as it demands the full exertion [...] of our talents, it grows a rational duty; and when directed to the [Page 11] knowledge of the Supreme Being, and his laws, it rises into an act of religion.

The rage for reformation commonly shews itself in a violent zeal for suppressing what is wrong, rather than a prudent attention to establish what is right; but we shall never obtain a fair garden merely by rooting up weeds, we must also plant flowers; for the natural richness of the soil we have been clearing will not suffer it to lie barren, but whether it shall be vain­ly or beneficially prolific, depends on the culture. What the present age has gained on one side, by a more enlarged and liberal way of thinking, seems to be lost on the other, by excessive freedom and un­bounded indulgence. Knowledge is not, as hereto­fore, confined to the dull cloyster, or the gloomy college, but disseminated, to a certain degree, among both sexes and almost all ranks. The only misfor­tune is, that these opportunities do not seem to be so wisely improved, or turned to so good an account as might be wished. Books of a pernicious, idle, and frivolous sort, are too much multiplied, and it is from the very redundancy of them that true knowledge is so scarce, and the habit of dissipation so much in­creased.

IT has been remarked, that the prevailing charac­ter of the present age is not that of gross immorality: but if this is meant of those in the higher walks of life, it is easy to discern, that there can be but little merit in abstaining from crimes which there is but little temptation to commit. It is, however, to be feared, that a gradual defection from piety, will in time draw after it all the bad consequences of more active vice; for whether mounds and fences are sud­denly destroyed by a sweeping torrent, or worn away through gradual neglect, the effect is equally destruc­tive. As a rapid fever and a consuming hectic are a­like fatal to our natural health, so are flagrant im­morality [Page 12] and torpid indolence to our moral well being.

THE philosophical doctrine of the slow recession of bodies from the [...]un, is a lively image of the reluc­tance with which we first abandon the light of vir­tue. The beginning of folly, and the first entrance on a dissipated life, cost some pangs to a well disposed heart; but it is surprising to see how soon the pro­gress ceases to be impeded by reflection, or slackened by remorse. For it is in moral as in natural things, the motion in minds as well as bodies is accelerated by a nearer approach to the centre to which they are tending. If we recede slowly at first setting out, we advance rapidly in our future course; and to have begun to be wrong, is already to have made a great progress.

A CONSTANT habit of amusement relaxes the tone of the mind, and renders it totally incapable of appli­cation, study, or virtue. Dissipation not only indis­poses its votaries to every thing useful and excellent, but disqualifies them for the enjoyment of pleasure it­self. It softens the soul so much, that the most su­perficial employment becomes a labour, and the slight­est inconvenience an agony. The luxurious Sybarite must have lost all sense of real enjoyment, and all re­lish for true gratification, before he complained that he could not sleep, because the rose leaves lay double under him.

LUXURY and dissipation, soft and gentle as their approaches are, and silently as they throw their silken chains about the heart, enslave it more than the most active and turbulent vices. The mightiest conquerors have been conquered by those unarmed foes: the flowery setters are fastened, before they are felt. The blandishments of Circe were more fatal to the mari­ners of Ulysses, than the strength of Polypheme, or the brutality of the L [...]strigons. Hercules, after he [Page 13] had cleansed the Augean stable, and performed all the other labours enjoined him by Euristheus, found himself a slave to the softnesses of the heart; and he, who wore a club and a lion's skin in the cause of vir­tue, condescended to the most effeminate employ­ments to gratify a criminal weakness. Hannibal, who vanquished mighty nations, was himself overcome by the love of pleasure; and he who despised cold, and want, and danger, and death on the Alps, was con­quered and undone by the dissolute indulgences of Capua.

BEFORE the hero of the most beautiful and vir­tuous romance that [...]ver was written, I mean Tele­machus, landed on the island of Cyprus, he unfortu­nately lost his prudent companion, Mentor, in whom wisdom is so finely personified. At first he beheld with horror the wanton and dissolute manners of the voluptuous inhabitants; the ill effects of their exam­ple were not immediate: he did not fall into the commission of glaring enormities; but his virtue was secretly and imperceptibly undermined, his heart was softened by their pernicious society, and the nerve of resolution was slackened: he every day beheld with diminished indignation the worship which was offered to Venus; the disorders of luxury and prophaneness became less and less terrible, and the infectious air of the country enfeebled his courage, and relaxed his principles. In short, he had ceased to love virtue long before he thought of committing actual vice; and the duties of a manly piety were burdensome to him, before he was so debased as to offer perfumes, and burn incense on the altar of the licentious goddess*.

[Page 14] ‘LET us crown ourselves with rose buds before they be withered,’ said Solomon's libertine. Alas! he did not reflect that they withered in the very ga­thering. The roses of pleasure seldom last long enough to adorn the brow of him who plucks them; for they are the only roses which do not retain their sweetness after they have lost their beauty.

THE heathen poets often pressed on their readers the necessity of considering the shortness of life, as an incentive to pleasure and voluptuousness; le [...]t the season for indulging in them should pass unimproved. The dark and uncertain notions, no [...] to say the abso­lute disbelief, which they entertained of a future state, is the only apology that can be offered for this rea­soning. But while we censure their tenets, let us not adopt their errors; errors which would be infinitely more inexcusable in us, who, from the clearer views which revelation has given us, shall not have their ig­norance or their doub [...] to plead. It were well if we availed ourselves of that portion of their precept, which inculcates the improvement of every moment of our time, but not like them to dedicate the moments so redeemed to the pursuit of sensual and perishable pleasures, but to the securing of those which are spi­ritual in their nature, and eternal in their duration.

IF, indeed, like the miserable* beings imagined by Swift, with a view to cure us of the irrational de­sire after immoderate length of days, we were con­demned to a wretched earthly immortality, we should have an excuse for spending some portion of our time [Page 15] in dissipation, as we might then pretend, with some colour of reason, that we proposed, at a distant pe­riod, to enter on a better course of action. Or if we never formed any such resolution, it would make no material difference to beings, whose state was already unalterably fixed. But of the scanty portion of days assigned to our lot, not one should be lost in weak and irresolute procrastination.

THOSE who have not yet determined on the side of vanity, who, like Herculus, (before he knew the queen of Lydia, and had learnt to spin) have not re­solved on their choice between VIRTUE and PLEASURE, may reflect, that it is still in their power to imitate that hero in his noble choice, and in his virtuous re­jection. They may also reflect with grateful triumph, that Christianity furnishes them with a better guide than the tutor of Alcides, and with a surer light than the doctrines of pagan philosophy.

IT is far from my design severely to condemn the innocent pleasures of life: I would only beg leave to observe, that those which are criminal should never be allowed; and that even the most innocent will, by im­moderate use, soon cease to be so.

THE women of this country were not sent into the world to shun society, but to embellish it; they were not designed for wilds and solitudes, but for the ami­able and endearing offices of social life. They have useful stations to fill, and important characters to sus­tain. They are of a religion which does not impose penances, but enjoins duties; a religion of perfect pu­rity, but of perfect benevolence also. A religion which does not condemn its followers to indolent seclusion from the world, but assigns them the more dangerous though more honourable province, of living uncorrup­ted in it. In fine, a religion, which does not direct them to fly from the multitude, that they may do no­thing, but which positively forbids them to follow a multitude to do evil.

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THOUGHTS ON CONVERSATION.

IT has been advised, and by very respectable autho­rities too, that in conversation women should careful­ly conceal any knowledge or learning they may hap­pen to possess. I own, with submssion, that I do not see either the necessity or propriety of this advice. For if a young lady has that discretion and modesty, without which all knowledge is little worth, she will never make an ostentatious parade of it, because she will rather be intent on acquiring more, then on dis­playing what she has.

I AM at a loss to know why a young female is instructed to exhibit, in the most advantageous point of view, her skill in music, her singing, dancing, taste in dress, and her acquaintance with the most fashiona­ble games and amusements, while her piety is to be anxiously concealed, and her knowledge affectedly dis­avowed, lest the former should draw on her the ap­pellation of an enthusiast, or the latter that of a pedant.

IN regard to knowledge, why should she for ever affect to be on her guard, lest she should be found guilty of a small portion of it? She need be the less solicitous about it, as it seldom proves to be so very [Page 17] considerable as to excite astonishment or admiration: for, after all the acquisitions which her talents and her studies have [...] her to make, she will, gene­rally speaking, be found to have less of what is called learning, than a common school-boy.

IT would be to the last degree presumptuous and absurd, for a young woman to pretend to give the [...]n to the company; to interrupt the pleasure of others, and her own opportunity of improvement, by talking when she ought to listen; or to introduce subjects out of the common road, in order to shew her own wit, or expose the want of it in others: but were the sex to be totally silent when any topic of literature hap­pens to be discussed in their presence, conversation would lose much of vivacity, and society would be robbed of one of its most interesting charms.

How easily and effectually may a well-br [...]d woman promote the most useful and elegant conversation, al­most without speaking a word! for the modes of speech are scarcely more variable then the modes of silence. The silence of listless ignorance, and the silence of sparkling intelligence, are perhaps as sepa­rately marked, and as distinctly expressed, as the same feelings could have been by the most unequivocal lan­guage. A woman, in a company where she has the least influence, may promote any subject by a pro­found and invariable attention, which shews that she is pleased with it, and by an illuminated countenance, which proves she understands it. This obliging atten­tion is the most flattering encouragement in the world to men of sense and letters, to continue any topic of instruction or entertainment they happen to be engaged in: it owed its introduction perhaps to accident, the best introduction in the world for a subject of ingenu­ity, which, though it could not have been formally proposed without pedantry, may be continued with ease and good humour; but which will be frequently and effectually stopped by the listlessness, inattention, [Page 18] or whispering of silly girls, whose weariness betrays their ignorance, and whose impatience exposes their ill-breeding. A polite man, however deeply interest­ed in the subject on which he is conversing, catches at the slightest hint to have done: a look is a sufficient intimation, and if a pretty simpleton, who sits near him, seems distraite, he puts an end to his remarks, to the great regret of the reasonable part of the company, who perhaps might have gained more improvement by the continuance of such a conversation, than a week's reading would have yielded them; for it is such com­pany as this, that give an edge to each other's wit, "as iron sharpeneth iron."

THAT silence is one of the great arts of conversation is allowed by Cicero himself, who says, there is not only an art but even an eloquence in it. And this opinion is confirmed by a great modern*, in the fol­lowing little anecdote from one of the ancients:

WHEN many Grecian philosophers had a solemn meeting before the ambassador of a foreign prince, each endeavoured to shew his parts by the brilliancy of his conversation, that the ambassador might have something to relate of the Grecian wisdom. One of them, offended, no doubt, at the loquacity of his companions, observed a profound silence; when the ambassador, turning to him, asked, ‘But what have you to say, that I may report it?’ He made this laconic, but very pointed reply: ‘Tell your king that you have found one among the Greeks who knew how to be silent.’

THERE is a quality infinitely more intoxicating to the female mind than knowledge—this is Wit, the most captivating, but the most dreaded of all talents: the most dangerous to those who have it, and the most feared by those who have it not. Though it is against all the rules, yet I cannot find in my heart to abuse this charming quality. He who is grown rich with­out [Page 19] it, in safe and sober dulness, shuns it as a disease, and looks upon poverty as its invariable concomitant. The moralist declaims against it as the source of irregu­larity, and the frugal citizen dreads it more than bank­ruptcy itself, for he considers it as the parent of extra­vagance and beggary. The Cynic will ask of what use it is? Of very little perhaps: no more is a flower gar­den, and yet it is allowed as an object of innocent amusement and delightful recreation. A woman, who possesses this quality, has received a most danger­ous present, perhaps not less so than beauty itself: especially if it be not sheathed in a temper peculiarly inoffensive, chastised by a most correct judgment, and restrained by more prudence than falls to the common lot.

THIS talent is more likely to make a woman vain than knowledge; for as Wit is the immediate property of its possessor, and learning is only an acquaintance with the knowledge of other people, there is much more danger, that we should be vain of what is our own, than of what we borrow.

BUT Wit, like learning, is not near so common a thing as is imagined. Let not therefore a young la­dy be alarmed at the acuteness of her own wit, any more than at the abundance of her own knowledge. The great danger is, lest she should mistake pertness, flippancy, or imprudence, for this brilliant quality, or imagine she is witty, only because she is indiscreet. This is very frequently the case, and this makes the name of wit so cheap, while its real existence is so rare.

LEST the flattery of her acquaintance, or an over­weening opinion of her own qualifications, should lead some vain and petulant girl into a false notion that she has a great deal of wit, when she has only a redundancy of animal spirits, she may not find it use­less to attend to the definition of this quality, by one [Page 20] who had as large a portion of it, as most individuals could ever boast:

'Tis not a tule, 'tis not a jest,
Admir'd with laughter at a feast,
Nor [...] talk, which can that title gain,
The proofs of wit for ever must remain.
Neither can that have any place,
At which a virgin hides her face;
Such dross the [...] must p [...]rge away; 'tis just
The author blush there, where the reader must.

BUT those who actually possess this rare talent, cannot be too abstinent in the use of it. It often makes admirers, but it never makes friends; I mean, where it is the predominant feature; and the unprotect­ed and defenceless state of womanhood calls for friend­ship more than for admiration. She who does not desire friends has a sordid and insensible soul; but she who is ambitious of making every man her admirer, has an invincible vanity, and a cold heart.

BUT to dwell only on the side of policy, a prudent woman, who has established the reputation of some genius, will sufficiently maintain it, without keeping her faculties always on the stretch to say good things. Nay, if reputation alone be her object, she will gain a more solid one by her forbearance, as the wiser part of her acquaintance will ascribe it to the right motive, which is, not that she has less wit, but that she has more judgment.

