Discretion.
BUt stay, mad Passion, whether dost thou run?
Fond and mistaken sense, what hast thou done▪
By what illusions hast thou showne thy skill,
To make my reason subject to my will?
Thy motives and thy Rhetoricke are such,
As may perswade, and doe perswade too much:
[Page 6] But soothing Passion, whatsoere is past,
I now resolve to answer thee at last.
All things created doe observe their time,
And doe by nature flourish in their prime:
From whence thou labourst to infer for truth,
That I by nature should rejoyce in youth.
All which, in part, I doe acknowledge true,
And Nature seemes to challenge it as due,
And therefore may not be deny'd by me,
In ought where sense with reason doth agree.
But if my nature would beare all the sway,
And make my reason to my sense obey,
I doe in reason no such justice see,
To let my reason so subjected be.
Besides, I doe my youthfull nature finde,
So much unto the worlds delights inclin'd,
That my estate, in this respect, requires
The greatest care to bridle my desires.
Then restlesse Passion, keepe thy selfe retir'd,
I with thy Fury need not be inspir'd,
Nor will I, if I can the same prevent,
I trust, without thee, to reape best content.
Come then, Oh! come then, be advis'd by reason,
Mine owne deare selfe, this is the onely season.
The fruitfull earth doth afterward make knowne
What seed was in it in the Spring time sowne.
The stocke, with what tis grafted in the Spring,
Such fruite doth forth for ever after bring.
And with what scent the vessell first is fild,
The savour of it is not soone expeld.
Such is thy apt and youthfull nature; know,
What now is sowne in thee is like to grow:
[Page 7] What habite now is got will prove the strongest:
What custome now is learn'd, will last the longest.
And therefore it doth now concerne thee, sure,
To have most care to keepe thy selfe secure,
To seeke content where reason doth admit,
To settle thy desires in what is fit,
That thou hereafter maist not cry, in vaine,
I learn'd what now I would unlearne againe.
Thou then, my selfe, whose safety is mine owne,
And favour mine, that unto thee is showne,
As thou hast a respect unto Discretion,
I doe advise thee to be ware of Passion,
And labour to discover those deceites,
Whose gall lyes hidden in most pleasant baites:
Yea though most neare and deare unto thee, seated
In thine owne bosome, let them be defeated.
If thine owne heart, which is to the most deare,
Would fall in love with any creature here,
Before thou dar'st to render thy consent,
Thou must take heed there be no danger in't.
Or if that any more inferiour part
Of body, or of mind, would plead desert,
As if they were some excellence allow'd;
Which vainely might induce thee to be proud:
Here it behooves thee to have speciall care,
To arme thy selfe against this inbred snare,
This bosome brat, which will not be excluded;
That by thy selfe, thou be'st not selfe-deluded.
It (as in Youth it often comes to passe)
Thy wanton eye, views beauty in thy glasse,
Whose beames, reflecting, would thy thoughts inflame
With any admiration of the same,
[Page 8] Trust not thine eye, nor yet thy glasse too farre,
They both deceitfull, both uncertaine are.
But say thy beauty be the same indeed
That it appeares, yea though it doth exceed,
Yet weigh the honey of it with the gall,
And thou shalt see the vantage of it small.
It gaines much savour, and is most alluring:
Tis true, but favour gain'd by its procuring,
Is sometimes such as yeelds a present friend,
But seldome chaste, and constant to the end:
For looke as beauty fades and weares away,
So doth such friendship vanish and decay.
It tis alluring, tis indeed, but how?
To that which modest vertue doth allow?
Sure no, the nature of it doth intice,
In humaine faces, rather unto vice.
Againe, tis beauty that doth beare the praise,
And oft doth unto much preferment raise.
Indeed tis so; upon the sudden oft
It from the dunghill, doth draw up a loft.
But what this Sun-shine doth exhale, like raine,
Falls, for the most part, in a cloud againe.
And for the praise and vertue on't, suspition
So often brings the truth of it in question,
That all the comfort which doth in it lye,
As it appeares, is but to feed the eye,
Whiles it doth glister, whiles it doth indure,
Which every little shaddow doth obscure.
But if thou wouldst give beauty an excuse,
Then of thy beauty strive to make this use
That as thy Youthfull face is faire, as cleere
Thy vertues may unto the world appeare,
[Page 9] That so thy face, this outward grace assign'd,
May shew the inward beauties of thy mind.
Or hast thou strength, and in thy bosome glowing
A resolution of thy courage showing?
This is in youth so farre from being blam'd,
That it deserveth rather to be fam'd,
Provided still that reason be thy guide
In thy attempts to have thy manhood tryd.
What lively youth with noble courage fraught?
To Martiall feats and Descipling well taught?
It doth deserve the highest commendation,
It is the pride, and safety of a Nation:
Nay, which is more, where Mars is thus obey'd,
It makes the very enemy afraid.
All this may be admitted, this I grant:
But all this gives thee no such cause to vant,
Mine owne fraile flesh, yea fraile and weake indeed,
As to presume, or bost on such a reed,
On such a tottering, such a feeble stay,
And which remaines so subject to decay,
That the most silly creature can be thought
May in a moment bring thy strength to nought.
Or art indu'd with any other part,
Which would induce to boast of thy desert?
As wit, as knowledge, learning, Art, or such,
These are indeed, to be esteemed much:
Yea these same pow'rs and faculties of minde,
I do confesse are of the highest kinde,
And do deserve the highest commendation:
Yet these remaine so subject unto passion,
That these, in many, do become most vaine,
Where pow'r is wanting passion to restraine:
And so much lifts up their conceits therein
That they almost forget that they are men.
This, mine owne selfe, too often comes to passe,
Men are deluded, looking in this glasse:
Then let not this, which should be all thy stay,
From thine owne selfe thus steale thy selfe away.
But rather as, the further thou dost learne,
The further still thou dost thy wants descerne;
So from the sight of what thou hast not gain'd,
All pride of what thou hast may be restrayn'd.
Or hast thou wealth, which makes the greatest boast,
And is the onely thing desir'd of most;
And that full oft whose radient golden rayes
Makes Youth appeare so glorious in our dayes.
Hast thou, I say, this worlds deluding grace?
Which hath almost thurst vertue out of place:
Yet let it of no such dominion be,
No such effect, mine owne deare heart, in thee.
What though thou hast the meanes, which is thy gold,
To make thee to be wanton, vaine, and bold?
Yet Nature in thy face sits so demure,
That modestie becomes thee better sure.
What though thou peradventure, mayst despence,
Thy stat's so great, with any small offence?
Yet do not so offend, though not for feare,
Yet for the love thou dost to vertue beare:
For vertue in thy brest now seene to blome
Will fore-tell friuts of fame in time to come.
Yea what although thy wealth were of that worth
That it could yeeld thee all delights on earth?
Yet wisedome would advise thee to take heed,
For moderations sake, not to exceed:
[Page 11] For to be moderate will grace thee more,
In this thy youth, then all thy earthly store:
And in thy pleasures yeeld thee that content
Which grosse excesse could never tast of in't.
Besides excesse in any thing's unfit,
Though, otherwise, men do the thing admit:
Then what mayst thou expect shall be thy gaine,
If thou exceedst in any thing is vaine?
As, for the most part, all the pleasures here
Are, as abus'd, hows'ever they appeare:
How much so ever they mens tastes delight,
How beautifull so ever to mens sight,
Or what content so ever they pretend,
They are both vaine, and failing in the end.
This is most true; though youth may answer no;
But aske old age and it will say tis so,
Well grounded age, whose horry head is fraught
With much experience many yeares have taught.
And therefore surely mine owne selfe, tis meet,
Though youthfull pleasures for a time be sweet,
That thou doest alwayes labour to fore-see,
What may the issue of thy pleasures be.
That when the pleasures of thy youth be past,
Repentance brings not sorrow at the last,
And makes thee in thy age confesse this truth,
Most idle are the fond delights of youth.
Passion.
BUt must I be thus heedfull, thus precise?
Thus in my youth set age before my eyes?
[Page 12] And through that pale-fac'd object thus be brought?
To spend my youthfull dayes in carefull thought?
As if my yeares no pleasure were allow'd,
Or that my Fate were shaddow'd by a cloud,
From whence my fortunes most obscure became,
And I borne onely to bewaile the same.
Is this my wofull bondage? surely no,
I may take greater liberty then so;
Youth may be youthfull, tis in reason fit,
Both Law and Nature doth give way to it:
Then wherefore should I thus my selfe debar
Those youthfull pleasures thus admitted are?
Be Metamorphis'd thus, in youth turne old,
In heate of Nature, dry, and dull, and cold?
Besides example the contrary teacheth,
And through the world the practice of it preacheth:
Youth doth enjoy delights in greatest measure,
And is besides most capable of pleasure:
And through the fitnesse of its nature known,
Delights in youth are to a custome grown;
Which custome is become the onely praise
Of youthfull yeares, in these our wanton dayes.