THE fatal fondness for indulging a spirit of ridicule, and the injurious and irreparable consequences which sometimes attend the too prompt reply, can never be too seriously or too severely condemned. Not to offend is the first step towards pleasing. To give pain is as much an offence against humanity, as against good breeding; and surely it is as well to abstain from an action because it is sinful, as because it is unpolite. In [Page 21] company, young ladies would do well before they speak, to reflect, if what they are going to say may not distress some worthy person present, by wound­ing them in their persons, families, connexions, or re­ligious opinions. If they find it will touch them in either of these, I would advise them to suspect, that what they are going to say, is not so very good a thing as they at first imagined. Nay, if even it was one of those bright ideas, which Venus has imbued with a fifth part of her nectar, so much greater will be their merit in suppressing it, if there was a probability it might offend. Indeed, if they have the temper and prudence to make such a previous reflection, they will be more richly rewarded by their own inward triumph, at having suppressed a lively but severe remark, than they could have been with the dissembled applauses of the whole company, who, with that complaisant de­ceit, which good breeding too much authorises, affect openly to admire what they secretly resolve never to forgive.

I HAVE always been delighted with the story of the little girl's eloquence, in one of the Children's Tales, who received from a friendly Fairy the gift, that at every word she uttered, pinks, roses, diamonds and pearls, should drop from her mouth. The hidden moral appears to be this, that it was the sweetness of her temper which produced this pretty fanciful effect: for when her malicious sister desired the same gift from the good natured tiny Intelligence, the venom of her own heart converted it into poisonous and loathsome reptiles.

A MAN of sense and breeding will sometimes join in the laugh, which has been raised at his expence by an ill-natured repartee; but if it was very cutting, and one of those shocking sort of truths, which as they can scarcely be pardoned even in private, ought never to be uttered in public, he does not laugh be­cause [Page 22] he is pleased, but because he wishes to conceal how much he is hurt. As the sarcasm was uttered by a lady, so far from seeming to resent it, he will be the first to commend it; but notwithstanding that, he will remember it as a trait of malice, when the whole company shall have forgotten it as a stroke of wit. Women are so far from being privileged by their sex to say unhandsome or cruel things, that this is the very circumstance which renders them more in­tolerable. When the arrow is lodged in the heart, it is no relief to him who is wounded to reflect, that the hand which sho [...] him was a fair one.

MANY women, when they have a favourite point to gain, or an earnest wish to bring any one over to their opinion, often use a very disingenuous method: they will state a case ambiguously, and then avail themselves of it, in whatever manner shall best answer their purpose; leaving your mind in a state of indeci­sion as to their real meaning, while they triumph in the perplexity they have given you by the unfair con­clusions they draw, from premises equivocally stated. They will also frequently argue from exceptions in­stead of rules, and are astonished when you are not willing to be contented with a prejudice, instead of a reason.

IN a sensible company of both sexes, where women are not restrained by any other reserve than what their natural modesty imposes; and where the intimacy of all parties authorises the utmost freedom of communi­cation; should any one inquire what were the general sentiments on some particular subject, it will, I be­lieve, commonly happen that the ladies whose imagi­nations have kept pace with the narration, have anti­cipated its end, and are ready to deliver their senti­ments on it, as soon as it is finished. While some of the male hearers, whose minds were busied in settling the propriety, comparing the circumstances, and exa­mining [Page 23] the consistencies of what was said, are obliged to pause and discriminate, before they think of an­swering. Nothing is so embarrassing as a variety of matter, and the conversation [...] women is often more perspicuous, because it is le [...]s laboured.

A MAN of deep reflection, [...] does not keep up an intimate commerce with the [...]o [...]ld, will be some­times so entangled in the intricacies of intense thought, that he will have the appearance of a confused and perplexed expression; while a sprightly woman will extricate herself with that lively and "rash dexterity," which will almost always please, though it is very far from being always right. It is easier to confound than to convince an opponent; the former may be effected by a turn that has more happiness than truth in it. Many an excellent reasoner, well skilled in the theory of the schools, has felt himself discom [...]itted by a reply, which, though as wide of the mark, and as foreign to the question as can be conceived, has dis­concerted him more than the most startling propositi­on, or the most accurate chain of reasoning could have done; and he has borne the laugh of his fair antago­nist, as well as of the whole company, though he could not but feel, that his own argument was attended with the fullest demonstration: so true it is, that it is not always necessary to be right in order to be applauded.

BUT let not a young lady's vanity be too much elated with this false applause, which is given, not to merit, but to her sex: she has not perhaps gained a victory, though she may be allowed a triumph; and it should humble her to reflect, that the tribute is paid, not to her strength but to her weakness. It is worth while to discriminate between that applause, which is given from the complaisance of others, and that which is paid to our own merit.

WHERE great sprightliness is the natural bent of the temper, girls should endeavour to habituate them­selves [Page 24] to a custom of observing, thinking, and reason­ing. I do not mean that they should devote them­selves to abstruse speculation, or the study of logic; but she who is accustomed to give a due arrangement to her thoughts, to reason justly and pertinently on common affairs, and judiciously to deduce effects from their causes, will be a better logician than some of those who claim the name, because they have studied the art: this is being "learned without the rules;" the best definition, perhaps, of that sort of literature which is properest for the sex. That species of know­ledge, which appears to be the result of reflection rather than of science, sits peculiarly well on wo­men. It is not uncommon to find a lady, who, though she does not know a rule of Syntax, scarcely ever vio­lates one; and who constructs every sentence she ut­ters, with more propriety than many a learned dunce, who has every rule of Aristotle by heart, and who can lace his own thread-bare discourse with the golden shreds of Cicero and Virgil.

IT has been objected, and I fear with some reason, that female conversation is too frequently tinctured with a censorious spirit, and that ladies are seldom apt to discover much tenderness for the errors of a fallen sister. ‘If it be so, it is a grievous fault.’ No arguments can justify, no pleas can extenuate it. To insult over the miseries of an unhappy creature is inhuman, not to compassionate them is unchristian. The worthy part of the sex always express themselves humanely on the failings of others, in proportion to their own undeviating goodness.

AND here I cannot help remarking, that young wo­men do not always carefully distinguish between run­ning into the error of detraction, and its opposite ex­treme [Page 25] of indiscriminate applause. This proceeds from the false idea they entertain, that the direct contrary to what is wrong must be right. Thus the dread of being only suspected of one fault makes them actually guilty of another. The desire of avoiding the imputa­tion of envy, impels them to be insincere; and to esta­blish a reputation for sweetness of temper and genero­sity, they affect sometimes to speak of very indifferent characters with the most extravagant applause. With such the hyperbole is a favourite figure; and every de­gree of comparison but the superlative is rejected, as cold and inexpressive. But this habit of exaggeration greatly weakens their credit, and destroys the weight of their opinion on other occasions; for people very soon disco­ver what degree of faith is to be given both to their judgment and veracity. And those of real merit will no more be flattered by that approbation, which can­not distinguish the value of what it praises, than the celebrated painter must have been at the judgment pas­sed on his works by an ignorant spectator, who, being asked what he thought of such and such very capital but very different pieces, cried out in an affected rap­ture, "All alike! all alike!"

IT has been proposed to the young, as a maxim of supreme wisdom, to manage so dexterously in conver­sation, as to appear to be well acquainted with sub­jects, of which they are totally ignorant; and this, by affecting silence in regard to those, on which they are known to excel.—But why counsel this disingenuous fraud? Why add to the numberless arts of deceit, this practise of deceiving, as it were, on a settled prin­ciple? If to disavow the knowledge they really have, be a culpable affectation, then certainly to insinuate an idea of their skill, where they are actually ignorant, is a most unworthy artifice.

BUT of all the qualifications for conversation, hu­mility, if not the most brilliant, [...]s the safest, the most [Page 26] amiable, and the most feminine. The affectation of introducing subjects, with which others are unacquaint­ed, and of displaying talents superior, to the rest of the company, is as dangerous as it is foolish.

THERE are many, who never [...]an forgive another for being more agreeable and mo [...] accomplished than themselves, and who can pardon any offence rather than an eclipsing merit. Had the nightingale in the fable conquered his vanity, and resistled the temptation of shewing a fine voice, he might have escaped the ta­lons of the hawk. The melody of his singing was the cause of his destruction; his merit brought him into danger, and his vanity cost him his life.

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ON ENVY.

Envy came next, Envy with squinting eyes.
Sick of a strange disease, his neighbour's health;
Best then he lives, when any better dies,
Is never poor but in another's wealth:
On best men's harms and griefs he feeds his [...]ill,
Else his own maw doth eat with spiteful will,
Ill must the temper be, where diet is so ill.
FLETCHER'S PURPLE ISLAND.

"ENVY, (says Lord Bacon) has no holidays." There cannot perhaps be a more lively and striking description of the miserable state of mind those endure, who are tormented with this vice. A spirit of emu­lation has been supposed to be the source of the greatest improvements; and there is no doubt but the warmest rivalship will produce the most excellent ef­fects; but it is to be feared, that a perpetual state of contest will injure the temper so essentially, that the mischief will hardly be counterbalanced by any other advantages. Those, whose progress is the most rapid, will be apt to despise their less successful competitors, who, in return, will feel the bitterest resentment against their more fortunate rivals. Among persons of real goodness, this jealousy and contempt can ne­ver be equally felt, because every advancement in piety will be attended with a proportionable encrease of hu­mility, [Page 28] which will lead them to contemplate their own improvements with modesty, and to view with charity the miscarriages of others.

WHEN an envious man is melancholy, one may ask him, in the words of Bion, what evil has befallen him­self, or what good has happened to another? This last is the scale by which he principally measures his feli­city, and the very smiles of his friends are so many de­ductions from his own happiness. The wants of o­thers are the standard by which he rates his own wealth, and he estimates his riches not so much by his own possessions, as by the necessities of his neighbours.

WHEN the malevolent intend to strike a very deep and dangerous stroke of malice, they generally begin [...]he most remotely in the world, from the subject near­est their hearts▪ They set out with commending the object of their envy for some trifling quality or ad­vantage, which it is scarcely worth while to possess: they next proceed to make a general profession of their own good will and regard for him; thus artfully re­moving any suspicion of their design, and clearing all obstructions for the insidious stab they are about to give; for who will suspect them of an intention to in­jure the object of their peculiar and professed esteem! the hearer's belief of the fact grows in proportion to the seeming reluctance with which it is told, and to the conviction he has, that the relater is not influen­ced by any private pique, or personal resentment; but that the confession is extorted from him sorely against his inclination, and purely on account of his zeal for truth.

ANGER is less reasonable and more sincere than en­vy.—Anger breaks out abruptly; envy is a great prefacer—anger wishes to be understood at once; en­vy is fond of remote hints and ambiguities; but, ob­scure as its oracles are, it never ceases to deliver them till they are perfectly comprehended:—anger repeats [Page 29] the same circumstances over again; envy invents new ones at every fresh recital—anger gives a br [...]en, ve­hement, and interrupted narrative; envy [...] a more consistent and more probable, though a falser tale—anger is excessively imprudent, for it is impatient to disclose every thing it knows; envy is discreet, for it has a great deal to hide—anger never consults times or seasons; envy waits for the lucky moment, when the wound it meditates may be made the most exqui­sitely painful, and the most incurably deep—anger uses more invective; envy does more mischief—simple an­ger soon runs itself out of breath, and is exhausted at the end of its tale; but it is for that chosen period that envy has treasured up the most barbed arrow in its whole quiver—anger puts a man out of himself; but the truly malicious generally preserve the appearance of self-possession, or they could not so effectually in­jure.—The angry man sets out by destroying his whole credit with you at once, for he very frankly confesses his abhorrence and detestation of the object of his abuse; while the envious man carefully sup­presses all his own share in the affair.—The angry man defeats the end of his resentment, by keeping himself continually before your eyes, instead of his enemy; while the envious man artfully brings forward the ob­ject of his malice, and keeps himself out of [...]ight.—The angry man talks loudly of his own wrongs; the envious of his adversary's injustice.—A passionate per­son, if his resentments are not complicated with ma­lice, divides his time between sinning and sorrowing; and, as the irascible passions cannot constantly be at work, his heart may sometimes get a holiday.—An­ger is a violent act, envy a constant habit—no one can be always angry, but he may be always envious:—an angry man's enmity (if he be generous) will subside when the object of his resentment becomes unfor­tunate; but the envious man can extract food from [Page 30] his malice out of calamity itself, if he finds his adver­sary bears it with dignity, or is pitied or assisted in it. The rage of the passionate man is totally extinguished by the death of his enemy: but the hatred of the ma­licious is not buried even in the grave of his rival: he will envy the good name he has left behind him; he will envy him the tears of his widow, the prosperity of his children, the esteem of his friends, the praises of his epitaph—nay, the very magnificence of his fu­neral.

"THE ear of jealousy heareth all things," (says the wise man) frequently I believe more than is ut­tered, which makes the company of persons infected with it still more dangerous.

WHEN you tell those of a malicious turn, any cir­cumstance that has happened to another, though they perfectly know of whom you are speaking, they often affect to be at a loss, to forget his name, or to misap­prehend you in some respect or other; and this, mere­ly to have an opportunity of slily gratifying their ma­lice, by mentioning some unhappy defect or personal infirmity he labours under; and not contented "to tack his every error to his name," they will by way of farther explanation, have recourse to the faults of his father, or the misfortunes of his family; and this, with all the seeming simplicity and candour in the world, merely for the sake of preventing mistakes, and to clear up every doubt of his identity.—If you are speaking of a lady, for instance, they will perhaps em­bellish their enquiries, by asking if you mean her, whose great grandfather was a bankrupt, though she has the vanity to keep a chariot, while others who are much better born walk on foot; for they will after­wards recollect, that you may possibly mean her cousin, of the same name, whose mother was suspected of such or such an indiscretion, though the daughter had the [Page 31] luck to make her fortune by marrying, while her bet­ters are overlooked.