And therefore he that keepes himselfe retyr'd,
And shuns those merriments of youth desir'd,
The world accounts him but a home-bred scrub,
One crept out of Diogenes his tub:
Or one whose ingenuitie is small,
His wit as little, breeding none at all;
And thereupon doth hold him in such scorne
As if that he were such a Monster borne
As were to nursing nature a disgrace,
And to the world a blemish in his place.
This is the censure which the world doth give
Of youth which most disconsolately live,
As, knowing their defects, to hide the same,
They keepe themselves from company for shame.
Now were it wisedome in me do you thinke,
Whiles I may safely float a loft, to sinke?
Whiles I may swimme in pleasure and in joy,
To drowne my selfe in sorrow and annoy?
No, doubtlesse, this were vaine in me indeed,
To take such thought in youth were more than need:
To vexe my selfe I need not go about,
For sorrowes will come fast enough without,
I in my way shall meet with griefe and woe,
Although I seeke not for them as I goe.
Besides tis certaine, if I live till age,
I then must change my tyre upon the stage,
And act the part of sorrow, in despight
Of all my former pleasure and delight.
Tis thus deare selfe, what answer dost thou make?
I now, or never must my pleasure take:
Resolve me therefore, make the meaning plaine,
Shall I abandon all delights as vaine?
Shall I no more be ravesh'd with delight
In courting beauty drest in red, and white?
Must I forsake all recreations past,
My hawkes, my hounds, my musicke, and the rest?
And, which is most, unto the pleasant crew
Of my companions must I say adiue?
Shun all the sweete society of men,
Hannting with beasts, some solitary den:
And, like a carefull object of despaire,
In stead of scarlet, clod my selfe in haire?
What sayst thou? tell me, must I? mine own heart,
Become thus chang'd thus alter'd in each part?
Me thinks I feele thee troubl'd in my brest,
As if these motions did disturbe thy rest;
And heare thee sounding in my listening eare,
What need I thus consume my selfe with care,
And loose all pleasure and content of minde
By curbing my affections in this kinde?
Old winter may be sare, and weeping seene,
But let the Spring delightfull be and greene:
So gray heads may from gravity have grace;
But pleasant smiles adorne a youthfull face.
What though in age, if I attaine to it,
I must be grave, I must be merry yet?
There is a time for mourning, and for laughter,
Mirth now befits, and mourning best hereafter.
Nor neede I, living, as men dying may,
Fare-well to all the worlds contentments say,
No this were cruell, wonderfull amisse,
To put my life to such a death as this.
And therefore let not these conceits disquiet thee,
Mine owne deare heart, I will not thus affright thee,
Not thus with night conclude thy day at noone,
Alas, not yet, tis yet by oddes to soone:
No, thou shalt have dominion in me still,
My freedome's greatest when thou hast thy will.
And you those pleasures, which are my delight,
I will not cut off our acquaintance quite,
Nor of your comforts make too much delay,
But take my pleasure in you whiles I may.
Nor shall you my companions be forsaken,
With whom I have so often pleasure taken,
[Page 15] I will not so your company refraine,
But that we may be merry once againe:
For though some earth-worme, which hath neither braine,
Nor part of man, accounts our meetings vaine,
Yet, for the most part, all men that have spirit,
Or are of any breeding, wit, or merit,
Do often our society frequent,
And therein take much pleasure and content.
And is not this a fitting practise then
Which is in such great estimate with men?
Yes, out of question, my Companions deare,
There is no greater comfort for us here,
No race more pleasant vnderneath the Sun
Then this for youth, especially, to run.
Discretion in Youth.
Fraile flesh what meanst thou, why art in this passion?
How art become deluded in this fashion?
But wherefore should I question in this kind
When tis thy nature to be thus inclin'd?
Yea, mine owne flesh, I know thy nature's such
As doth delight in wanton pleasure much:
Thy fond affections now are in their pride,
And sense most striving to be satisfi'd.
Besides, the worlds example I confesse,
Is in this kinde predominate no lesse:
Which forces in rebellion joyn'd, what Daw
Is sound of force to keepe such foes in awe?
What Conquest more unlikely to be had?
What combat more disconsolate and sad?
[Page 16] Then striving to such ememies subvert
As are most neere and deare unto the heart?
And thou deare selfe, whom I would not delude,
To gaine a kingdome, though the way were shew'd:
Whats'ever in thee nature would excuse;
Or custome would occasion thee to use,
I tell thee, if thou wilt not go aside,
Then must not sense, but reason be thy guide:
And reason will direct thee in thy way,
And call thee backe when sense would go astray:
And clossely whisper, Nature got a staine,
And ever since became corrupt and vaine.
That howsoever natures face be cleere,
And may be thought the same it doth appeare:
Yet nature inwardly is much defil'd,
Prov'd an imperfect, or abortive child,
Or to speake truly, if we so may constur,
Is from a perfect creature turnd a monster;
Ever producing those effects in men
Which once by nature never could have beene.
And therefore if thou dost sit still or idle
Thou dost let sense or nature have the bridle,
No doubt but they will carry thee with force,
Will hurry thy affections out of course,
And proffer thee a thousand pleasures; such,
Like Sodoms fruit, as vanish with a touch;
Or being tasted, like the Bee, doth bring,
After the honey, a tormenting sting.
These are the bitter, sweet contentments, found
Which, for the most part, Nature doth propound,
To such as do affect it best of all,
Sweete to the taste, but in the stomacke gall.
See then, deare selfe, what Nature is indeed,
That of thy nature so thou mayst take heed:
It once was pure, but now tis nothing such;
It hath some honey, but more gall by much.
Now if thou hast the wisdome, as tis meet,
To leave the bitter, and receive the sweet,
To taste the honey, and the sting avoid;
To take those pleasures which may be injoy'd,
And leave the other which forbidden be,
Then happy art thou in a high degree.
But, mine owne heart, this is a worke of wonder,
The sweet and sower are hard to put asunder,
There must much force and violence be showne
To part those have so long together growne:
Thy nature will be what it hath beene still,
Unlesse thou dost rebellion in it kill,
And conquer those affections in thy minde,
To which by nature thou art most inclin'd,
And so thy selfe within thy selfe subdue,
Which is as hard as making of thee new.
Oh victory of victories the blisse!
All conquests else are nothing unto this:
To win a City, overcome in field,
Force armies of thy enemyes to yeeld,
To subdue Nations, gaine a triple Crowne,
Yea win the world and all the worlds renowne,
Alas tis small, tis vaine, tis fading, tush,
Tis, in respect of this, not worth a rush.
This may seeme harsh unto thee, I confesse,
Now in thy Youth, as tis indeed no lesse:
Now when in Nature thou shouldst most delight,
Thus against nature to contend and fight:
But this must now thy combat be and care,
If thou hereafter wilt the Garland weare,
If thou wilt be a valiant Champion held,
Thou now must make these enemies to yeeld,
Now in thy strength these foes of thine subdue,
Which will more courage in thy weaknesse shew:
Then arme thy selfe, resolve to see it done
Now in thy youth, tis not a whit too soone.
What though the world account this wisedome vain?
And its young fondlings hold it in disdaine,
Because it tendeth onely to debarre
The world those joyes its chiefe contentments are?
Yet thou must know the world doth erre in this,
And sense is subject to conceive amisse,
And therefore thou must not thy selfe referre
Unto their censure if thou wilt not erre.
The worlds fond minions may deride thy wayes,
What though they do? their scandall is thy praise,
And unto good and wise men will declare
Thy sober carriage, and thy Christian care,
Who, rather that thou wouldst passe bounds or measure,
Wouldst thus expose thy selfe to their displeasure.
Besides, how so'ver senselesse youths conclude
To love that best which doth them most delude,
To prise those pleasures at the highest rate
Which soonest both consumes them, end their state:
Yet, for the most part, such as flourish most,
And of their folly makes the greatest boast,
(So long as nature gives their bodies force,
And Fortune meanes to follow on their course)
These, finding in them natures force decaying,
Or Fortune failing, or, at least, delaying,
[Page 19] These men, of all, become most held in scorne,
As men deboyst, or out of fashion worne:
Men point at them, and in dirision hisse,
Is all their state, and pleasure come to this?
These are the fruits goodfellowship affoords:
With other bitter and disdainefull words.
See then deare selfe, the issue of excesse,
That in thy selfe thou mayst the same expresse,
That thou hereafter be'st not forc'd to grant,
Most vainly did I wast, what now I want:
Unhappy man, I counted counsell vaine,
But now my pride's requited with disdaine:
My dearest friends did sorrow for my part,
But now my selfe do justly feele the smart:
Thus, mine owne heart, it often comes about,
With headstrong youth it fals thus hardly out.