TO hint at a fault, does more mischief than speak­ing out; for whatever is left for the imagination to finish, will not fail to be overdone: every haitus will be more than filled up, and every pause more than sup­plied. There is less malice, and less mischief too, in telling a man's name than the initials of it; as a wor­thier person may be involved in the most disgraceful suspicions by such a dangerous ambiguity.

IT is not uncommon for the envious, after having attempted to deface the fairest character so industri­ously, that they are afraid you will begin to detect their malice, to endeavour to remove your suspicions effectually, by assuring you, that what they have just related is only the popular opinion; they them­selves can never believe things are so bad as they are said to be; for their part it is a rule with them al­ways to hope the best. It is their way never to be­lieve or report ill of any one. They will, however, mention the story in all companies, that they may do their friend the services of protesting their disbelief of it. More reputations are thus hinted away by false friends, than are openly destroyed by public enemies. An if, or a but, or a mortified look, or a languid de­fence, or an ambiguous shake of the head, or a hasty word affectedly recalled, will demolish a character more effectually, than the whole artillery of malice when openly levelled against it.

IT is not that envy never praises—No, that would be making a public profession of itself, and advertis­ing its own malignity; whereas the greatest success of its efforts depends on the concealment of their end. When envy intends to strike a stroke of Machiaveli­an policy, it sometimes affects the language of the most exaggerated applause; though it generally takes care, that the subject of its panegyric shall be a very [Page 32] indifferent and common character, so that it is well a­ware none of its praises will stick.

IT is the unhappy nature of envy not to be content­ed with positive misery, but to be continually aggra­vating its own torments, by comparing them with the felicities of others. The eyes of envy are perpe­tually fixed on the object which disturbs it, nor can it avert them from it, though to procure itself the relief of a temporary forgetfulness. On seeing the inno­cence of the first pair,

A side the Devil turn'd,
For Envy, yet with jealous l [...]r malign,
Eyed them askance.

AS this enormous sin chiefly instigated the revolt, and brought on the ruin of the angelic spirits, so it is not improbable, that it will be a principal instrument of misery in a future world, for the envious to com­pare their desperate condition with the happiness of the children of God; and to heighten their actual wretchedness by reflecting on what they have lost.

PERHAPS envy, like lying and ingratitude, is prac­tised with more frequency, because it is practised with impunity; but there being no human laws against these crimes, is so far from an inducement to commit them, that this very consideration would be sufficient to deter the wise and good, if all others were ineffec­tual; for of how heinous a nature must those sins be, which are judged above the reach of human punish­ment, and are reserved for the final justice of God himself!

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ON THE DANGER OF SENTIMENTAL OR ROMANTIC CONNEXIONS.

AMONG the many evils which prevail under the sun, the abuse of words is not the least consider­able. By the influence of time, and the perversion of fashion, the plainest and most unequivocal may be so altered, as to have a meaning assigned them almost diametrically opposite to their original signification.

THE present age may be termed, by way of distinc­tion, the Age of Sentiment, a word which, in the im­plication it now bears, was unknown to our plain an­cestors. Sentiment is the varnish of virtue to conceal the deformity of vice; and it is not uncommon for the same persons to make a jest of religion, to break through the most solemn ties and engagements, to practise every art of latent fraud and open seduction, and yet to value themselves on speaking and writing sentimentally.

BUT this refined jargon, which has infested letters and tainted morals, is chiefly admired and adopted [Page 34] by young ladies of a certain turn, who read sentimental books, write sentimental letters, and contract sentimen­tal friendships.

ERROR is never likely to do so much mischief as when it disguises its real tendency, and puts on an engaging and attractive appearance. Many a young woman, who would be shocked at the imputation of an intrigue, is extremely flattered at the idea of a sentimental con­nexion, though perhaps with a dangerous and design­ing man, who, by putting on this mask of plausibility and virtue, disarms her of her prudence, lays her ap­prehensions asleep, and involves her in misery; misery the more inevitable because unsuspected. For she who apprehends no danger, will not think it necessary to be always upon her guard; but will rather invite than avoid the ruin which comes under so specious and so fair a form.

SUCH an engagement will be infinitely dearer to her vanity than an avowed and authorised attachment; for one of these sentimental lovers will not scruple very seriously to assure a credulous girl, that her un­paralleled merit entitles her to the adoration of the whole, world, and that the universal homage of man­kind is nothing more than the unavoidable tribute ex­torted by her charms. No wonder then she should be so easily prevailed on to believe, that an individual is captivated by perfections which might enslave a mil­lion. But she should remember, that he who endea­vours to intoxicate her with adulation, intends one day most effectually to humble her. For an artful man has always a secret design to pay himself in future for every present sacrifice. And this prodigality of praise, which he now appears to lavish with such thoughtless profusion, is, in fact, a sum oeconomically laid out to supply his future necessities: of this sum he keeps an exact estimate, and at some distant day promises him­self the most exorbitant interest for it. If he has ad­dress [Page 35] and conduct, and the object of his pursuit much vanity, and some sensibility, he seldom fails of success; for so powerful will be his ascendancy over her mind, that she will soon adopt his notions and opinions. In­deed, it is more than probable she possessed most of them before, having gradually acquired them in her i [...]ation, into the sentimental character. To maintain that character with dignity and propriety, it is ne­cessary [...] should entertain the most elevated ideas of disp [...]p [...]tionate alliances, and disinterested love; and consider fortune, rank, and reputation, as mere chi­merical distinctions and vulgar prejudices.

THE lover, deeply versed in all the obliquities of fraud, and skilled to wind himself into every avenue of the heart which indiscretion has left unguarded, soon discovers on which [...]de it is most accessible. He avails himself of this weakness by addressing her in a language exactly consonant to her own ideas. He at­tacks her with her own weapons, and opposes rhap­sody to sentiment.—He professes so sovereign a contempt for the paltry concerns of money, that she thinks it her duty to reward him for so generous a re­nunciation. Every plea he artfully advances of his own unworthiness, is considered by her as a fresh de­mand which her gratitude must answer. And she makes it a point of honour to sacrifice to him that for­tune which he is too noble to regard. These profes­sions of humility are the common artifice of the vain; and these protestations of generosity the refuge of the rapacious. And among its many smooth mischiefs, it is one of the sure and successful frauds of sentiment, to affect the frigid indifference to those external and pecuniary advantages, which it is its great and real object to obtain.

A SENTIMENTAL girl very rarely entertains any doubt of her personal beauty; for she has been daily accustomed to contempl [...]te it herself, and to hear of [Page 36] it from others. She will not therefore be very solici­tous for the confirmation of a truth so self-evident; but she suspects, that her pretensions to understanding are more likely to be disputed, and, for that reason greedily devours every compliment offered to those perfections, which are less obvious and more refined. She is persuaded that men need only open their eyes to decide on her beauty, while it will be the most con­vincing proof of the taste, sense, and elegance of her admirer, that he can discern and flatter those qualities in her. A man of the character here supposed, will easily insinuate himself into her affections, by means of this latent but leading foible, which may be called the guiding clue to a sentimental heart. He will af­fect to overlook that beauty which attracts common eyes, and ensnares common hearts, while he will be­stow the most delicate praises on the beauties of her mind, and finish the climax of adulation, by hinting that she is superior to it.

And when he tells her she hates flattery.
She says she does, being then most flatter'd.

BUT nothing, in general, can end less delightful­ly than these sublime attachments, even where no acts of seduction were ever practised, but they are suffer­ed, like mere sublunary connexions, to terminate in the vulgar catastrophe of marriage. That wealth, which lately seemed to be looked on with ineffable contempt by the lover, now appears to be the principal attrac­tion in the eyes of the husband; and he, who but a few short weeks before, in a transport of sentimental generosity, wished her to have been a village maid, with no portion but her crook and her beauty, and that they might spend their days in pastoral love and innocence, has now [...]st all relish for the Arcadian life, or any other life in which she must be his companion:

[Page 37] ON the other hand, she who was lately ‘An angel call'd, and angel-like ador'd,’ is shocked to find herself at once stripped of all her ce­lestial attributes. This late divinity, who scarcely yielded to her sisters of the sky, now finds hereself of less importance in the esteem of the man she has chosen, than any other mere mortal woman. No longer is she gratified with the tear of counterfeited passion, the sigh of dissembled rapture, or the language of pre­meditated adoration. No longer is the altar of her va­nity loaded with the oblations of fictitious fondness, the incense of falsehood, or the sacrifice of flattery.—Her apotheosis is ended!—She feels herself degrad­ed from the dignities and privileges of a goddess, to all the imperfections, vanities, and weaknesses of a slight­ed woman, and a neglected wife. Her faults which were so lately overlooked, or mistaken for virtues, are now, as Cassius says, set in a note-book. The pas­sion, which was vowed eternal, lasted only a few short weeks; and the indifference, which was so far from being included in the bargain, that it was not so much as suspected, follows them through the whole tiresome journey of their insipid, vacant, joyless exist­ence.

THUS much for the completion of the sentimental history. If we trace it back to its beginning, we shall find that a damsel of this cast had her head ori­ginally turned by pernicious reading, and her insanity confirmed by imprudent friendships. She never fails to select a beloved confidante of her own turn and hu­mour, though, if she can help it, not quite so handsome as herself. A violent intimacy ensues, or, to speak the language of sentiment, an intimate union of souls immediately takes place, which is wrought to the [...]ghest [...]itch by a secret and voluminous correspond­ence, [Page 38] though they live in the same street, or perhaps in the same house. This is the fuel which principally feeds and supplies the dangerous flame of sentiment. In this correspondence the two friends encourage each other in the falsest notions imaginable They repre­sent romantic love as the great important business of human life, and describe all the other concerns of it as too low and paltry to merit the attention of such elevated beings, and fit only to employ the daughters of the plodding vulgar. In these letters, family affairs are misrepresented, family secrets divulged, and fami­ly misfortunes aggravated. They are filled with vows of eternal amity, and protestations of never-ending love. But interjections and quotations are the principal em­bellishments of these very sublime epistles. Every pane­gyric contained in them is extravagant and hyperbolical, every censure exaggerated and excessive. In a favour­ite, every frailty is heightened into a perfection, and in a foe, degraded into a crime. The dramatic poets, especially the most tender and romantic, are quoted in almost every line, and every pompous or pathetic thought is forced to give up its natural and obvious meaning, and with all the violence of misapplication, is compelled to suit some circumstance of imaginary woe of the fair transcriber. Alicia is not too mad for her heroics, nor Monimia too mild for her soft emo­tions.

FATHERS have flinty hearts, is an expression worth an empire, and is always used with peculiar emphasis and enthusiasm. For a favourite topic of these epistles is the groveling spirit and sordid temper of the pa­rents, who will be sure to find no quarter at the hands of their daughters, should they presume to be so un­reasonable as to direct their course of reading, inter­fere in their choice of friends, or interrupt their very important correspondence. But as these young ladies [Page 39] are fertile in expedients, and as their genius is never more agreeably exercised than in finding resources, they are not without their secret exultation, in case either of the above interesting events should happen, as they carry with them a certain air of tyranny and persecution which is very delightful. For a prohibit­ed correspondence is one of the great incidents of a sentimental life, and a letter clandestinely received, the supreme felicity of a sentimental lady.

NOTHING can equal the astonishment of these soar­ing spirits, when their plain friends or prudent rela­tions presume to remonstrate with them on any im­propriety in their conduct. But if these worthy peo­ple happen to be somewhat advanced in life, their contempt is then a little softened by pity, at the re­flection that such very antiquated poor creatures should pretend to judge what is fit or unfit for ladies of their great refinement, sense, and reading. They consider them as wretches utterly ignorant of the sub­lime pleasures of a delicate and exalted passion; as tyrants whose authority is to be contemned, and as spies whose vigilance is to be eluded. The prudence of these worthy friends they term suspicion, and their experience dotage. For they are persuaded, that the face of things has so totally changed since their pa­rents were young, that though they might then judge tolerably for themselves, yet they are now (with all their advantages of knowledge and observation) by no means qualified to direct their more enlightened daughters; who, if they have made a great progress in the sentimental walk, will be no more influenced by the advice of their mother, than they would go abroad in her laced pinner, or her brocade suit.

BUT young people never shew their folly and igno­rance more conspicuously, than by this over confi­dence in their own judgment, and this haughty dis­dain of the opinion of those who have known more [Page 40] days. Youth has a quickness of apprehension, which it is very apt to mistake for an acuteness of penetra­tion. But youth, like cunning, though very conceit­ed, is very short-sighted, and never more so than when it disregards the instructions of the wise, and the admonitions of the aged. The same vices and follies influenced the human heart in their day, which influence it now, and nearly in the same manner. One who well knew the world and its various vanities, has said, ‘The thing which hath been, it is that which shall be, and that which is done is that which shall be done, and there is no new thing under the sun.’

IT is also a part of the sentimental character, to imagine that none but the young and the beautiful have any right to the pleasures of society, or even to the common benefits and blessings of life. Ladies of this turn also affect the most lofty disregard for useful qualities and domestic virtues; and this is a natural consequence: for as this sort of sentiment is only a word for idleness, she who is constantly and usefully employed, has neither leisure nor propensity to cultivate it.

A SENTIMENTAL lady principally values herself on the enlargement of her notions, and her liberal way of thinking. This superiority of soul chiefly mani­fests itself in the contempt of these minute delicacies and little decorums, which, trifling as they may be thought, tend at once to dignify the character, and to restrain the levity of the younger part of the sex.

PERHAPS the error here complained of, originates in mistaking sentiment and principle for each other. Now I conceive them to be extremely different. Sen­timent is the virtue of ideas, and principle the virtue of action. Sentiment has its seat in the head, prin­ciple in the heart. Sentiment suggests fine harrangues and subtile distinctions; principle conceives just no­tions, and performs good actions in consequence of [Page 41] them. Sentiment refines away the simplicity of truth and the plainness of piety; and, as a celebrated wit* has remarked of his no less celebrated cotemporary, gives us virtue in words and vice in deeds. Sentiment may be called the Athenian who knew what was right, and principle the Lacedemonian who practis­ed it.