Then, though the idle censure of our daies,
To youth most wanton gives the greatest praise,
Yet sith thou see'st their pleasures are but vaine,
Whiles men enjoy them whiles they do remaine:
Which out of question, cannot long be had,
But quickly vanish, and their end is bad:
What needst thou at thine owne condition grutch?
Or thinke their vaine felicity too much?
Their pleasures are but shaddowes of delight,
Their day but a fore-runner of their night,
Their sun shine doth but signifie a storme,
Their soundest joy but a deceiving charme.
Then let not these deluding shews betray thee,
Nor yet the censure of the world dismay thee:
The proffers of the one are not to trust;
The scandall of the other is unjust:
[Page 20] And therefore, surely, neither of them fit
To be thy guide, though they may teach thee wit.
Come then, deare selfe, forsake these shadows meere,
And let some substance give direction here,
Let Reason now give answer in thy Youth;
That is, indeed, an Oracle of Truth:
That will not wrong thy tender yeares for gaine:
Nor count thy care of moderation vaine:
But rather tell thee it adornes thee best,
Thou canst not in a richer tyre be drest:
Nor for thy Young and tender age more meet:
For moderation is a vertue sweet,
Wherein doth fully lye confin'd and pent
All the rich treasures of allowd content.
But that which doth in any kind exceed
Is, doubtlesse vaine, because tis more than need.
Passion.
GOod and wise counsell, tis, indeed, and fit
For men of age and gravity: but yet
For me, which am but in my Youth, and weake,
How can I doe, what others can but speake?
Thus of my freedome to become debar'd,
Which is a taske for older men too hard.
Severest Stoickes, Passion most refraining,
Cato and Plato, pleasures most restraining,
These in their youth were youthfull, though, grown old
These, out of envy, must have youth contrould.
And should I seeke (as very few have done)
To Canonize my selfe a Saint so soone,
[Page 21] I should be fitter, as it doth appeare,
By ten degrees, to live in heav'n, then here.
Here men are men, and must be so inclin'd,
Or else they doe degenerate from kind:
And, if I meane to build upon this frame,
I must conforme my selfe unto the same:
I must not sadly sit alone and sleepe,
When other Youth doe pleasant revells keepe.
Besides, now Nature doth most sweetly move,
With most delight, to be belov'd, and love;
Affection now is powerfull in my brest,
It sets before me undetermin'd rest;
Shewes me a creature in whose face doth shine
Most rare perfections, morall, and Divine:
And will not leave me till I give consent
To gaine this object of such deep content.
And shall I goe about to quench this flame,
To dash these fortunes ere I taste the same?
And loose this Price, this infinite of treasure,
By being sad, which might be gain'd by pleasure?
Or shall I be so ignorantly wise,
My love, with shewes of hatred to disguise?
And what I most desire, thinke best to gaine
By foolish fained tokens of disdaine:
And thereupon, as with despaire possest,
Refuse all meanes that proffer my request:
As if my fortunes warranted the same,
But I refuse, as one deboyst, for shame?
Or when that I with merriment should wooe,
Shall I then sigh, and say what shall I doe?
And, when the opportunity is gone,
Then bind my selfe to sadly live alone:
In some dejected silly habit dyte:
As, if that shews of misery thus great,
Might move my love to pitty my estate:
Were this a subtile pollicy in me?
Were this a practise fit for my degree?
No, surely no, this were but a conceite,
These have no substance these are of no weight;
Such cold weake motions are not like to move
Within the ardent glowing brest of love.
But, if I would enjoy my love as wone,
Which in my youth is fittest to be done:
I must take all occasions that conduce
Unto that happy, heart contenting, use;
And prosecure the same without delay,
In spight of greatest danger in the way.
I must be free and generous of minde,
I must be unto youths delights inclin'd,
I must be ever jovell with the rest,
I must be in a compleat habit drest,
And fit my selfe to fed my loves desire,
Not onely in my talke, but my attire;
For whatsoever's inwardly, ye know,
It is the outside that doth make the show.
And as affection by the eye is bred,
So, for the most part, by the eye tis fed;
From whence its flames are ever the more cleare,
The fairer that its object doth appeare:
For this is certaine love hath most delight
On fairest flowers to feed its appitite.
Then farewell all severity, as cruell,
Which in my heat of love would quench this fuell,
[Page 23] And through precisenesse, keepe me so confind,
To loose my love, the treasure of my minde.
I see, and smile to see, my love begin
To smile on me: may I not smile therein?
Come then deare love this kindnesse pleads desert,
This courtesie incourageth my heart,
Yea though thou shouldst no other passage ope,
This should alone give maintenance to hope.
Henceforth I vow my service to thee then;
And, whatsoever formerly hath beene,
To do thee a pleasure now shall be my care,
Thy livery for colours I shall weare;
And looke what fashion shall content thee best
That will I alwayes weare above the rest.
If my proportion answer not thy will,
My Taylor shall amend it by his skill:
Or if that cannot thy displeasure scape,
Then Protus like, Ile seeke to change my shape,
And be created, or be form'd a new,
If not in substance, yet at least in shew;
Yea, so my love may take delight in me,
I care not what it cost, nor what I be.
Some fooles may count this my affection vaine,
But I must hold their malice in disdaine:
My dearest friends may worke upon my minde,
In hope to make it otherwise inclin'd;
Yea urge, and threat the greatest punishment,
Yea seeke with teares to alter my intent:
Yet all their water cannot quench this fire,
But rather serves to kindle more desire,
For true affection yeelds so fierce a flame,
Resistance proves but bellowes to the same.
Discretion.
OH grosse rebellion! how dost thou breake out?
What fearefull treach'ry dost thou goe about?
What heinous and intollerable treason
Against thy Prince and lawfull Soveraigne reason?
Deare selfe, what art thou subject to such error?
To give most honour to the most inferiour?
To let those parts meere sensitive beare sway,
Which should to reasons just commands obey.
Thy reason is deluded by thy sense,
And so thy judgement proves corrupted thence,
Which makes thee to thinke best of that condition
Which is most pleasing to thy disposition.
Thus far meere beasts and savage creatures goe,
They are as stayd, and moderate as so:
They, which of reason wholly are deny'd,
And have but onely appetite for guide.
But thou must passe the savage creatures guise,
Because indu'd with reasons faculties;
Or else the beast, without these powers of mind,
May be preferd before thee in his kind.
Yea, mine owne heart, which dost by reason scan,
Thou must by reason shew thy selfe a man,
And alwayes unto reason yeeld subjection
Both in thy understanding, and affection.
Besides, thy youth is subject to obey
Affection, which in youth will run astray,
And therefore thou must use the greatest ayd
Now in thy Youth to keepe affection stayd.
But here I doe not goe about to prove
That thou in Youth shouldst disalow of love,
So it be lawfull, but the thing admit,
As in thy Youth most absolutely fit:
For love in Youth united, proves most pure,
And is, againe, most likely to indure:
Besides, it serves to settle the desire,
Which otherwise Youth could not so retire.
What then? deare selfe, why this must be thy care
Not so much when to place thy love, as where;
Not so much sway'd by sensuall delight,
To rule thy reason by thy appetite.
Thou seest affection fetters like a chaine,
It plac'd, is hard to be displac'd againe,
And, like the seale which leaves the print behind,
It makes a deepe impression in the mind.
And therefore, doubtlesse, it behooves thee much
That in thy Youth thy providence be such,
That thou hereafter dost not find this true,
I had my will, but willfulnesse I rue:
Yea, be resolved, mine owne tender heart,
Youth which are wilfull often feele this smart.
And therefore be, deare selfe, herein discerning,
Let others sad experience give thee warning:
Be well advis'd, stay thy affections, ponder,
And, for a while, let reason keepe them under.
What, art thou to confirme a league in love?
Which, once confirmed, must not then remove,
But, like those lawes unchangeable, abides
Till death, the parties joyned thus, divides:
Art thou to doe this weighty thing, indeed?
Sure it requires the dilligentest heed,
[Page 26] The deepest meditation, and the best,
Because the chiefest thing of all the rest:
For if thy choyce be bad, thy joyes are done,
If otherwise, they are but then begun:
For in thy choyce consisteth peace, or strife,
In it remaines the issues of thy life:
For that whereto thou now thy selfe dost binde,
That is the portion thou must looke to find.
Tis so, deare selfe, then ere this knot be ty'd,
Consider well, let counsell be thy guide;
Such can instruct thee, best directions frame
As have had just experience of the same.
But above all these, thou must have respect
Unto the way thy Parents doe direct,
For their consent, and blessing in this thing
Doth, with their owne, Gods blessing also bring:
And where the Parents fit consent is missing,
There, for the most part, God affords no blessing.
This is a rule in generall most fit,
And thou in duty must acknowledge it.
But yet there are some Parents in this kind,
Which are so much unto the earth inclind,
That, if their children will not have their blame,
They must, like them, be marryed to the same;
For earth, and earthly things is all their ayme.
Those are the onely heritage they clayme:
Without the least regard of what is fit,
Either in vertue, breeding, shape, or wit.
Now such as these, which onely doe belay
To, basely, mould their children up in clay,
And thinke them then in heav'n, when they, poore soules
In earth possest, ly scrambling, like moules.
[Page 27] Such men as these must not be too unkind
Although their children beare a better mind.
Nor are their children to be blam'd, although
They, stead of duty, doe their wisdome show,
And rather follow reason for their guide,
Than duty, which would lead them thus aside:
This freedome may in modesty be us'd,
And, upon such necessity excus'd.
But, my deare selfe, make thou not this a snare,
Upon this freedome, cast not off all care;
But to thy parents willingly incline,
So far as reason doth with duty joyne.
But above all things aym'd at in thy choyce,
Let vertue please thee, make thee most rejoyce,
For vertue herein must be valu'd higher,
Than either Parents, or thine owne desire.
Parents are to be reverenc'd, as due;
Riches may be respected too, tis true:
Good breeding's to be honour'd in election:
And beauty seemeth to command affection.
Yet beauty, riches, breeding, or good birth,
All, without vertue, are but little worth.
And though these outward things cannot be had,
If vertue may, the choyce cannot be bad.
Besides, if in thy choyce thou hast the grace
To ayme at vertue in the chiefest place,
Then needst thou use no apish imitation
In thy attire, by following the fashion:
Devising fondly to new forme each part:
As if thy skill exceed Natures art.
No, these are fruitlesse, and accounted vaine
Within that brest where vertue doth remaine;
[Page 28] And rather serves thy weakenesse to discover,
Then any way delight a vertuous Lover.
To be thus fond or vaine in this condition,
Doth but ingender, or beget suspicion,
Because immodesty in the attire
Doth note immoderation in desire,
Imports a want of wit, and doth impart
A shrewd presumption of a wanton heart:
That all such fondnesse, or as vaine expence,
Are lost, where vertue hath its residence;
For vertue stoups to no such baites as they,
But soares a pitch is far above such prey.
Like as the precious Diamond, which but
By Diamond, or nothing, can be cut.
So love, in vertues brest, will take no print
But onely that which vertue doth indent.
That vertue is the onely way to wooe,
And eke to win, where vertue hath to doe.
Let vertue then be first thine owne, and sure
Thou shalt prevaile, where vertuē doth indure:
For like to like, most willingly incline;
And vertues met, most readily doe joyne:
Which joyn'd, what tongue is able to expresse
The joy such vertuous bosomes doe possesse:
No change can turne their honey into gall,
Because that vertuē makes good use of all;
Resembling much, though in a lower kind,
The heavenly highest marriage of the mind.
Passion.
VVHat strange harsh strictnes is here urged still?
As if that Love could be confin'd at will:
My love is settl'd, where I hope to finde
Those vertues which are pleasing to my minde.
Shall Parents then, whose sight is not so cleare
To see the Truth before it doth appeare,
Condemne my choyce, as wonderfull to blame,
Before they know the tryall of the same?
Deare friends, I know you wish me not amisse:
But you may erre as well as I in this.
In this my choyce may blessings hidden lye,
Which deepest insight cannot yet descry.
And that same choyce which you account the best,
May prove, perhaps, the worst of all the rest:
For, whatsoever the appearance shew'th,
It tis the tryall manifests the truth.
Besides, what reason can that choyce admit
Where love doth want, though otherwise most fit?
For my part nothing ever shall me move
To joyne in marriage, where I cannot love.
Deare Parents then remaine content I pray,
And unto this my choyce in love give way,
Let not supposed dangers make you dread,
I trust your feares are greater than they need,
But why doe I thus vainely spend my wind
To invocate my parents in this kind?
When as I see, they will not give consent,
But are against me obstinately bent.
Is this their love to answer my request?
Or else their care to keepe my body chast?
Must I my deepe affection fixt remove,
Or lose my portion, with my Parents love?
Unhappy creature, cruell is my fate,
Most comfortlesse, most desperate my state:
What sorrowes are sufficient to declare
The destiny that falls unto my share?
But what will sorrow ease me of this woe?
Or be a meanes to change my fortunes? no,
To adde, unto my sad condition, griefe
Can not in any kind afford reliefe,
But rather serves to aggravate the smart,
Which hath already seas'd upon my heart.
Then farewell care and sorrow in this case:
I will seeke merry company for ease,
I will unto some Taverne now repaire,
And seeke for ease of Melancholly there:
For there no doubt, I shall occasion finde
To drive these cares and sorrowes-from my minde:
Yea take some merry humour on me, rather
Then fondly prove dejected altogether.
The Humorist.
Come then, well met, mine one Companion, stay,
Thy company will drive all dumps away:
My humor's crost; but come, that seate is thine,
By this good rogue mine Host: here's excellent wine.
His Companion.
Beleeve me sir, I cannot stay, for hast
Doth call me hence; and yet at your request,
Ile taste your wine, because it gives delight.
Hu.
Well, doe, and tell me if it be not right.
Co.
[Page 31]I marry sir, beleeve me this is he,
You have some judgement now indeed, I see.
Hu.
I saith tis good, but pry thee sit thee still,
And taste it well, and tell me then thy skill:
Here's to thee once againe, and by this bowle,
Unto a friend of thine, a dainty soule:
And this same swad mine Host shall pledg't I sweare.
Co.
Why come sir then, protest I doe not care,
Ile stay a while: and here's this cup of wine
To you mine Host, and to a friend of mine,
The Host.
To me good sir? I thank you for your love,
And I shall pledge you ere I doe remove.
And yet you Gallants, shall I tell you plaine?
This sacke, did so intoxicate my braine
The other night, it made its sinews cracke:
And yet some say it doth assist the backe.
But I can fetch what shall its fury choke;
I have a pipe of the most precious smoke
All Europe yeelds: And sir, my service now
In this same cup I represent to you.
Hu.
To me, thou monster and true Cerberus breed,
Why here's a dainty damned rogue indeed:
Well th'art a beagle for the chase, no doubt,
And, were I at a losse, couldst find it out.
Now harke, I pry-thee, twere a pretty jeast,
To fox this horson horny-headed beast,
And call my Hostesse; for I see the elfe
Could gladly make a cookcold of himselfe.
Co.
Good faith it seemes he car'd not for a straine,
Provided with a pox, it brought in gaine:
But hang't, me thought as I this Hostes view'd,
She look'd as if she had beene lately stew'd.
Hu.
[Page 32]Oh out upon her hackney whore, damnation,
Her breath is fit to breed the Visitation,
Ile see her damn'd ere I. But now I thinke,
By happy fortune on't, before I drinke,
Ile drinke a health, and with my truest heart,
Ev'n from the very middle of this quart,
Unto a friend a favourite of mine,
So sweet a creature, beautifull, divine.
No woman living with more vertues grac'd,
So courteous, kind, so constant, and too chast:
And, by this light sir, prythee let me cravethee,
Thou shalt receive this honour'd health, He have thee:
Here's to thee, with my cap upon the ground:
Ah, this same licker keepes my inwards sound:
Come drawer quicke, come empty this same quart.
And, Dicke, some smoke, come forth thou knave, where art?
Ho.
Here sir, oh pardon, I was busi'd much;
But here's a pipe this Land hath little such.
Hu.
This Land, thou prat'st, thou mightst have gone to Rome
And fetch't it since; but Dicke let's taste it come.
Ah, dicke my villaine, this is of the prime,
Ile take thy word, my boy, another time.
Co.
Beleeve me sir, this smoke is not to lack,
Hu.
No faith, tis good, but here's thy pinte of sack,
By Phoebus light, thou shalt not say me no,
Come pry-thee tak't and pledge this health, why so:
This cookcold, cosset, I should say, my dicke
Shall have it too: tis well sir, drawer quicke,
Another quart, this smoke requires some licker:
Here dicke, here's that will make thy braines the quicker,
Tis all thine owne, yea every drop I sweare.
Ho.
Who I sir? no, beseech you now forbeare,
[Page 33] What will you make me lose my wits indeed?
Hu.
Foole, lose thy wits? tis true, thou hast much need
To stand at this, when ten times this a day
Is but thy dyet; come turn't of, I say,
Protest thou shalt, whats'ere thou dost reply.
Ho.
Protest I cannot sir: and yet Ile try.
Hu.
See here, I pray, this Porpus could not drinke,
And yet had this same pinte beene three, I thinke,
His throate would hardly have beene satisfy'd:
But drawer quicke, we'le have these wants supply'd.
But sirra change this cup, Ile no more take
Such bowles as these, they make my braines to ake.
Co.
Sir, you and I are herein well agreed,
For I am weary of these bowles indeed:
But if it please you, and you meane to stay,
Let's rest a while, or spend some time in play.
Hu.