BUT these qualities will be better exemplified by an attentive consideration of two admirably drawn charac­ters of Milton, which are beautifully, delicately, and distinctly marked. These are, Belial, who may not improperly be called the Demon of Sentiment; and Abdiel, who may be termed the Angel of Principle.

SURVEY the picture, of Belial drawn by the su­blimest hand that ever held the poetic pencil.

A fairer person lost not Heav'n; he seem'd
For dignity compos'd, and high exploit,
But all was false and hollow, though his tongue
Dropt manna, and could make the worse appear
The better reason, to perplex and dash
Maturest counsels, for his thoughts were low,
To vice industrious, but to nobler deeds
Tim'rous and slothful; yet he pleas'd the ear.
PARADISE LOST, B. II.

HERE is a lively and exquisite representation of art, subtilty, wit, fine breeding, and polished man­ners: [...] the whole, of a very accomplished and sen­timental spirit.

NOW turn to the artless, upright, and unsophisti­cated Abdiel,

Faithful found
Among the faithless, faithful only he
Among innumerable false, unmov'd,
Unshaken, unseduc'd, unterrified;
His loyalty he kept, his love, his zeal.
Nor number, nor example with him wrought
To swerve from truth, or change his constant mind,
Though single.
Book V.

[Page 42] BUT it is not from these descriptions, just and striking as they are, that their characters are so per­fectly known, as from an examination of their con­duct through the remainder of this divine work: in which it is well worth while to remark the consonan­cy of their actions, with what the above pictures seem to promise. It will also be observed, that the contrast between them is kept up throughout, with the utmost exactness of delineation, [...]d the most animated strength of colouring. On a review it will be found, that Belial talked all, and Abdiel did all. The for­mer,

With words still cloth'd in reason's guise,
Counsel'd ignoble case and peaceful sloth,
Not peace.
Book II.

IN Abdiel you will constantly find the eloquence of action. When tempted by the rebellious angels, with what retorted scorn, with what honest indigna­tion he deserts their multitudes, and retreats from their contagious society!

All night the dreadless angel unpursued
Through heav'ns wide champain held his way.
Book VI.

NO wonder he was received with such acclama­tions of joy by the celestial powers, when there was

But one
Yes, of so many myriads fall'n, but one
Return'd not lost.
IBID.

AND afterwards, in a close contest with the arch­fiend,

A [...] stroke be li [...]ted high,
On the proud crest of Satan.
IBID.

WHAT was the effect of this courage of the vigi­lant and [...]!

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Amazement seiz'd
The rebel throne, but greatest rage to see
Thus [...]oil'd their mightiest.

ABDIEL had the superiority of Belial as much in the warlike combat, as in the peaceful counsels.

Nor was it ought but just,
That he who in debate of truth had won,
Should win in arms, in both disputes alike
Victor.

BUT notwithstanding I have spoken with some asperity against sentiment as opposed to principle, yet I am convinced, that true genuine sentiment, (not the sort I have been describing) may be so con­nected with principle, as to bestow on it its brightest lustre, and its most captivating graces. And enthu­siasm is so far from being disagreeable, that a portion of it is perhaps indispensably necessary in an engag­ing woman. But it must be the enthusiasm of the heart, not of the senses. It must be the enthusiasm which grows up with a feeling mind, and is cherished by a virtuous education; not that which is com­pounded of irregular passions, and artificially refined by books of unnatural fiction and improbable adven­ture. I will even go so far as to assert, that a young woman cannot have any real greatness of soul, or true elevation of principle if she has not a tincture of what the vulgar would call Romance, but which per­sons of a certain way of thinking will discern to pro­ceed from those fine feelings, and that charming sen­sibility, without which, though a woman may be worthy, yet she can never be amiable.

BUT this dangerous merit cannot be too rigidly watched, as it is very apt to lead those who possess it into inconveniences from which less interesting cha­racters are happily exempt. Young women of strong [Page 44] sensibility may be carried by the very amiableness of this temper, into the most alarming extremes. Their tastes are passions. They love and hate with all their hearts, and scarcely suffer themselves to feel a reason­able preference before it strengthens into a violent at­tachment.

WHEN an innocent girl of this open trusting, ten­der heart, happens to meet with one of her own sex and age, whose address and manners are engaging, she is instantly seized with an ardent desire to com­mence a friendship with her. She feels the most live­ly impatience at the restraints of company, and the decorums of ceremony. She longs to be alone with her, longs to assure her of the warmth of her tender­ness, and generously ascribes to the fair stranger all the good qualities she feels in her own heart, or rather all those which she has met with in her reading, dis­persed in a variety of heroines. She is persuaded, that her new friend unites them all in herself, because she carries in her prepossessing countenance the promise of them all. How cruel and how censorious would this inexperienced girl think her mother was, who should venture to hint, that the agreeable unknown had defects in her temper, or exceptions in her cha­racter. She would mistake these hints of discretion for the insinuations of an uncharitable disposition. At first she would perhaps listen to them with a generous impatience, and afterwards with a cold and silent dis­dain. She would despise them as the effect of preju­dice, misrepresentation, or ignorance. The more ag­gravated the censure, the more vehemently would she protest in secret, that her friendship for this dear in­jured creature (who is raised much higher in her esteem by such injurious suspicions) shall know no bounds, as she is assured it can know no end.

YET this trusting confidence, this honest indiscre­tion, is, at this early period of life, as amiable as it is [Page 45] natural; and will, if wisely cultivated, produce, at its proper season, fruits infinitely more valuable than all the guarded circumspection of premature, and there­fore artificial prudence. Men, I believe, are seldom struck with these sudden prepossessions in [...]avour of each other. They are not so unsuspecting, nor so ea­sily led away by the predominance of fancy. They engage more warily, and pass through the several sta­ges of acquaintance, intimacy, and confidence, by [...]lower gradations; but women, if they are sometimes deceived in the choice of a friend, enjoy even then an higher degree of satisfaction than if they never trust­ed. For to be always clad in the burdensome armour of suspicion, is more painful and inconvenient, than to run the hazard of suffering now and then a transi­ent injury.

BUT the above observations only extend to the young and the inexperienced; for I am very certain, that women are capable of as faithful and as durable friendship as any of the other sex. They can enter not only into all the enthusiastic tenderness, but into all solid fidelity of attachment. And if we cannot op­pose instances of equal weight with those of Ny [...]us and Euryalus, Theseus and Pirithous, Pylades and Orestes, let it be remembered, that it is because the recorders of those characters were men, and that the very existence of them is merely poetical.

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ON TRUE AND FALSE MEEKNESS.

A LOW voice and soft address are the common indications of a well-bred woman, and should seem to be the natural effects of a meek and quiet spirit; but they are only the outward and visible signs of it: for they are no more meekness itself, than a red coat is courage, or a black one devotion.

YET nothing is more common than to mistake the sign for the thing itself; nor is any practice more fre­quent than that of endeavouring to acquire the exte­rior mark, without once thinking to labour after the interior grace. Surely this is beginning at the wrong end, like attacking the symptom and neglecting the disease. To regulate the features, while the soul is in tumults, or to command the voice while the passions are without restraint, is as idle as throwing odours in­to a stream when the source is polluted.

The sapient king, who knew better than any man the nature and the power of beauty, has assured us, that the temper of the mind has a strong influence up­on the features: "Wisdom maketh the face to shine," says that exquisite judge; and surely no part of wisdom is more likely to produce this amiable effect, than a placid serenity of soul.

IT will not be difficult to distinguish the true from [Page 47] the artificial meekness. The former is universal and habitual; the latter, local and temporary. Every young female may keep this rule by her, to enable her to form a just judgment of her own temper: if she is not as gentle to her chambermaid as she is to her vi­sitor, she may rest satisfied that the spirit of gentleness is not in her.

WHO would not be shocked and disappointed to behold a well-bred young lady, soft and engaging as the doves of Venus, displaying a thousand graces and attractions to win the hearts of a large company, and the instant they are gone, to see her look mad as the Pythian maid, and all the frightened graces driven from her furious countenance, only because her gown was brought home a quarter of an hour later than she ex­pected, or her ribbon sent half a shade lighter or dark-than she orderd?

ALL men's characters are said to proceed from their servants; and this is more particularly true of ladies: for as their situations are more domestic, they lie more open to the inspection of their families, to whom their real characters are easily and perfectly known; for they seldom think it worth while to practise any disguise before those, whose good opinion they do not value, and who are obliged to submit to their most insupportable humours, because they are paid for it.

AMONGST women of breeding, the exterior of gentleness is so uniformly assumed, and the whole manner is so perfectly level and uni, that it is next to impossible for a stranger to know any thing of their true dispositions by conversing with them, and even the very features are so exactly regulated, that physiognomy, which may sometimes be trusted among the vulgar, is, with the polite, a most lying science.

A VERY termagant woman, if she happens also to be a very artful one, will be conscious she has so much to conceal, that the dread of betraying her real temper [Page 48] will make her put on an over-acted softness, which, from its very excess, may be distinguished from the natural by a penetrating eye. That gentleness is ever liable to be suspected for the counterfeited, which is so ex­cessive as to deprive people of the proper use of speech and motion, or which, as Hamlet says, makes them lisp and amble, and nick-name God's creatures.

THE countenance and manners of some very fashion­able persons may be compared to the inscriptions on their monuments, which speak nothing but good of what is within; but he who knows any thing of the world, or of the human heart, will no more trust to the courtesy, than he will depend on the epitaph.

AMONG the various artifices of factitious meekness, one of the most frequent and most plausible, is that of affecting to be always equally delighted with all per­sons and all characters. The society of these languid beings is without confidence, their friendship without attachment, and their love without affection, or even preference. This insipid mode of conduct may be safe, but I cannot think it has either taste, sense, or principle in it.

THESE uniformly smiling and approving ladies, who have neither the noble courage to reprehend vice, nor the generous warmth to bear their honest testimony in the cause of virtue, conclude every one to be ill-natur­ed who has any penetration, and look upon a distin­guishing judgment as want of tenderness. But they should learn, that this discernment does not always proceed from an uncharitable temper, but from that long experience and thorough knowledge of the world, which lead these who have it to scrutinize into the conduct and disposition of men, before they trust en­tirely to those fair appearances, which sometimes veil the most insidious purposes.

WE are perpetually mistaking the qualities and dis­positions of our own hearts. We elevate our failings [Page 49] into virtues, and qualify our vices into weaknesses and hence arise so many false judgments respecting meekness. Self-ignorance is at the root of all this mischief. Many ladies complain that, for their part, their spirit is so meek they can bear nothing; where­as, if they spoke truth, they would say, their spirit is so high and unbroken that they can bear nothing. Strange! to plead their meekness as a reason why they cannot endure to be crossed, and to produce their impatience of contradiction as a proof of their gentleness!

MEEKNESS, like most other virtues, has certain limits, which it no sooner exceeds than it becomes criminal. Servility of spirit is not gentleness but weakness, and if allowed, under the specious appear­ances it sometimes puts on, will lead to the most dan­gerous compliances. She who hears innocence malig­ned without vindicating it, falsehood asserted without contradicting it, or religion prophaned without resent­ing it, is not gentle but wicked.

TO give up the cause of an innocent, injured friend, if the popular cry happens to be against him, is the most disgraceful weakness. This was the case of Ma [...]m [...] de Maintenon. She loved the character and admired the talents of Racine; she caressed him while he had no enemies, but wanted the greatness of mind, or rather the common justice, to protect him against their resentment when he had; and her favourite was aban­doned to the suspicious jealousy of the king, when a prudent remonstrance might have preserved him.—But her tameness, if not absolute connivance in the great mass [...]e of the Protestants, in whose church she had been [...]red, is a far more guilty instance of her weak­ness; an instance which, in spite of all her devotional zeal and incomparable prudence, will disqualify her from shining in the annals of good women, however she may be entitled to figure among the great and [Page 50] fortunate. Compare her conduct with that of her undaunted and pious countryman and cotemporary, Bougi, who, when Louis would have prevailed on him to renounce his religion for a commission or a go­vernment, nobly replied, "If I could be persuaded to "betray my God for a marshal's staff, I might betray my king for a bribe of much less consequence."

MEEKNESS is imperfect, if it be not both active and passive; if it will not enable us to subdue our own passions and resentments, as well as qualify us to bear patiently the passions and resentments of others.

BEFORE we give way to any violent emotion of anger, it would perhaps be worth while to consider the value of the object which excites, it, and to reflect for a moment, whither the thing we so ardently de­sire, or so vehemently resent, be really of as much importance to us, as that delightful tranquillity of soul, which we renounce in pursuit of it. If, o [...] a fair calculation, we find we are not likely to get as much as we are sure to lose, then, putting all religious con­siderations out of the question, common sense and hu­man policy will tell us, we have made a foolish and unprofitable exchange. Inward quiet is a part of one's self; the object of our resentment may be only a matter of opinion; and certainly, what makes a portion of our actual happiness ought to be too dear to us, to be sacrified for a trifling, foreign, perhaps imaginary good.

THE most pointed satire I remember to have read, on a mind enslaved by anger, is an observation of Se­neca's. "Alexander (said he) had two friends, Clitus and Lysimachus; the one he exposed to a lion, the other to himself: he who was turned loose to the beast escaped, but Clitus was murdered, for he was turned loose to an angry man."

A PASSIONATE woman's happiness is never in her own keeping: it is the sport of accident, and the [Page 51] slave of events. It is in the power of her acquaintance, her servants, but chiefly of her enemies; and all her comforts lie at the mercy of others. So far from being willing to learn of him who was meek and lowly, she considers meekness as the want of a becoming spirit, and lowliness as a despicable and vulgar mean­ness. And an imperious woman will so little covet the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, that it is almost the only ornament she will not be solicitous to wear. But resentment is a very expensive vice. How dearly has it cost its vo [...]aries, even from the sin of Cain, the [...] [...]nder in this Kind! "It is cheaper (says a pious writer) to forgive, and save the charges."