Content, mine Host hast thou a paire of dice?
To try a chance in friendship is no vice:
And yet I have no mind unto these bones,
They did so anger, and delude me once.
Co.
Good faith, sir, now I thinke upon the same,
The other day, by chance, I saw a game
Upon the cards, which did delight me more
Than any game I ever saw before,
It was, me thought, so pretty a conceit:
But what you please, the matter's of no weight.
Hu.
At cards, or dice, I never purchas'd gaine,
But cards are counted basest of the twaine:
And therefore whither I doe win, or lose
I make the dice the instruments I choose,
Ho.
Here sir, here's dice; and yet I should be loth,
But that I know your patient natures both.
Co.
[Page 34]Come, feare not man, there shall no anger be,
Tis not these dice shall make us disagree:
And yet me thinkes they prettily begin;
But, tush, tis not for both at once to win.
Ho.
Good faith, sir, I commend your resolution,
The dice, no doubt, will make you restitution:
I see tis not for love of gaine you play,
But rather so to drive the time away.
Co.
Mine Host tis true, for my part, I protest,
That let the dice run which way they thinke best.
Hu.
Fore heav'ns, I thinke, tis I must take the care
To stay the dice, unlesse they ran more square:
Besides, you scramble up the dice so fast,
You will not give me leave to see my cast:
I thinke you need not shaddow what is throwne,
My chance is not so lucky when tis knowne:
Well, sure the dice are false, or else in chanted,
Or, I that throw them by some witch am haunted;
Or else they could not prove so much accurst,
That every chance should prove thus at the worst.
Ho.
Have patience, Master, rest content a while;
The dice will turne, and frowning fortune smile:
Expect the best, and let your anger fall,
The end, I trust, will make a meanes for all.
Hu.
The end? thou asse, hast thou so little wit
To thinke these dealings, or these dice are fit?
Ile burne them if they doe no better runne,
And then for sweare such gamesters, and have done.
Co.
Such gamesters, sir, such words as those I scorn,
I wrong'd you not an ace I may be sworne;
And herein if you doe suppose I lye,
Tis you that doe the wrong, sir, and not I:
[Page 35] I thought you had beene temperate before,
But since you say so much Ile play no more.
Hu.
What, have you got my money in this way,
And now will offer not to hold me play?
Co.
Fore heav'ns I care not, use your greatest skill,
You shall not make me play against my will.
Ho.
In wrath, what meane you Gentlemen I pray?
Such old acquaintance and fall out at play?
You shall not Gallants, come be patient now;
Ile spend my quart of Sacke to see you throw:
Runne Drawer, Masters it doth vex my heart
That friends from my house should in anger part:
Here Noble sir, this quart I doe present
Upon condition you shall be content.
Hu.
Come Richard come, thy thetoricke is such,
To yeeld to thee, who living can thinke much?
Well sir, when you and I shall meet agen;
Youle give me leave to try my fortunes then?
Co.
Sir, heavens forbid that I should say you nay,
Or seeke to doe you any wrong at play.
Hu.
So then, here sir: but, ere we doe begin,
Whose love shall we commemorate herein?
Protest a speciall friends of thine and mine,
That Ladyes which would have us stay and dine:
And sir, youle pledge this health I dare be bold.
Co.
Ile try my braines, if that my guts will hold,
But that Ile pledge that heavenly creature sure,
What punishment soever I endure.
Hu.
Ah, how this Nectar vivifies my heart,
And addes fresh courage unto every part.
Now what man underneath the Coopes of Heaven
Will answer me upon occasion given?
[Page 36] Mars, here I stand, who dares except at this?
But sir, before my heart, you doe amisse,
You did not drinke so much as I, I see.
Co.
Sir, but I did though; you mistaken be.
Hu.
Who, I mistaken? by the devill no:
Come take your due, you shall not gull me so.
Co.
I did you right, and Ile not be your gull.
Hu.
Tis false, protest, you did not drink't so full.
Co.
Protest tis false, whats'ere you doe reply.
Hu.
Why then, it seemes, you will be sworne I lye?
What lye? thou slave, give me the lye? away.
Co.
What you will stab, yes stab y'had best; but stay
Ho.
Oh, heav'ns my masters, what d'ye meane? in spight?
Beseech you be content, what friends & fight?
Regard your reputations more, forbeare,
Ile part you, come, you shall not fight I sweare.
Hu.
Who, thou? thou asse, thou slave, away stand by;
Ile be reveng'd, a slave, give me the lye?
Sdeath, is he gone? what art thou such an asse,
Or such a knave to let the cheater passe?
If that I live Ile be reveng'd by hell:
The meane time this shall teach me wit: farewell.
Ho.
What, are you angry, and will so begone?
You have small reason for the same, or none.
But there's a reckoning left for you to pay,
Before you part, or else your horse shall stay;
I meane not to be thus abus'd, my friend,
And lose my reckoning by you in the end:
I tooke you to be better rul'd: and so
I doe intend to make you ere you goe.
Discretion.
SEe here, deare selfe, yea I beseech thee see
What the hard happes of wilfull children be;
Who will not parents wholsome rules obey,
How justly heav'ns doe suffer them to stray,
And leave them to the force of disposition
Who did refuse most gentle admonition:
As if affections lawes were better farre
Then either reasons rules, or duties are.
But mine owne heart, thou must not thus conclude,
Such grounds are false, and propositions rude:
For duties fruite is blessednesse insuing:
But disobedience fore-tells death, or ruine;
Ruine, indeed, the worst we can relate,
As of all goodnesse, body, and estate:
As doth appeare by the precedent part,
Where buitish Passion is describ'd by art.
Whose rude description such abuse declares
As is offencive to all modest eares:
Such impudence, as I, deare selfe, indeed,
Both shake to write, and am asham'd to read.
And therefore never should have beene indented,
To foule my pen; nor yet by me invented,
But that, deare selfe, my onely purpose here
In making of these Passions thus appeare,
Is thereby to detaine thee from the same,
Which, thus fore-seen, thou mayst forbeare for shame.
Least, failing in these Passions thus made knowne,
Thine owne hand writing be against thee showne:
[Page 38] Which would be shame as great as the abuse,
And serve to leave thee without all excuse.
In which respect, the chastest eare, I hope,
Will both excuse my purpose, and my scope.
Know then, deare selfe, thou dost thy selfe expose
Both to the sight, and censure of thy foes:
Thou therefore now must be exceeding wary
That in this nature thou dost not miscarry:
For if thou dost, the eyes of other men,
Will be thy cruell over-seers then.
But hast thou but that measure of Discretion
So wisely to unmaske this drunken Passion,
As to discerne it as it is indeed,
With sober eyes, sevillity and heed,
It will appeare so odious in thy sight,
So most inhumane, such a monster right,
That ev'n the very shape of it, I trust,
Will make thee to abhorre it as unjust:
To loath and shun it as thou dost the devill;
Because, like him, tis absolutely evill.
Besides, deare selfe, the ruine, shame and care,
Which are the fruites that drunkennesse doth beare;
May justly move thee to detest the thing
Which in conclusion, doth confusion bring.
First, it confounds the Legacy of fate,
Consumes and undoes men in their estate;
Moves them to venture their possessions large,
And drinke downe all remembrance of the charge:
Then hazard all their moveables to sinke,
Or suffer Ship-wracke in a Sea of drinke:
And heedlesse creatures, when thus run ashore,
Remaine deboyst, dejected men, and poore.
Next it consumes the credit and good name,
Brings a reproach full scandall on the same.
Disgraceth birth, good breeding, learning, wit;
Or whatsoever otherwise is fit.
Besides, as tis an enemy to wealth,
So, in the body it decayes the health,
Confounds the senses, and corrupts the breath,
Brings foule diseases, and untimely death.
But lastly, that which most deludes the heart,
It doth confound the understanding part,
Benummes the powers and faculties of minde,
Which, in this strange infatuated kinde,
Remaine as dead; and man becomes a beast,
Or worse, or in a worse estate at least.
God, of all creatures, hath made man the best;
Man makes himselfe the worst of all the rest.
God hath given man abillities Divine:
Man doth become more senslesse than the swine:
God in the forming man hath perfect been:
Man will undoe what God hath done therein.
For what is man, thus stupifi'd in braine,
But a meere lumpe of senslesse Earth againe?
Deare selfe, observe this issues from excesse,
These are th'effects of savage drunkennesse.
But here I goe not any way about
To bring thy sober liberty in doubt,
All friendly meetings and society
With such as have a care of piety,
But hold it fit, and of it doe approve
As a great meanes to breed good will and love:
And sure it may (though by abuse attended)
In its owne nature, justly be commended.
But here lyes that which doth undoe us still,
That which, deare selfe, converts our good to ill;
God in his mercy having daign'd to give us
Innumerable good things to releeve us;
We out of weakenesse, either quite refuse them,
Or in the using of them quite abuse them:
Which most prepost'rous custome to suppresse,
Let love and friendship be without excesse.