IF it were only for more human reasons, it would turn to a better account to be patient; nothing de­feats the malice of an enemy like a spirit of forbear­ance; the return of rage for rage cannot be so effec­tually provoking. True gentleness, like an impene­trable armour repels the most pointed shafts of malice: they cannot pierce through this invulnerable shield, but either fall hurtless to the ground, or return to wound the hand that shot them.

A MEEK spirit will not look out of itself for hap­piness, because it finds a constant banquet at home; yet, by a sort of divine alchymy, it will convert all external events to its own profit, and be able to deduce some good, even from the most unpromising; it will extract comfort and satisfaction from the most barren circumstances: ‘It will suck honey out of the rock, and oil out of the flinty rock.’

BUT the supreme excellence of this complacent quality is, that it naturally disposes the mind where it resides to the practice of every other that is amiable. Meekness may be called the pioneer of all the other virtues, which levels every obstruction, and smooths every difficulty that might impede their entrance, or retard their progress.

[Page 52] THE peculiar importance and value of this amiable virtue may be farther seen in its permanency. Ho­nours and dignities are transient, beauty and riches frail and fugacious, to a proverb. Would not the truly wise, therefore, wish to have some one posses­sion, which they might call their own in the severest exigencies? But this wish can only be accomplished by acquiring and maintaining that calm and absolute self-possession, which, as the world had no hand in giving, so it cannot, by the most malicious exertion of its power, take away.

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THOUGHTS ON THE CULTIVATION OF THE HEART AND TEMPER IN THE Education of Daughters.

I HAVE not the foolish presumption to imagine, that I can offer any thing new on a subject, which has been so successfully treated by many learned and able writers, I would only, with all possible deference, beg leave to hazard a few short remarks on that part of the subject of education, which I would call the education of the [...]eart. I am well aware, that this part also has not been less skilf [...]lly and forcibly discussed than the rest, though I cannot, at the same time, help remarking, that it does not appear to have been so much adopted into common practice.

[Page 54] IT appears then, that notwithstanding the great and real improvements, which have been made in the af­fair of female education, and notwithstanding the more enlarged and generous views of it, which prevail in the present day, that there is still a very material defect, which it is not, in general, enough the object of attention to remove. This defect seems to consist in this, that too little regard is paid to the disposition of the mind, that the indications of the temper are not properly cherished, nor the affections of the heart suf­ficiently regulated.

IN the first education of girls, as far as the customs which fashion establishes are right, they should un­doubtedly be followed. Let the exterior be made a considerable object of attention, but let it not be the principal, let it not be the only one.—Let the gra­ces be industriously cultivated, but let them not be cultivated at the expence of the virtues.—Let the arms, the head, the whole person be carefully polish­ed, but let not the heart be the only portion of the human anatomy, which shall be totally overlooked.

THE neglect of this cultivation seems to proceed as much from a bad taste, as from a false principle. The generality of people form their judgment of educa­tion by slight and sudden appearances, which is cer­tainly a wrong way of determining. Music, dancing, and languages, gratify those who teach them, by per­ceptible and almost immedate effects; and when there happens to be no imbecillity in the pupil, nor defici­ency in the master, every superficial observer can, in some measure, judge of the progress.—The effects of most of these accomplishments address themselves to the senses; and there are more who can see and hear, than there are who can judge and reflect.

PERSONAL perfection is not only more obvious, it is also more rapid; and even in very accomplished cha­racters, elegance usually precedes principle.

[Page 55] BUT the heart, that natural seat of evil propensi­ties, that little troublesome empire of the passions, is led to what is right by slow motions and imperceptible degrees. It must be admonished by reproof, and allur­ed by kindness. Its liveliest advances are frequently impeded by the obstinacy of prejudice, and its bright­est promises often obscured by the tempests of pas­sion. It is slow in its acquisition of virtue, and reluc­tant in its approaches to piety.

THERE is another reason, which proves this mental cultivation to be more important, as well as more dif­ficult, than any other part of education. In the usual fashionable accomplishments, the business of acquiring them is almost always getting forwards, and one diffi­culty is conquered before another is suffered to shew itself; for a prudent teacher will level the road his pu­pil is to pass, and smooth the inequalities which might retard her progress

BUT in morals, (which should be the great object constantly kept in view) the task is far more difficult. The unruly and turbulent desires of the heart are not so obedient; one passion will start up before another is suppressed. The subduing Hercules cannot cut off the heads so often as the prolific Hydra can produce them, nor fell the stubborn Antaeus so fast as he can recruit his strength, and rise in vigorous and repeated opposition.

IF all the accomplishments could be bought at the price of a single virtue, the purchase would be infinite­ly dear! And, however startling it may [...]ound, I think it is, notwithstanding, true, that the labours of a good and wise mother, who is anxious for her daughter's most important interests, will seem to be at variance with those of her instructors. She will doubtless re­joice at her progress in any polite art, but she will re­joice with trembling:—humility and piety form the solid and durable basis, on which she wishes to raise [Page 56] the superstructure of the accomplishments, while the accomplishments themselves are frequently of that un­steady nature, that if the foundation is not secur­ed, in proportion as the building is enlarged, it will be overloaded and destroyed by those very ornaments, which were intended to embellish, what they have con­tributed to ruin.

THE more o [...]tensible qualifications should be care­fully regulated, or they will be in danger of putting to slight the modest train of retreating virtues, which cannot safely subsist before the bold eye of public ob­servation, or bear the bolder tongue of impudent and audacious flattery. A tender mother cannot but feel an honest triumph, in contemplating those excellencies in her daughter which deserve applause, but she will also shudder at the vanity which that applause may excite, and at those hitherto unknown ideas which it may awaken.

THE master, it his his interest, and perhaps his du­ty, will naturally teach a girl to set her improvements in the most conspicuous point of light. Se faire va­loir is the great principle industriously inculcated into her young heart, and seems to be considered as a kind of fundamental maxim in education. It is however the certain and effectual seed, from which a thousand yet unborn vanities will spring. This dangerous doc­trine (which yet is not without its uses) will be coun­teracted by the prudent mother, not in so many words, but by a watchful and scarcely perceptible dexterity. Such an one will be more careful to have the talents of her daughter cultivated than exhibited.

ONE would be led to imagine, by the common mode of female education, that life consisted of one univer­sal holiday, and that the only contest was, who should be best enabled to excel in the sports and games that were to be celebrated on it. Merely ornamental ac­complishments will but indifferently qualify a woman [Page 57] to perform the duties of life, though it is highly pro­per she should possess them, in order to furnish the a­musements of it. But is it right to spend so large a portion of life without some preparation for the busi­ness of living? A lady may speak a little French and Italian, repeat a few passages in a theatrical tone, play and sing, have her dressing-room hung with her own drawings, and her person covered with her own tam­bour work, and may notwithstanding, have been very badly educated. Yet I am far from attempting to de­preciate the value of these qualifications: they are most of them not only highly becoming, but often in­dispensibly necessary, and a polite education cannot be perfected without them. But as the world seems to be very well apprised of their importance, there is the less occasion to insist on their utility. Yet, though well-bred young women should learn to dance, sing, recite, and draw, the end of a good education is not that they may become dancers, singers, players or painters: its real object is to make them good daugh­ters, good wives, good mistresses, good members of so­ciety, and good christians. The above qualifications therefore are intended to adorn their leisure, not to em­ploy their lives; for an amiable and wi [...]e woman will always have something better to value herself on, than these advantages, which, however captivating, are still but subordinate parts of a truly excellent character.

BUT I am afraid parents themselves sometimes con­tribute to the error of which I am complaining. Do they not often set a higher value on those acquisitions which are calculated to attract observation, and catch the eye of the multitude, than on those which are va­luable, permanent, and internal? Are they not some­times more solicitous about the opinion of others, re­specting their children, than about the real advantage and happiness of the children themselves? To an in­judicious and superficial eye, the best educated girl [Page 58] may make the [...]east brilliant figure, as she will proba­bly have less flippancy in her manner, and less repartee in her expression; and her acquirements, to borrow bishop Sprat's idea, will be rather enamelled than em­bossed. But he [...] merit will be known, and acknowledg­ed by all who come near enough to discern, and have taste enough to distinguish. It will be understood and admired by the man, whose happiness she is one day to make, whose family she is to govern, and whose children she is to educate. He will not seek for her in the haunts of dissipation, for he knows he shall not find her there; but he will seek for her in the bosom of retirement, in the practice of every domestic virtue, in the exertion of every amiable accomplishment, ex­erted in the shade, to enliven retirement, to heighten the endearing pleasures of social intercourse, and to embellish the narrow circle of family delights. To this amiable purpose, a truly good and well educated young lady will dedicate more elegant accomplishments, in­stead of exhibiting them to attract admiration, or de­press inferiority.

YOUNG girls, who have more vivacity than under­standing, will often make a sprightly [...]igure in conver­sation. But this agreeable talent for entertaining o­thers, is frequently dangerous to themselves, nor is it by any means to be desired or encouraged very early in life. This immaturity of wit is helped on by frivo­lous reading, which will produce its effect in much less time than books of solid instruction: for the imagi­nation is touched sooner than the understanding; and effects are more rapid as they are more pernicious. Con­versation should be the result of education, not the precursor of it. It is a golden fruit, when suffered to grow gradually on the tree of knowledge; but if pre­cipated by forced and unnatural means, it will in the [...]nd become vapid, in proportion as it is artificial.

THE best effects of a careful and religious educa­tion [Page 59] are often very remote: they are to be discovered in future scenes, and exhibited in untried connexions. Every event of life will be putting the heart into fresh situations, and making demands on its prudence, its firmness, its integrity, or its piety. Those whose busi­ness it is to form it, can foresee none of these situa­tions: yet, as far as human wisdom will allow, they must enable it to provide for them all, with an hum­ble dependance on the divine assistance. A well disci­plined soldier must learn and practise all his evolutions, though he does not know on what service his leader may command him, by what foe he shall be attacked, nor what mode of combat the enemy may use.

ONE great art of education consists in not suffering the feelings to become too accute by unnecessary a­wakening, nor too obtuse by the want of exertion. The former renders them the source of calamity, and totally ruins the temper: while the latter blunts and debases them, and produces a dull, cold, and selfish spirit. For the mind is an instrument, which, if wound too high, will lose its sweetness, and if not enough strained, will abate of its vigour.

HOW cruel is it to extinguish by neglect or unkind­ness, the precious sensibility of an open temper, to chill the amiable glow of an ingenious soul, and to quench the bright flame of a noble and generous spi­rit! These are of higher worth than all the documents of learning, of dearer price than all the advantages, which can be derived from the most refined and arti­ficial mode of education.

BUT sensibility and delicacy, and an ingenious tem­per, make no part of education, exclaims the peda­gogue—they are reducible to no class—they come un­der no article of instruction—they belong neither to languages nor to music. What an error! They are a part of education, and of infinitely more value ‘Than all their pedant discipline e'er knew.’ [Page 60] It is true, they are ranged under no class, but they are superior to all; they are of more esteem than langua­ges or music, for they are the language of the heart, and the music of the according passions. Yet this sen­sibility is, in many instances, so far from being culti­vated, that it is not uncommon to see those who affect more than usual sagacity, cast a smile of supercilious pity, at any indication of a warm, generous, or enthu­siastic temper in the lively and the young; as much as to say, ‘they will know better, and will have more discretion when they are older.’ But every appear­ance of amiable simplicity, or of honest shame, Na­ture's hasty conscience, will be dear to sensible hearts; they will carefully cherish every such indication in a young female; for they will perceive that it is this temper wisely cultivated, which will one day make her enamoured of the loveliness of virtue, and the beauty of holiness: from which she will acquire a taste for the doctrines of religion, and a spirit to perform the du­ties of it. And those who wish to make her ashamed of this charmi [...]g temper, and seek to dispossess her of it, will, it is to be feared, give her nothing better in exchange. But whoever reflects at all, will easily dis­cern how carefully this enthusiasm is to be directed, and how judiciously its redundances are to be lopped away.

PRUDENCE is not natural to children; they can how­ever, substitute art in its stead. But is it not much bet­ter that a girl should discover the faults incident to her age, than conceal them under this dark and impene­trable veil? I could almost venture to assert, that there is something more becoming in the very errors of na­ture, where they are undisguised, than in the a [...]ecta­tion of virtue itself, where the reality is wanting. And I am so far from being an admirer of prodigies, that I am extremely apt to suspect them; and am always infinitely better pleased with Nature in her more com­mon [Page 61] modes of operation. The precise and premature wisdom, which some girls have cunning enough to assume, is of a more dangerous tendency than any of their natural failings can be, as it effectually covers those secret bad dispositions, which, if they displayed themselves, might be rectified. The hypocrisy of as­suming virtues which are not inherent in the heart, prevents the growth and disclosure of those real ones, which it is the great end of education to cultivate.

BUT if the natural indications of the temper are to be suppressed and stifled, where are the diagnostics, by which the state of the mind is to be known? The wise author of all things, who did nothing in vain, doubtless intended them as symptoms, by which to judge of the diseases of the heart; and it is impossible diseases should be cured before they are known. If the stream be so cut off as to prevent communication, or so choked up as to defeat discovery, how shall we ever reach the source, out of which are the issues of life?