Passion in Age.
FOnd man what meant I? what was in my minde?
When I was Youthfull how was I inclind?
I then was heedlesse, ignorant, and nice,
And counted care of worldly gaine a vice:
Youths chiefe contentments, vaine delights & pleasure
Were all I sought for, they were then my treasure.
I held them muck wormes, and in much disdaine,
That did not value pleasure above gaine:
I felt no sorrow then for what I spent,
Because it purchas'd that which gave content.
But now I see my errour in the same,
How foolish I was, and how farre to blame,
How wanton pleasure did delude my minde,
And wrought upon my weaknesse in this kinde.
How many opportunities most fit,
Which both advice, and reason did admit,
Of gaine or profit did I then neglect,
Without all care in any such respect?
This was my folly, and is now my crosse,
Because I now have feeling of my losse,
And vaine expence: But were I young againe
I would, I thinke, not be so mad, or vaine,
I would not be so idle in expence
To feed meere fancy or unbridl'd sense:
Nor should the mirth where mad companions meet,
Nor all the Syrens sugred charmes as sweet,
Nor whatsoever pleasure else as bad,
Yeeld me delight, where gaine might not be had.
For gaine is that which is to be regarded:
Alas, how is the lavish foole rewarded?
That takes most paines to waste away his state,
That buyes his pleasures at the deerest rate,
And spends his meanes to purchase friends of those
Which, when his meanes is spent, become his foes;
And flout and jeere him in derision base,
Behind his backe, if not before his face:
Besides the want this novice falls into,
Which is the greatest misery or woe.
This is the height of youthfull vanities,
Though, in my youth, I thought it otherwise:
How was my tender reason then in thrall?
But, what is past I cannot now recall.
Well, let that passe; the time that is behind,
I will, I hope, be of another minde,
Tis time to make use of the time remaines,
Come then invention, let us beat our braines
What stretching gainefull stratagems are best?
Direct me, for it is no time to rest;
Nor must I stand at scruples in the way,
Nor yet regard what idle people say.
Come, I have money, that shall out to use,
What though some count that practice an abuse?
They are mistaken sure, or they be such
As doe, through want, forbeare to doe asmuch;
For I account him more precise then fit
That makes a doubt, of that which Lawes admit;
But let them herein doubt that will, for me,
If I make any, all my doubt shall be,
Least my security should doubtfull prove,
I need in this no other scruple move.
But to be sure, I know a peece of land
Which will be sold, that's in a spend thrifts hand,
If I had that in pawne I were secure,
For that is such a pawne as will indure:
How shall I take this novice in a snare?
But, tush, my gold will tempt him theres no feare:
For though he cannot prize it as he ought,
Yet he, I know, to such a straite is brought
That he must needes be bold with such as lend,
And, at his need now, if I stand his friend,
And seeke to him, till I assured be
His land is sure, he then shall seeke to me.
But this suffice not, I have money more,
And every quarter will increase my store.
Now some, I see, doe mightily increase
By making happy ventures on the Seas;
Whose profit, I confesse, I doe approve,
But yet their venture, that I doe not love:
I am not to my wealth soill inclind,
To trust it to the mercy of the wind,
I like not that. But rather all my drift
(As that, some say,'s a speciall way of thrift)
[Page 43] Is at some Mannor, Lordship, or to buy
Some office where much benefit doth lye;
Now such a purchase were to some effect,
Would both increase my wealth, and gaine respect.
But if I purpose such a thing, indeed,
I must use great, and circumspectest heed
To walke a sparing and a saving way
That so I may provide for such a day.
The meane time then, the money comes to me
Shall, in the meane time, out ingendring be:
Such things, whats'ever, as I have to sell,
I meane to keepe, or put them off full well:
Yea though my garner, or my barnes be fir'd,
With the increase my fruitfull crops doe yeeld,
Before Ile sell it at an under rate,
That way to make away with my estate;
Ile thrash my corne, and hide it in the ground,
(Whereas it shall not readily be sound)
And buy the corne I spend, as a device
To helpe to raise and aggravate the price,
Ere Ile be bound to feed the stinking poore
At such a reckoning with my precious store.
Nor need I, for my corne, ere long, no doubt,
Will beare a price, and then Ile bring it out
When it is at the height, and, if they will,
Then let the poore revile, or use their skill,
Tis not the cry, nor curse of such a vaine,
Or foule mouth'd crew shall make me slip my gaine.
Then next, because Ide hasten my intents,
There is no shift but I must raise my Rents,
And such as be my Tenants too, must beare
Those rates and duties, they would make my share:
[Page 44] What though their charge be great, and times be bad?
The Rent I could on other men have had,
And can have yet, and some thing else to drinke,
And therefore I doe use them well, I thinke:
And they have no just reason to complaine:
But if they doe, tis labour but in vaine,
For though I take their money, as tis fit,
I am not bound to maintaine them for it.
Besides, I now must spare a little more
Of what I spent within my house before,
Two meales a day must now suffice, and such
As Nature doth require, and not too much.
I doe commend of Wheat, but now, instead,
Both Rye, and Barley, they will make good Bread,
Yea good enough for servants: and the poore,
I trust my dogge shall keepe them from my doore.
Ile waste no money now to buy new cloathes,
New fashions they are things an old man loathes;
My old cloathes of antiquity can boast,
And therefore sure to be respected most,
And, for my body, Ile refuse no paines,
But toyle and labour all day long for gaines,
And when tis night, and others rest doe take,
I then will exercise my braine awake,
And lye and sweetly ponder and devise
Some gainefull exercise against I rise,
For me, and mine, that by this meanes I may
Make benefit of both the night, and day.
These meditations give me such content,
I grutch my sleepe that would the same prevent.
Then what shall herein hinder my desire?
I can imagine no contentment higher:
[Page 45] And therefore this shall be my highest pitch,
Onely to toyle, and study to be rich,
And this I will endeavour to expresse:
Though with my tongue, I doe not it confesse.
But if I must, for tender Natures sake,
Some further use of Recreation make,
My Liberary to my view presents
The sweet fruition of most choyce contents:
There I have certaine statute Bookes at hand,
Where I may view the Tenours of my Land:
There I have just Arethmatickes to count
Unto what summes my usuries amount:
And eke an Affamerides, which may
Shew me my other commings in each day.
And there to pleasure me, I may behold
My bonds, and bills, my silver, and my gold;
Which Jewels if I should but feele, I thinke,
It would refresh me more than meate and drinke.
Discretion in Age.
DEare selfe, what art thou all inclin'd to earth?
Is nothing else in thy account of worth?
Or, at the leastwise, nothing else that may
Here upon earth, be valu'd with this clay?
Earth is, indeed, the matter of thy frame,
And thou must sure, againe unto the same;
For things Created naturally run,
Into those elements where they begun)
This cannot be deny'd: that in this kind
Thou mayst be something to the earth inclin'd.
Yea neerenesse, and affinity is such,
As seemes by nature to require as much:
And reason of affection doth admit.
Where neere aliance doth the same beget.
Besides, a frugall providence in thee
Doth both with reason and thy yeares agree:
All ages, yea and all estates stand need
To have this carefull Providence and heed;
As that whereon depends, as doth appeare,
Next under God, their onely safety here.
And such as doe neglect this duty great,
And idly spend their time, or their estate,
They are to be condemned as unjust,
And no fit Stewards to be put in trust,
They are to those depend on them a curse,
But are by oddes unto themselves a worse:
Good men account them base above the rest,
And God, He doth them most of all detest:
This is the issue, or the ill effect
Which still attends this Prodigall neglect.
Deare selfe, tis so; but let not this excuse,
Let not this collour of a lawfull use
Of getting goods, or earthly treasure slight,
Make that thy onely practice, and delight,
And to that gaine become so much addicted
That gaine farre greater shall become neglected.
I tell thee wealth is very much, inclin'd
Both to seduce and steale away the minde,
And if thou dost but unto it incline,
It will possesse thee totally in fine,
And in thy bosome beare such sway, that grace,
And tender-hearted vertue must give place.
Which Mammon in thee to this monster growne,
Thou shalt remaine no longer then thine owne,
But live a servile servitude and grosse
Under this Monster, Mammon, earthly drosse.
For as men doe of fire, and water say,
They are good servants when they doe obey:
But if they come to get the upper hand;
Are cruell Masters where they doe command.
So goods, and care of worldly gaine, confin'd
Within those limits reason hath injoyn'd,
Are very good: but if they doe exceed,
And yet the upper hand, for want of heed,
They then will grow outragious, and will play
The Tyrant in thee, making thee obey:
Torment thy minde, with endlesse care opprest,
And wast thy body, giving it no rest.
For wealth, like wine in excellence exceedes,
If thou canst take no more thereof then need,
And will afford much comfort and delight,
But take too much and 'twill confound thee quite,
Or so besot thy understanding part,
That it will make thee drunken at the heart.