THIS cunning, which, of all the different disposi­tions girls discover, is most to be dreaded, is increased by nothing so much as by fear. If those about them express violent and unreasonable anger at every trivial offence, it will always promote this temper, and will very frequently create it, where there was a natural tendency to frankness. The indiscreet transports of rage, which many betray on every slight occasion, and the little distinction they make between venial errors and premeditated crimes, naturally dispose a child to conceal, what she does not however care to suppress. Anger in one will not remedy the faults of another; for how can an instrument of sin cure sin? If a girl is kept in a state of perpetual and slavish terror, she will perhaps have artifice enough to conceal those propen­sities which she knows are wrong, or those actions which she thinks are most obnoxious to punishment. [Page 62] But, nevertheless, she will not cease to indulge those propensities, and to commit those actions, when she can do it with impunity.

GOOD dis [...]sitions, of themselves, will go but a very little way, unless they are confirmed into good princi­ples. And this cannot be effected but by a careful course of religious instruction, and a patient and labo­rious cultivation of the moral temper.

BUT, notwithstanding girls should not be treated with unkindness nor the first openings of the passions blighted by cold severity; yet I am of opinion, that young females should be accustomed very early in life to a certain degree of restraint. The natural cast of character, and the moral distinctions between the sexes, should not be disregarded even in childhood. That [...]old, independent, enterprising spirit, which is so much admired in boys, should not, when it happens to discover itself in the other sex, be encouraged, but suppressed. Girls should be taught to give up their opinions betimes, and not pertinaciously to carry on a dispute, even if they should know themselves to be in the right. I do not mean, that they should be rob­bed of the liberty of private judgment, but that they should by no means be encouraged to contract a con­tentious or contradictory turn. It is of the greatest importance to their future happiness, that they should acquire a submissive temper, and a forbearing spirit; for it is a lesson which the world will not fail to make them frequently practise, when they come abroad into it, and they will not practise it the worse for having learnt it the sooner. These early restraints, in the limitation here meant, are so far from being an effect of cruelty, that they are the most undubitable marks of affection, and are the more meritorious, as they are severe trials of tenderness. But all the beneficial [...]f­fects, which a mother can expect from this watchful­ness, will be entirely defeated, if it is practised occa­sionally, [Page 63] and not habitually, and if it ever appears to be used to gratify caprice, ill-humour, or resentment.

THOSE who have children to educate ought to be extremely patient: it is indeed a labour of love. They should reflect, that extraordinary talents are neither essential to the well-being of society, nor to the hap­piness of individuals. If that had been the case, the beneficent Father of the universe would not have made them so rare. For it is as easy for an Almighty Cre­ator to produce a Newton, as an ordinary man; and he could have made those powers common which we now consider as wonderful, without any miraculous exertion of his omnipotence, if the existence of many Newtons had been necessary to the perfection of his wise and gracious plan.

SURELY, therefore, there is more piety, as well as more sense, in labouring to improve the talents which children actually have, than in lamenting that they do not possess supernatural endowments or angelic perfections. A passage of Lord Bacon's furnishes an admirable incitement for endeavouring to carry the amiable and christian grace of charity to its farthest extent, instead of indulging an over-anxious care for more brilliant but less important acquisitions. ‘The desire of power in excess (says he) caused the angels to fall; the desire of knowledge in excess caused man to fall; but in charity is no excess, neither can men nor angels come into danger by it.’

A GIRL who has docility will seldom be found to want understanding enough for all the purposes of a social, a happy, and an useful life. And when we behold the tender hope of f [...]nd and anxious love, blast­ed by disappointment, the defect will as often be dis­covered to proceed from the neglect or the error of cultivation, as from the natural temper; and those who lament the evil, will sometimes be found to have occasioned it.

[Page 64] IT is as injudicious for parents to set out with too sanguine a dependence on the merit of their children, as it for them to be discouraged at every repulse. When their wishes are defeated in this or that parti­cular instance, where they had treasured up some dar­ling expectation, this is so far from being a reason for relaxing their attention, that it ought to be an addi­tional motive for redoubling it. Those who hope to do a great deal, must not expect to do every thing. If they know any thing of the malignity of sin, the blindness of prejudice, or the corruption of the human heart, they will also know, that that heart will always remain, after the very best possible education, full of infirmity and imperfection. Extraordinary allowan­ces, therefore, must be made for the weakness of nature in this its weakest state. After much is done, much will remain to do, and much, very much, will still be left undone. For this regulation of the passions and affections cannot be the work of education alone, without the concurrence of divine grace operating on the heart. Why then should parents repine, if their efforts are not always crowned with immediate success? They should consider, that they are not educating cherubims and seraphims, but men and women; crea­tures, who at their best estate are altogether vanity: how little th [...]n can be expected from them in the weakness and imbecillity of infancy! I have dwelt on this part of the subject the longer, because I am certain that many, who have set out with a warm and active zeal, have cooled on the very first discourage­ment, and have afterwards almost totally remitted their vigilance, through a criminal kind of despair.

GREAT allowances must be made for a profusion of gaiety, loquacity, and even indiscretion in children, that there may be animation enough left to supply an active and useful character, when the first fermentation of the youthful passions is over, and the redundant spirits shall come to subside.

[Page 65] IF it be true, as a consummate judge of human nature has observed, ‘That not a vanity is given in vain,’ it is also true, that there is scarcely a single passion, which may not be turned to some good account, if prudently rectified, and skillfully turned into the road of some neighbouring virtue. It cannot be violently bent, or unnaturally forced towards an object of a to­tally opposite nature, but may be gradually inclined towards a correspondent but superior affection. Anger, hatred, resentment, and ambition, the most restless and turbulent passions which shake and distract the human soul, may be led to become the most active opposers of sin, after having been its most successful instruments. Our anger, for instance, which can ne­ver be totally subdued, may be made to turn against ourselves, for our weak and imperfect obedience—our hatred, against every species of vice—our ambi­tion, which will not be discarded, may be ennobled: it will not change its name, but its object; it will despise what it lately valued, nor be contented to grasp at less than immortality.

THUS the joys, fears, hopes, desires, all the passions and affections, which separate in various currents from the soul, will, if directed into their proper channels, after having fertilised wherever they have flowed, re­turn again to swell and enrich the parent source.

THAT the very passions which appear the most uncontroulable and unpromising, may be intended, in the great scheme of Providence, to answer some important purpose, is remarkably evidenced in the character and history of Saint Paul. A remark on this subject by an ingenious old Spanish writer, which I will here take the liberty to translate, will better illustrate my meaning.

[Page 66] ‘TO convert the bitterest enemy into the most zealous advocate, is the work of God for the in­struction of man. Plutarch has observed, that the medical science would be brought to the utmost perfection, when poison should be converted into physic. Thus, in the mortal disease of Judaism and idolatry, our blessed Lord converted the adder's venom of Saul the persecutor, into that cement which made Paul the chosen vessel. That manly activity, that restless ardor, that burning zeal for the law of his fathers, that ardent thirst for the blood of Christians, did the Son of God find ne­cessary in the man who was one day to become the defender of his suffering people*.’

TO win the passions, therefore, over to the cause of virtue, answers a much nobler end than their ex­tinction would possibly do, even if that could be ef­fected. But it is their nature never to observe a neu­trality; they are either rebels or auxiliaries, and an enemy subdued is an ally obtained. If I may be al­lowed to change the allusion so soon, I would say, that the passions also resemble fires, which are friendly and beneficial when under proper direction, but if suffered to blaze without restraint, they carry deva­station along with them, and, if totally extinguished, leave the benighted mind in a state of cold and com­fortless inanity.

BUT in speaking of the usefulness of the passions, as instruments of virtue, envy and lying must always be excepted: these I am persuaded, must either go on in still progressive mischief, or else be radically cured, before any good can be expected from the heart which has been infected with them. For I never will believe that envy, though passed through all the mo­ral strainers, can be refined into a virtuous emulation, [Page 67] or lying improved into an agreeable turn for innocent invention. Almost all the other passions may be made to take an amiable hue; but these two must either be totally extirpated, or be always contented to preserve their original deformity, and to wear their native black.

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ON THE IMPORTANCE OF RELIGION TO THE FEMALE CHARACTER.

VARIOUS are the reasons why the greater part of mankind cannot apply themselves to arts or letters. Particular studies are only suited to the capa­cities of particular persons. Some are incapable of applying to them from the delicacy of their sex, some from the unsteadiness of youth, and others from the imbecillity of age. Many are precluded by the nar­rowness of their education, and many by the strait­ness of their fortune. The wisdom of God is won­derfully manifested in this happy and well-ordered diversity, in the powers and properties of his creatures; since by thus admirably suiting the agent to the action, the whole scheme of human affairs is carried on with the most agreeing and consistent [...]conomy, and no chasm is left for want of an object to [...]ill it, exactly suited to its nature.

[Page 69] BUT in the great and universal concern of religion, both sexes, and all ranks, are equally interested. The truly catholic spirit of christianity accomodates itself, with an astonishing condescension, to the cir­cumstances of the whole human race. It rejects none on account of their pecuinary wants, their personal infirmities, or their intellectual deficiencies. No su­periority of parts is the least recommendation, nor is any depression of fortune the smallest objection. None are too wise to be excused from performing the duties of religion, nor are any too poor to be excluded from the consolations of its promises.

If we admire the wisdom of God, in having fur­nished different degrees of intelligence, so exactly a­dapted to their different destinations, and in having fitted every part of his stupendous work, not only to serve its own immediate purpose, but also to contri­bute to the beauty and perfection of the whole: how much more ought we to adore that goodness, which has perfected the divine plan, by appointing one wide, comprehensive, and universal means of salvation: a salvation, which all are invited to partake; by a means which all are capable of using; which nothing but vo­luntary blindness can prevent our comprehending, and nothing but wilful error can hinder us from embracing.

THE Muses are coy, and will only be wooed and won by some highly-favoured suitors. The sciences are lofty, and will not stoop to the reach of ordina­ry capacities. But ‘Wisdom (by which the royal preacher means piety) is a loving spirit: she is easily seen of them that love her, and found of all such as seek her.’ Nay, she is so accessible and condescending, ‘that she preventeth them that de­sire her, making herself first known unto them.’

We are told by the same animated writer, that "Wisdom is the breath of the power of God." How in [...]initely superior, in grandeur and sublimity, is this [Page 70] description to the origin of the wisdom of the hea­thens, as described by their poets and mythologists! In the exalted strains of the Hebrew poetry we read, that ‘Wisdom is the brightness of the everlasting light, the unspotted mirror of the power of God, and the image of his goodness.’

The philosophical author of The Defence of Learn­ing observes, that knowledge has something of venom and malignity in it, when taken without its proper corrective, and what that is, the inspired Saint Paul teaches us, by placing it as the immediate antidote: Knowledge puffeth up, but charity edi [...]eth. Perhaps, it is the vanity of human wisdom, unchas [...]ifed by this correcting principle, which has made so many in [...]i­dels. It may proceed from the arrogance of a self-sufficient pride, that some philosophers disdain to ac­knowledge their belief in a Being, who has judged pro­per to conceal from them the infinite wisdom of his counsels; who, (to borrow the lofty language of the man of Uz) refused to consult them when he laid the foundations of the earth, when he shut up the sea with doors, and made the clouds the garment thereof.

A MAN must be an in [...]idel either from pride, pre­judice, or bad education: he cannot be one unawares or by surprise; for infidelity is not occasioned by sudden impulse or violent temptation. He may be hur­ried by some vehement desire into an immoral action, at which he will blush in his cooler moments, and which he will lament as the sad effect of a spirit unsubdued by religion; but infidelity is a calm, con­siderate act, which cannot plead the weakness of the heart, or the seduction of the senses. Even good men frequently fail in their duty through the infirmities of nature, and the allurements of the world; but the infidel errs on a plan, on a settled and deliberate prin­ciple.

BUT though the minds of men are sometimes fa­tally [Page 71] infected with this disease, either through unhap­py prepossession, or some of the other causes above mentioned: yet I am unwilling to believe, that there i [...] in nature so monstrously incongruous a being, as a female infidel. The least reflexion on the temper, the character, and the education of women, makes the mind revolt with horror from an idea so improbable, and so unnatural.

MAY I be allowed to observe, that, in general, the minds of girls seem more aptly prepared in their early youth for the reception of serious impressions than those of the other sex, and that their less exposed situations in more advanced life qualify them better for the preservation of them? The daughters (of good parents I mean) are often more carefully instructed in their reli [...]ions duties, than the sons, and this from a variety of causes. They are not so soon sent from under the paternal eye into the bustle of the world, and so early exposed to the contagion of bad example: their heart [...] are naturally more flexible, soft and liable to any kind of impression the forming hand may stamp on them; and, lastly, as they do not receive the same classical education with boys, their [...]e [...]ble mind [...] are not obliged at once to receive and separate the precepts of christianity, and the documents of pagan philosophy. The necessity of doing this perhaps somewhat weakens the serious impressions of young men, at least till the understanding is formed, and confuses their ideas of piety, by mixing them with so much heterogeneous matter. They only casually read, or hear read, the scriptures of truth, while they are obliged to learn by heart, construe and rep [...]t the poetical fables of the less than human gods of the ancients. And as the excellent author of The Internal Evidence of the Christian Religion observes, ‘N [...]thing has so much contributed to corrupt the true spirit of the christian institution, as that partiality [Page 72] which we contract, in our earliest education, for the manners of pagan antiquity.’

GIRLS, therefore, who do not contract this early partiality, ought to have a clearer notion of their religious duties: they are not obliged, at an age when the judgment is so weak, to distinguish between the doctrines of Zeno, of Epicurus, and of Christ; and to embarrass their minds with the various morals which were taught in the Porch, in the Academy, and on the Mount.

IT is presumed, that these remarks cannot possibly be so misunderstood, as to be construed into the least disrespect to literature, or a want of the highest re­verence for a learned education, the basis of all elegant knowledge: they are only intended, with all proper deference, to point out to young women, that how­ever inferior their advantages of acquiring a know­ledge of the belles-lettres are to those of the other sex; yet it depends on themselves not to be surpassed in this most important of all studies, for which their abilities are equal, and their opportunities, perhaps, greater.