For as to adde more water to the sorce,
Doth make it run but with the greater force:
Or as to put more fuell to the flame,
Doth but increase or more inrage the same.
So fondly seeking to alay this fire,
Or scorching thirst of gaine in the desire,
By adding wealth, to wealth possest before,
Doth but increase desire of wealth the more:
For riches in them, naturally rising,
Have onely power attractive, not sufficing:
[Page 48] That tis not all the wealth thou canst require,
Can satisfie a covetous desire.
Nay, know thou mayst in worldly wealth excell,
As it is fain'd of Tantalus in hell,
Who, though in water stands up to the chin,
And scorch'd with thirst, yet cannot drinke therein.
So thou, I say, in worldly wealth may'st swim,
And yet not have the power to taste, like him,
One drop of comfort in the same; nay know
Thou mayst have riches to thy overthrow
And meere destruction, when thy riches shall
Become thy joy, thy master, God and all.
This is, deare selfe, a certainety indeed,
Men hungers still that doe on riches feed,
For feeding thus doth appitite beget,
The more men feed the more they hunger yet,
Then doe not thou endeavour thus to fill
So foule a monster as will hunger still,
Or rather be the further to suffice,
The more it swallowes: No, be thou more wise,
And shew thy understanding by thy care,
Or manly courage to avoyd this snare,
Which for a colour, or excuse pretends
Thy safety on the use of it depends,
Besides, deare selfe, where Avarice takes place,
It is a deadly enemy to grace:
It roots out vertue, and is much inclin'd
To smother all good motions in the minde:
It banisheth all pitty from the doore,
And is a cruell foe unto the poore:
It counteth men of charity unwise,
And such as are religious, too precise,
[Page 49] And all things underneath the Sun but vaine,
But onely such as doe afford some gaine
Yea, the presumption of this god is great,
This Mammon seeketh to usurpe the seate
Of God himselfe, in that he doth aspire
To take the chiefest place in mans desire.
But mine owne heart give God the chiefest place,
For earthly Mammon is a monster base,
And such as be the servants of that beast
Their servitude is base above the rest.
Besides, deare selfe, thy fading yeares are such
As in this, Nature may perswade thee much;
Thy Age doth plead by arguments full strong
That thou must leave these earthly things ere long:
Thou must forsake those Lands thou hast in hold,
Thy stately buildings, and thy pretious gold,
And stript of all ere long; thy biding have
Amongst the dead within the silent grave.
Thy powers of minde already doe decay,
And Nature 'gins to take its force away:
Which being so, as so it is, deare selfe,
Why shouldst thou be in love with earthly pelfe?
Which thou so soone art certaine to forsake;
And when tis gone, thy reckoning is to make,
When thou for aide hast greatest use, then shall
Thy flattering riches flee, and leave thee all.
This is a truth most certainely concluded,
Then be not with this fruitelesse wealth deluded:
But seeke those riches that will never rust,
Nor ever faile thee, being put in trust;
Let vertue be the treasure of thy minde,
Be unto heav'n and heavenly things inclin'd,
[Page 50] For those are riches which will helpe at need,
When as thou hast most use for helpe indeed,
Those in the end will stand in thy defence,
And in the meane time, ere thou dost go hence,
Will yeeld thee joy and comfort in thy brest,
And will besides, become thy wisdome best:
For vertue will thy wisdome best expresse,
And eke thy age it doth require no lesse,
Thy yeares are such as justly doe require
Thou shouldst be heavenly now in thy desire,
Contemning earth, and earthly things as vaine,
And such, with which thou canst not long remaine,
But must be sever'd: and the day insues
When thou shalt all such comforters refuse,
As meerely fruitlesse: when one little graine
Of heavenly grace, or everlasting gaine
Will doe more good, and yeeld thee more content
Than all the World is able to present.
Deare selfe, forsake this earth then in desire,
Raise thy affections elevate them higher,
And fixe them where they need not thus remove,
On the Eternall treasures are above:
That so thy secret conscience may have rest,
And comfort from those vertues in thy brest:
And others, which shall see the same (as fit)
Shall give much honour both to thee, and it:
And, by thy sage, and good example mov'd,
Thy vertues shall in them become belov'd;
And thou become a teacher, as, in truth,
The aged should in vertue be to Youth.
Passion.
HEaven, and things Heav'nly, it must be confest,
Are above all things infinitely best,
And so I doe account them in my minde;
And so, I trust, I shall them one day finde,
When I shall stand in need of them at last,
When all my earthly comforts shall be past.
But in the meane time whiles I have my stay
Here upon earth, where earthly things beare sway,
And in the world have got so much command
That worldly wealth hath got the upper hand.
What madnesse were it, might you thinke, in me
If of this treasure I should carelesse be?
Or count the same a thing of little worth,
Which is the gaine accounted of on earth:
And onely such as doe injoy the same
Are counted men of estimate and fame.
Alas, what were it for my credit here?
Though I in gifts of Nature should appeare
Most perfect; adding unto Nature, Art,
And learning, to illusterate each part?
Yet were I poore and wanted Riches, tush,
All my perfections were not worth a rush:
Nor would within the worlds account take place,
My poverty would give them such disgrace.
Nay, were I moved in another kind,
With grace and vertue to adorne my mind,
To be Religious, zealously affected,
And unto heaven, and heavenly things addicted.
[Page 52] Yet were I poore and wanted earthly gaine,
All my Religion would be counted vaine,
And I, with my endeavours, thus should passe
Under the censure of dissembling asse,
Or under titles of contempt as much,
As idle, factious, ignorant, or such.
But, otherwise, were I of birth most base;
And of good breeding never knew the place,
Were I deform'd in body, same, or blind;
And were as much defective in my minde,
Had neither grace, humanity, nor wit,
Nor any other faculty were fit:
But were in speeches; and behaviour rude,
And in my practise most deboyst and lewd;
A foe to vertue, and to bosomes chaste
A tempter sworne, or enemy profess'd;
A monster, or as meere a drunken sot
As ever Bachus bred, or drunke a pot:
And unto these did resolution adde,
To make all others that I could, as bad.
Yet, notwithstanding all this showne, and more,
Had I but wealth, but earthly riches store,
The sweete possession of revenues great,
Which might give honour unto my estate:
The world it durst not taxe me then with blame,
But rather yeeld me reverence and fame,
At least that reputation and respect
Which worldly wealth, or nothing could effect:
For greatest riches seeke the highest place,
Aspires to honour, and expels disgrace.
Besides, example dayly makes it cleere,
What freedome tis to be a rich man here,
[Page 53] What priviledges waite upon him still
To feed his fancy, or suffice his will:
What kinde of earthly comfort can he crave,
That may be had, which here he may not have?
If honour be the thing he doth desire,
Tis wealth, or nothing, that must raise him higher:
For honour doth on worldly wealth depend,
And as wealth riseth, honour doth ascend:
Againe, as wealth doth fall into decay,
So, for the most part, honour falls away.
If worldly pleasures satisfie him best,
What pleasure can he in his heart request,
The earth affords, his heart to satisfie,
Which earthly treasure, gold cannot supply?
For as the needle drawes along the twine,
So Gold hath earthly pleasures on a line,
And, for the most part, that way gold doth draw,
The worlds contments follow, as in a we.
Or if it be the maintenance of right
When wrong is offer'd, that he doth delight:
Or sweet revenge, to satisfie the minde,
When injury is done in any kinde.
Why there is nothing of the like respect,
With gold, in working any such effect.
It makes the witnesse confident and bold
To speake his minde, although he be contrould.
It gives the Lawyer courage in his case,
It makes him use most necessary pleas,
And will to childish silence not be put
So long as gold can keepe his case on foot.
Or, otherwise, (by tender pitty mov'd
To doe that ancient duty, and approv'd)
[Page 54] If that a man would Charity extend,
Would be a helpe, or comfort to his friend:
Would aide the simple, fatherlesse, or poore,
And give, to such as wanted, of his store;
Or had a purpose to be understood
A Benefactor to the common good.
Yet if he wanted meanes, unto his minde,
And had not where withall to be thus kinde;
His purpose would be, to no purpose, lost,
Because his will, thus by his want was crost,
And his good meanings dye, with his devotion,
For want of gold, to give them life and motion.
Oh gold most pretious! what can more be said?
If vertue thus depends upon thy ayde,
And can not fly, unlesse thou giv'st it wings,
But lyes, and dyes, as well as other things.
The greatest Monarch never so much sway'd
As to become of all the world obey'd;
Nor fairest creature, most alluring made,
Like thee, could ever all the world perswade.
But thou dost sway a Scepter in thy hand,
Which doth the worlds whole Monarchy command:
And, like the Sun, such rayes doe from thee flow
As doe attract the love of all below.