BUT the mere exemption from infidelity is so small a part of the religious character, that I hope no one will attempt to claim any merit from this negative sort of goodness, or value herself merely for not being the very worst thing she possibly can be. Let no mistaken girl fancy she gives a proof of her wit by her want of piety, or that a contempt of things serious and sacred will exalt her understanding, or raise her character even in the opinion of the most avowed male in [...]idels. For one may venture to affirm, that with all their profligate ideas, both of women and of re­ligion, neither Bolingbroke, Wharton, Buckingham, nor even Lord Ch [...]r [...]i [...]ld [...]imself, would have esteem­ed a woman the more for her being irreligious.

WITH whatever ridicule a polite free-thinker, [...]ay [Page 73] affect to treat religion himself, he will think it neces­sary his wife should entertain different notions of it. He may pretend to despise it as a matter of opinion, depending on creeds and systems; but, if he is a man of sense, he will know the value of it, as a governing principle, which is to influence her conduct and direct her actions. If he sees her unaffectedly sincere in the practice of her religious duties, it will be a secret pledge to him, that she will be equally exact in ful­filling the conjugal; for he can have no reasonable dependence on her attachment to him, if he has no opinion of her fidelity to GOD; for she who neglects first duties, gives but an indifferent proof of her disposition to [...]ill up inferior ones; and how can a man of any understanding, (whatever his own reli­gious professions may be) trust that woman with the care of his family, and the education of his children, who wants herself the best incentive to a virtuous life, the belief that she is an accountable creature, and the reflection that she has an immortal soul?

CICERO spoke it as the highest commendation of Cato's character that he embraced philosophy, not for the sake of disputing like a philosopher, but of living like one. The chief purpose of christian know­ledge is to promote the great end of a christian life. Every rational woman should, no doubt, be able to give a reason of the hope that is in her; but this knowledge is best acquired, and the duties consequent on it best performed, by reading books of plain piety and practical devotion, and not by entering into the endless feuds, and engaging in the unprofitable con­tentions of partial controversialists. Nothing is more unamiable than the narrow spirit of party-zeal, nor more disgusting than to hear a woman deal out judg­ments, and denounce vengeance against any one, who happens to differ from her in some opinion, perhaps of no real importance, and which, it is probable, she [Page 74] may be just as wrong in rejecting, as the object of her censure is in embracing. A furious and unmerci­ful female bigot wanders as far beyond the limits prescribed to her sex, as a Thalestris or a Joan d'Arc. Violent debate has made as few converts as the sword, and both these instruments are particularly unbecom­ing when wielded by a female hand.

But though no one will be frightened out of their opinions, yet they may be persuaded out of them: they may be touched by the affecting earnestness of serious conversation, and allured by the attractive beauty of a consistently serious life. And while a young woman ought to dread the name of a wrangling polemic, it is her duty to aspire after the honourable character of a sincere Christian. But this dignified character she can by no means deserve, if she is ever afraid to avow her principles, or ashamed to defend them. A profli­gate, who makes it a point to ridicule every thing which comes under the appearance of formal instruc­tion, will be disconcerted at the spirited yet modest re­buke of a pious young woman. But there is as much efficacy in the manner of reproving prophaneness, as in the words. If she corrects it with moroseness, she defeats the effect of her remedy, by her unskilful manner of administring it. If, on the other hand, she affects to defend the insulted cause of God, in a faint tone of voice, and studied ambiguity of phrase, or with an air of levity, and a certain expression of pleasure in her eyes, which proves she is secretly de­lighted with what she pretends to censure, she injures religion much more than he did who publicly pro­phaned it; for she plainly indicates, either that she does not believe, or respect what she professes. The other attacked it as an open foe; she betrays it as a false friend. No one pays any regard to the opinion of an avowed enemy; but the desertion or treachery of a professed friend, is dangerous indeed!

[Page 75] IT is a strange notion which prevails in the world, that religion only belongs to the old and the melancho­ly, and that it is not worth while to pay the least atten­tion to it, while we are capable of attending to any thing else. They allow it to be proper enough for cler­gy, whose business it is, and for the aged, who have not spirits for any business at all. But till they can prove, that none except the clergy and aged die, it must be confessed that this is most wretched reasoning.

GREAT injury is done to the interests of religion, by placing it in a gloomy and unamiable light. It is sometimes spoken of, as if it would actually make a handsome woman ugly, or a young one wrinkled. But can any thing be more absurd than to represent the beauty of holiness as the source of deformity?

THERE are few, perhaps, so entirely plunged in business, or absorbed in pleasure, as not to intend, at some future time, to set about a religious life in good earnest. But then they consider it as a kind of dernier ressort, and think it prudent to defer fly­ing to this disagreeable refuge, till they have no re­lish left for any thing else. Do they forget, that to perform this great business well, requires all the strength of their youth, and all the vigour of their unimpaired capacities? To confirm this assertion, they may observe how much the slightest indisposition, even in the most active season of life, disorders every faculty, and disqualifies them for attending to the most ordinary affairs; and then let them reflect how little able they will be to transact the most important of all business, in the moment of excruciating pain, or in the day of universal debility.

WHEN the senses are palled with excessive gratifica­tion; when the eye is tired with seeing, and the ear with hearing; when the spirits are so-sunk, that the grasshopper is become a burthen, how shall the blunted apprehension be capable of understanding a new science, [Page 76] or the worn-out heart be able to relish a new plea­sure?

To put off religion till we have lost all taste for amusement; to refuse listening to the "voice of the charmer," till our enfeebled organs can no longer listen to the voice of "singing men and singing wo­men," and not to devote our days to heaven till we have "no pleasure in them" ourselves, is but an un­gracious offering. And it is a wretched sacrifice to the God of heaven, to present him with the remnants of decayed appetites, and the leavings of extinguished passions.

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Miscellaneous Observations ON GENIUS, TASTE, GOOD SENSE, &c.*

GOOD sense is as different from genius as perception is from invention; yet, though distinct qualities, they frequently subsist together. It is altogether opposite to wit, but by no means inconsistent with it. It is not science, for there is such a thing as unlettered good sense; yet, though it is neither wit, learning, nor genius, it is a substitute for each, where they do not exist, and the perfection of all where they do.

[Page 78] GOOD sense is so far from deserving the appellation of common sense, by which it is frequently called, that it is perhaps one of the rarest qualities of the human mind. If, indeed, this name is given it in respect to its peculiar suitableness to the purposes of common life, there is great propriety in it. Good sense ap­pears to differ from taste in this, that taste is an in­stantaneous decision of the mind, a sudden relish of what is beautiful, or disgust at what is defective, in an object, without waiting for the slower confirma­tion of the judgment. Good sense is perhaps that confirmation, which establishes a suddenly conceived idea, or feeling, by the powers of comparing and reflecting. They differ also in this, that taste seems to have a more immediate reference to arts, to litera­ture, and to almost every object of the senses; while good sense rises to moral excellence, and exerts its influence on life and manners. Taste is fitted to the perception and enjoyment of whatever is beautiful in art or nature: Good sense, to the improvement of the conduct, and the regulation of the heart.

YET the term good sense, is used indiscriminately to express either a finished taste for letters, or an in­variable prudence in the affairs of life. It is sometimes applied to the most moderate abilities, in which case, the expression i [...] certainly too strong; and at others to the most shining, when it is as much too weak and inadequate. A sensible man is the usual, but unap­propriated phrase, for every degree in the scale of understanding, from the sober mortal, who obtains it by his dec [...]t demeanor and solid dullness, to him whose talent [...] qualify him to rank with a Bacon, a Harris, or a Johnson.

[...] is the power of invention and imitation. It is an incommunicable faculty: no art or skill of the possesses [...] bestow the smallest portion of it on ano­ther: no pains or labour can reach the summit of [Page 79] perfection, where the seeds of it are wanting in the mind, yet it is capable of infinite improvement where it actually exists, and is attended with the highest ca­pacity of communicating instruction, as well as delight to others.

IT is the peculiar property of genius to strike out great or beautiful things: it is the felicity of good sense not to do absurd ones. Genius breaks out in splendid sentiments and elevated ideas; good sense confines its more circumscribed, but perhaps more useful walk, within the limits of prudence and propriety.

The poet's eye in a fine frenzy rolling,
Doth glance from heaven to earth, from earth to heaven;
And, as imagination bodies forth
The forms of things unknown, the poet's pen
Turns them to shape, and gives to airy nothing
A local habitation and a name.

THIS is perhaps the finest picture of human genius that ever was drawn by a human pencil. It presents a living image of a creative imagination, or a power of inventing things which have no actual existence.

WITH superficial judges, who, it must be confessed, make up the greater part of the mass of mankind, ta­lents are only liked or understood to a certain degree. Lofty ideas are above the reach of ordinary appre­hensions: the vulgar allow those who possess them to be in a somewhat higher state of mind than themselves; but of the vast gulf which separates them, they have not the least conception. They acknowledge a supe­riority, but of its extent they neither know the value, nor can conceive the reality. It is true, the mind, as well as the eye, can take in objects larger than it­self; but this is only true of great minds: for a man of low capacity, who considers a consummate genius, resembles one, who seeing a column for the first time, and standing at too great a distance to take in the [Page 80] whole of it, concludes it to be flat. Or, like one unacquainted with the first principles of philosophy, who, finding the sensible horizon appear a plain sur­face, can form no idea of the spherical form of the whole, which he does not see, and laughs at the ac­count of antipodes, which he cannot comprehend.

WHATEVER is excellent is also rare; what is use­ful is more common. How many thousands are born qualified for the coarse employments of life, for one who is capable of excelling in the fine arts! yet so it ought to be, because our natural wants are more numerous, and more importunate, than the intellec­tual.

WHENEVER it happens that a man of distinguished talents has been drawn by mistake, or precipitated by passion, into any dangerous indiscretion; it is com­mon for those whose coldness of temper has supplied the place, and usurped the name of prudence, to boast of their own steadier virtue, and triumph in their own superior caution; only because they have never been assailed by a temptation strong enough to surprise them into error. And with what a visible appropria­tion of the character to themselves, do they constantly conclude, with a cordial compliment to common sense! They point out the beauty and usefulness of this qua­lity so forcibly and explicitly, that you cannot possibly mistake whose picture they are drawing with so flat­tering a pencil. The unhappy man whose conduct has been so feelingly arraigned, perhaps acted from good, though mistaken motives; at least, from mo­tives of which his censurer has not capacity to judge: but the event was unfavourable, nay the action might be really wrong, and the vulgar maliciously take the opportunity of this single indiscretion, to li [...]t them­selves nearer on a level with a character, which, ex­cept in this instance, has always thrown them at the most disgraceful and mortifying distance.

[Page 81] THE elegant Biographer of Collins, in his affecting apology for that unfortunate genius, remarks, ‘That the gifts of imagination bring the heaviest task on the vigilance of reason; and to bear those faculties with unerring rectitude, or invariable propriety, requires a degree of firmness, and of cool attention, which does not always attend the higher gifts of the mind; yet difficult as Nature herself seems to have rendered the task of regularity to genius, it is the supreme consolation of dullness, and of folly to point with gothic triumph to those excesses which are the overflowing of faculties they never enjoyed.’

WHAT the greater part of the world mean by com­mon sense, will be generally found, on a closer enqui­ry, to be art, fraud, or selfishness! That sort of sav­ing prudence which makes men extremely attentive to their own safety, or profit; diligent in the pursuit of their own pleasures or interests; and perfectly at their [...]ase as to what becomes of the rest of mankind. Fu­rious, where their own property is concerned, philo­sophers when nothing but the good of others is at stake, and perfectly resigned under all calamities but their own.

WHEN we see so many accomplished wits of the present age, as remarkable for the decorum of their lives, as for the brilliancy of their writings, we may believe, that, next to principle, it is owing to their good sense, which regulates and chastises their imagi­nations. The vast conceptions which enable a true genius to ascend the sublimest heights, may be so connected with the stronger passions, as to give it a natural tendency to fly off from the strait line of re­gularity; till good sense, acting on the fancy, makes it gravitate powerfully towards that virtue which is its proper centre.

[Page 82] ADD to this, when it is considered with what im­perfection the Divine Wisdom has thought fit to stamp every thing human, it will be found, that excellence and infirmity are so inseparably wound up in each other, that a man derives the soreness of temper, and irritability of nerve, which make him uneasy to others, and unhappy in himself, from those exquisite feelings, and that elevated pitch of thought, by which, as the apostle expresses it on a more serious occasion, he is, as it were, out of the body.

IT is not astonishing, therefore, when the spirit is carried away by the magnificence of its own ideas, ‘Not touch'd but rapt, not weaken'd but inspir'd,’ that the frail body, which is the natural victim of pain, disease, and death, should not always be able to follow the mind in its aspiring flights, but should be as imperfect as if it belonged only to an ordinary soul.

BESIDES, might not Providence intend to humble human pride, by presenting to our eyes so mortifying a view of the weakness and infirmity of even his best work? Perhaps man, who is already but a little lower than the angels, might, like the revolted spirits, to­tally have shaken off obedience and submission to his Creator, had not God wisely tempered human excel­lence with a certain consciousness of its own imper­fection. But though this inevitable alloy of weakness may frequently be found in the best characters, yet how can that be the source of triumph and exaltation to any, which, if properly weighed, must be the deepest motive of humiliation to all? A good-natured man will be so far from rejoicing, that he will be se­cretly troubled, whenever he reads that the greatest Roman moralist was tainted with avarice, and the greatest British philosopher with venality.

[Page 83] IT is remarked by Pope, in his Essay on Criticism, that, ‘Ten censure wrong for one that writes amiss.’ But I apprehend it does not therefore follow that to judge, is more difficult than to write. If this were the case, the critic would be superior to the poet, whereas it appears to be directly the contrary. "The critic, (says the great champion of Shakespeare) but fashions the body of a work, the poet must add the soul, which gives force and direction to its actions and gestures." It should seem that the reason why so many more judge wrong, than write ill, is because the number of readers is beyond all proportion greater than the number of writers. Every man who reads, is in some measure a critic, and, with very common abilities, may point out real faults and material errors in a very well written book; but it by no means fol­lows, that he is able to write any thing comparable to the work which he is capable of censuring. And unless the numbers of those who write, and of those who judge, were more equal, the calculation seems not to be quite fair.

A CAPACITY for relishing works of genius is the indubitable sign of a good taste. But if a proper dis­position and ability to enjoy the compositions of o­thers, entitle a man to the claim of reputation, it is still a far inferior degree of merit to his who can invent and produce those compositions, the ba [...]e disquisition of which gives the critic no small share of [...]ame.

THE president of the royal academy in his admira­ble Discourse on imitation has set the folly of depend­ing on unassisted genius, in the clearest light; and has shewn the necessity of adding the knowledge of others, to our own native powers, in his usual striking and masterly manner. ‘The mind, says he, is a barren [Page 84] soil, is a soil soon exhausted, and will produce no crop, or only one, unless it be continually fertilized, and enriched with foreign matter.’

YET it has been objected that study is a great ene­my to originality; but even if this were true, it would perhaps be as well that an author should give us the ideas of still better writers, mixed and assimilated with the matter in his own mind, as those crude and undi­gested thoughts which he values under the notion that they are original. The sweetest honey neither tastes of the rose, the honey-suckle, nor the carna­tion, yet it is compounded of the very essence of them all.

IF in the other fine arts this accumulation of know­ledge is necessary, it is indispensably so in poetry. It is a fatal rashness for any one to trust too much to their own stock of ideas. He must invigorate them by exercise, polish them by conversation, and increase them by every species of elegant and virtuous know­ledge, and the mind will not fail to reproduce with interest those seeds, which are sown in it by study and observation. Above all, let every one guard against the dangerous opinion that he knows enough: an opi­nion that will weaken the energy and reduce the powers of the mind, which, though once perhaps vigorous and effectual, will be sunk to a state of literary imbe­cility, by cherishing vain and presumptuous ideas of its own independence.

FOR ins [...]ance, it may not be necessary that a poet should be deeply skilled in the Linnaean system; but it must be allowed that a general acquaintance with plants and flowers will furnish him with a delightful and profitable species of instruction. He is not o­bliged to trace Nature in all her nice and varied ope­rations, with the minute accuracy of a Boyle, or the laborious investigation of a Newton; but his good sense will point out to him that no inconsiderable portion [Page 85] of philosophical knowledge is requisite to the com­pletion of his literary character. The sciences are more independent, and require little or no assistance from the graces of poetry; but poetry, if she would charm and instruct, must not be so haughty; she must be contented to borrow of the sciences, many of her choicest allusions, and many of her most graceful em­bellishments; and does it not magnify the character of true poesy, that she includes within herself all the scattered graces of every separate art?

THE rules of the great masters in criticism may not be so necessary to the forming a good taste, as the examination of those original mines from whence they drew their treasures of knowledge.

THE three celebrated Essays on the Art of Poetry do not teach so much by their laws as by their exam­ples; the dead letter of their rules is less instructive than the living spirit of their verse. Yet these rules are to a young poet, what the study of logarithms is to a young mathematician; they do not so much con­tribute to form his judgment, as afford him the satis­faction of convincing him that he is right. They do not preclude the difficulty of the operation; but at the conclusion of it, furnish him with a fuller demon­stration that he has proceeded on proper principles. When he has well studied the masters in whose schools the first critics formed themselves, and fancies he has caught a spark of their divine flame, it may be a good method to try his own compositions by the test of the critic rules, so far indeed as the mechanism of poetry goes. If the examination be fair and candid, this trial, like the touch of It [...]riel's spear, will de­tect every latent error, and bring to light every fa­vourite failing.

GOOD taste always suits the measure of its admira­tion to the merit of the composition it examines. It accommodates its praises, or its censure, to the excel­lence [Page 86] of a work, and appropriates it to the nature of it. General applause, or indiscriminate abuse, is the sign of a vulgar understanding. There are certain blemishes which [...]he judicious and good-natured reader will candidly overlook. But the false sublime, the tumour which is intended for greatness, the distorted figure, the puerile conceit, and the incongruous me­taphor, these are defects for which scarcely any other kind of merit can atone. And yet there may be more hope of a writer (especially if he be a young one), who is now and then guilty of some of these faults, than of one who avoids them all, not through judg­ment, but feebleness, and who, instead of deviating into error is continually falling short of excellence. The mere absence of error implies that moderate and inferior degree of merit with which a cold heart and a phlegmatic taste will be better satisfied than with the magnificent irregularities of exalted spirits. It stretches some minds to an uneasy extension to be o­bliged to attend to compositions superlatively excel­lent; and it contracts liberal souls to a painful nar­rowness to descend to books of inferior merit. A work of capital genius, to a man of an ordinary mind, is the bed of Procrus [...]es to one of a short stature, the man is too little to fill up the space assigned him, and undergoes the torture in attempting it: and a mode­rate, or low production to a man of bright talents, is the punishment inflicted by Mez [...]ntius; the living spirit has too much animation to endure patiently to be in contact with a dead body.

TASTE seems to be a sentiment of the soul, which gives the bias to opinion, for we feel before we reflect. Without this sentiment, all knowledge, learning and opinion, would be cold, inert materials, whereas they become active principles when stirred, kindled, and inflamed by this animating quality.

[Page 87] THERE is another feeling which is called Enthusi­asm. The enthusiasm of sensible hearts is so strong, that it only yields to the impulse with which striking objects act on it, but such hearts help on the effect by their own sensibility. In a scene where Shakespeare and Garrick give perfection to each other, the feeling heart does not merely accede to the delirium they oc­casion: it does more, it is enamoured of it, it solicits the delusion, it sues to be deceived, and grudgingly cherishes the sacred treasure of its feelings. The poet and performer concur in carrying us ‘Beyond this visible diurnal sphere.’ they bear us aloft in their airy course with unresisted rapidity, if they meet not with any obstruction from the coldness of our own feelings. Perhaps only a few [...]ine spirits can enter into the detail of their writing and acting; but the multitude do not enjoy less acute­ly, because they are not able philosophically to analyse the sources of their joy or sorrow. If the others have the advantage of judging, these have at least the pri­vilege of feeling: and it is not from complaisance to a few leading judges, that they burst into peals of laughter, or melt into delightful agony; their hearts decide, and that is a decision from which there lies no appeal. It must however be confessed, that the nicer separations of character, and the lighter and almost imperceptible shades which sometimes distinguish them, will not be intimately relished, unless there be a consonancy of taste as well as feeling in the specta­tors; though where the passions are principally con­cerned, the prophane vulgar come in for a larger por­tion of the universal delight, than critics and con­noisseurs are willing to allow them.

YET enthusiasm, though the natural concomitant of genius, is no more genius itself, than drunkenness is [Page 88] cheeerfulness; and that enthusiasm which discovers itself on occasions not worthy to excite it, is the mark of a wretched judgment and a false taste.

NATURE produces innumerable objects: to imitate them, is the province of Genius; to direct those imi­tations, is the property of Judgment; to decide on their effects, is the business of Taste. For Taste, who sits as supreme judge on the productions of Genius, is not satisfied when she merely imitates Na­ture; she must also, says an ingenious French writer, imitate beautiful Nature. It requires no less judg­ment to reject than to choose, and Genius might imi­tate what is vulgar, under pretence that it was na­tural, if Taste did not carefully point out those objects which are most proper for imitation. It also requires a very nice discernment to distinguish verisimilitude from truth; for there is a truth in Taste nearly as conclusive as demonstration in mathematics.

GENIUS, when in full impetuosity of its career, often touches on the very brink of error; and is, per­haps, never so near the verge of the precipice, as when indulging its sublimest slights. It is in those great, but dangerous moments, that the curb of vigilant judgment is most wanting: while safe and sober Dulness observes one [...]edions and insipid round of tiresome uniformity, and steers equally clear of ec­centricity and of beauty. Dulness has few redun­dancies to retrench, few luxuriancies to prune, and few irregularities to smooth. These, though errors, are the errors of Genius, for there is rarely redundancy without plenitude, or irregularity without greatness. The excesses of Genius may easily be retrenched, but the deficiencies of Dulness can never be supplied.

THOSE who copy from others will doubtless be less excellent than those who copy from Nature. To imi­tate imitators, is the way to depart too far from the great original herself. The latter copies of an engrav­ing [Page 89] retain fainter and fainter traces of the subject, to which the earlier impressions bore so strong a resem­blance.

IT seems very extraordinary, that it should be the most difficult thing in the world to be natural; and that it should be harder to hit off the manners of real life, and to delineate such characters as we converse with every day, than to imagine such as do not exist. But caricature is much easier than an exact outline, and the colouring of fancy less difficult than that of truth.

PEOPLE do not always know what taste they have, till it is awakened by some corresponding object; nay, genius itself is a fire, which in many minds would never blaze, if not kindled by some external cause.

NATURE, that munificent mother, when she be­stows the power of judging, accompanies it with the capacity of enjoying. The judgment, which is clear sighted, points out such objects as are calculated to inspire love, and the heart instantaneously attaches it­self to whatsoever is lovely.

IN regard to literary reputation, a great deal de­pends on the state of learning in the particular age or nation, in which an author lives. In a dark and ignorant period, moderate knowledge will entitle its possessor to a considerable share of [...]ame; whereas, to be distinguished in a polite and lettered age, requires striking parts and deep erudition.

WHEN a nation begins to emerge from a state of mental darkness, and to strike out the first rudiments of improvement, it chalks out a few strong but incor­rect sketches, gives the rude out-lines of general art, and leaves the filling up to the leisure of happier days, and the refinement of more enlightened times. Their drawing is a rude Sbozzo, and their poetry wild minstrelsy.

PERFECTION of taste is a point which a nation no [Page 90] sooner reaches, than it overshoots; and it is more difficult to return to it, after having passed it, than it was to attain when they fell [...]hort of it. Where the arts begin to languish after having flourished, they seldom indeed fall back to their original barbarism, but a certain feebleness of exertion takes place, and it is more difficult to recover them from this dying lang­our to their proper strength, than it was to polish them from their former rudeness; for it is a less for­midable undertaking to refine barbarity, than to stop decay; the first may be laboured into elegance, but the latter will rarely be strengthened into vigour.

TAST [...] exerts itself at first but feebly and imperfect­ly: it is repressed and kept back by a croud of the most discouraging prejudices: like an infant prince, who, though born to reign, yet holds an idle sceptre, which he has not power to use, but is obliged to see with the eyes, and hear through the ears of other men.

A WRITER of correct taste will hardly ever go out of his way, even in search of embellishment: he will study to attain the best end by the most natural means; for he knows that what is not natural cannot be beautiful, and that nothing can be beautiful out of its own place; for an improper situation will convert the most striking beauty into a glaring defect. When by a well-connected chain of ideas, or a judicious succession of events, the reader is snatched to "Thebes or Athens," what can be more impertinent than for the poet to obstruct the operation of the passion he has just been kindling, by introducing a conceit which contradicts his purpose, and interrupts his business! Indeed, we cannot be transported, even in idea, to those places, if the poet does not manage so adroitly as not to make us sensible of the journey: the instant we feel we are travelling, the writer's art [...]ails, and the delirium is at an end.

[Page 91] PROSERPINE, says Ovid, would have been restored to her mother Ceres, had not As [...]alaphus seen her stop to gather a golden apple, when the terms of her restoration were▪ that she should taste nothing. A story preguant with instruction for lively writers, who by neglecting the main business, and going out of the way for false gratifications, lose [...]ight of the end they should principally keep in view. It was this false taste that introduced the numberless concetti, which disgrace the brightest of the Italian poets; and this is the reason, why the reader only feels short and in­terrupted snatches of delight in p [...]rusing the brilliant but unequal compositions of Ariosto, instead of that unbroken and undiminished pleasure, which he con­stantly receives from Virgil, from Milton, and gene­rally from Tasso. The first mentioned Italian is the Atalanta, who will interrupt the most eager career, to pick up the glittering mischief, while the Mantuan and the British bards, like Hippom [...]nes, press on warm in the pursuit, and unse [...]uced by temptation.

A WRITER of real taste will take great pains in the perfection of his style, to make the reader believe that he took none at all. The writing which appears to be most easy, will be generally found to be least imitable. The most elegant verses are the most easily retained, they fasten themselves on the memory, without its making any effort to preserve them, and we are apt to imagine, that what is remembered with case, was written without difficulty.

To conclude; Genius is a rare and precious gem, of which few know the worth; it is [...]itter for the ca­binet of the connoisseur, than for the commerce of mankind. Good sense is a bank-bill, convenient for change, negotiable at all times, and current in all places. It knows the value of small things, and con­siders that an aggregate of them makes up the sum of human affairs. It elevates common concerns into [Page 92] matters of importance, by performing them in the best manner, and at the most suitable season. Good sense carries with it the idea of equality, while Genius is always suspected of a design to impose the burden of superiority; and respect is paid to it with that re­luctance which always attends other imposts, the lower orders of mankind generally repining most at demands, by which they are least liable to be affected.

AS it is the character of Genius to penetrate with a lynx's beam into unfathomable abysses and uncreated worlds, and to see what is not, so it is the property of good sense to distinguish perfectly, and judge accurately what really is. Good sense has not so piercing an eye, but it has as clear a sight: it does not penetrate so deeply, but as far as it does see, it discerns distinctly. Good sense is a judicious mechanic, who can produce beauty and convenience out of suitable means; but Genius (I speak [...]th reverence of the immeasurable distance) bears some remote resemblance to the Divine Architect, who produced perfection of beauty without any visible materials, who spake, and it was created; who said, Let it be, and it was.

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