Who is so great, or stately to disdaine
To be a suiter for thy pretious gaine?
Or who so wise, so holy, or upright
As truely scornes to yeeld unto thy might?
The Noblest and the bravest Spirit quailes
When thy sweet genious, or familiar failes.
And eke, againe, the most deboyst that lives
Revives his Soule when thou assistance gives.
Come then deare gold, my hearts content and stay;
Who will not, if thou dost command, obey?
Thy powers are so attractive I should feele
Some motion of them, though my heart were steele,
As tis full hard; but yet not such a flint,
But that it hath some feeling of thee in't:
And, if thy greatnesse might not it disdaine,
I would be more familiar with thee faine:
For I account thy pleasures farre above
All youthfull beauty, or delights of love,
Or any thing, if any thing abides,
Of more contentment, in the world besides.
Discretion.
BVt stay, deare selfe, what art thou all in gold?
These are extreames; some moderation hold:
Gold is a stately habit, I confesse,
And is accounted in the world no lesse.
But gold, it may be, is not thy attire,
But gold is in thy bosome thy desire;
And so, it bearing sway within thy brest,
Thou art by it, not it by thee possest.
And thou become a servant, and inthrall
To that should doe thee service most of all:
Which is, indeed, that misery of minde
Wherein, men miserable, are most blinde.
But, mine owne heart, be thou discerning here,
And make it knowne thy understanding's cleere,
And is not dazled by those golden rayes,
Which doe eclipse the brightnesse of our dayes.
I doe acknowledge earthly goods a blessing,
And be they wanting, many things are missing:
Yet where they are, and doe exceed, tis plaine,
They are as bad, or dangerous againe.
For where these earthly riches doe exceed
The measure that a sober man doth need,
They there leave off their nature of content,
And take the nature of a punishment,
And, with the endlesse care of boundlesse pelfe,
Torments the mind as much as hell it selfe.
This is most true, although we sometimes see
Men seeme at ease, that thus tormented be:
Who like the Salamander in the fire,
Delight to live thus tortur'd in desire.
Besides, although we manifestly finde
Things earthly, pleasing to an earthly minde.
Yet vertue, that which maketh truely rich,
That we see, alwayes flyes a higher pitch.
As Heaven, the seat of happinesse, we know,
Is furthest distant from earths center low;
So, doubtlesse, heav'n, and things that heavenly be
Can worst with earth, and earthly things agree:
The spacious space betweene them put is such
As serves alone to signifie as much.
That too much riches doe appeare a curse:
Againe, too little is accounted worse:
These are extreames, and can not be the best,
Because extreames they can afford no rest.
What then, deare selfe? why certainely betweene
These two extreames, there still abides a meane,
Which golden meane is of a higher rate
Then, almost, all men value the estate.
For what true comfort can there be attain'd,
Which with a sweet contentment is not gain'd?
Againe, what true content can be devis'd,
That is not also, in the meane compris'd,
Sure double happy is he that atchieves
The sweet conjunction of these relatives,
Which meeting are so readily inclin'd
To make such heavenly harmony in minde:
What note more sweet than from the mean ariseth?
What strain's more full than that which still sufficeth?
The meane all true contentment doth present;
And who more happy than the man content?
Sweet compitancy, how rare doe we find
Thee to the man of a contented mind?
What rest, what peace, what joy dost thou allow him,
And with what matchlesse comfort dost indow him?
Keep'st him secure and safe in all respects,
Preserv'st him from all turbulent effects:
And full sufficiency dost give him, which
Is ten times better than to have too much.
The man a loft, may boast upon the same;
The man renown'd may glory in his fame:
The man ambitious may seeke to clime higher:
The man envious, to have his desire:
The rich man may his insultations make,
And sooth himselfe for his abundance sake.
Yet neither high, nor low, nor rich, nor poore,
Nor any other state on earth hath more
True rest, true peace, true comfort and content,
Or sound and solid satisfaction in't,
Then this containes, than this affords to such
As rightly doe imbrace it; nor so much.
Deare selfe, then herein set thy heart at rest,
The meane is it where vertue doth consist;
That if thou hast sufficience in store,
Tis madnesse then to vexe thy selfe for more;
When adding more to that thou dost possesse
Will make thy comfort, in them both, the lesse,
Or rather, in this nature to speake right,
Will take away the comfort of them quite.
Besides the toyle, the study, and the feare
In storing up these needlesse fruites of care,
Is such, as may in reason well suffice
To make a Creature rationall more wise.
And for the vulgar credit or applause
Whereof these worldly riches are the cause,
If duely weigh'd and ponder'd as it ought,
It will appeare not halfe the thing tis thought.
For what is all the honour, or the praise
Bestow'd on greedy rich men now adayes?
But onely outward reverence; and such
As the bestowers inwardly doe grutch,
Because they know tis undeserv'd: though feare
Doth make them thus some reverence declare.
Nay, he that is most earnest to obtaine
These earthly goods, the greediest of gaine,
The fame he aymes at, turnes into disgrace,
And his endeavours are accounted base,
And men doe brand him, in the stead of fame,
With most reproach full titles for the same;
As cruell, earth-worme, Usurper: And more,
He alwayes is accursed of the poore,
Who, in their hunger, doe for vengeance call
For him: and such as he that eate up all.
Besides, the earth he eateth up so fast,
It threates againe to eate up him at last:
And, in the meane time, earnestly doth groane
That he should have so much of it alone,
And doe no good with it: which the Creator
Ordain'd should be a necessary creature.
And therefore it, to be reveng'd, ere long
Will witnesse beare how he hath done it wrong:
When as the Judge, who doth in truth delight,
Will heare the case, and do the creature right.
Deare selfe tis so, then set not thou thy love
On such a friend, as if thou dost, will prove
Thy greatest foe, and for thy kindnesse showne,
Unkindly plead to have thee overthrowne.
But if thou must, as needs thou must indeed,
Make use of earth, or earthly wealth at need,
Then labour to imploy it in that kinde,
Which by the Author of it was injoyn'd,
In doing good, extending of thy store
To pious uses, and unto the poore;
And then, unto thy comfort, in the end
Thy wealth, in earnest, will become thy friend
And witnesse for thee, when thy case is try'd
How justly by thee, it hath beene imploy'd.
This is, deare selfe, the onely sweet of all,
That may in wealth extracted be from gall;
For worldly riches are a sugred baite
Wherein lyes poyson hidden by deceit.
Then be thou heedfull mine owne tender heart,
And in this nature shew thou hast some art,
Who, like a skilfull Alchymist and try'd,
Can'st here the silver, from the drosse divide.
Observe that rule, which hath beene long forgot,
To use thy wealth, as if thou us'd it not:
That so, if such an accident should be
As, ere thou dy'st, should part thy wealth, and thee,
Thou mayst with patients, free from discontent,
Restore the Owner what he freely lent:
Or, at the least, when death, at last shall strike,
Thou mayst, with joy, doe willingly the like.
Passion.
MIne owne deare heart, why tak'st thou not thy rest?
Why art thou thus disquieted in my brest?
As if I priz'd this world at such a rate
That I were carelesse of my future state:
No, feare it not, it is not so, I trust,
For I desire the portion of the Just,
And have a hope, as well as a desire,
As, to rise here, to rise hereafter higher.
And, to that end, I am in hope tis knowne,
My good endeavours to the world are showne;
My purse is still as ready as my minde
To be a helpefull worker in this kind,
My part is alwayes call'd for as the chiefe,
When Charity is calling for reliefe:
And, whatsoever idle spend goods prate,
I am much helpefull to uphold the state.
Thus, whiles I live, I doe my wealth imploy,
And have a resolution, when I dye
To be a further friend unto the poore,
They then may blesse me as they did before:
[Page 61] And, if I thought he would these things report,
I then would well requite a Preacher for't.
The meane time it must first be understood,
I must have wherewithall to doe this good;
And therefore things thus needfull, I am ty'd
In reason and in Conscience to provide.
Besides, it is my duty, and I finde,
A duty too that strictly is enjoyn'd,
That here I should be provident and wise,
And use all lawfull meanes I can devise
That such as doe upon my ayde rely
May feele no want of what I should supply.
But further yet I find within my brest
A Law by oddes more powerfull than the rest,
Which is the Law of Nature in my minde,
Which doth by Nature move me to be kinde,
And carefull that my children, which I grant
Are neare and deare unto me, may not want.
If Lightnings meteors threate to scorch the skies,
Straight, as inrag'd, distemper'd Thunder cryes:
Or any other neare united twaine,
If one fares ill, the other doth complaine.
Mine owne deare children, whom I tender much,
Tis fit that my affection should be such:
What heart would not dissolve to see you misse?
What tender bowels would not burst at this?
Sweet Babes, who, like to Birds before they flye,
For food doe onely to the Old ones cry;
Me thinkes I heare you pittifully call
Father, be carefull of your Children small,
And as your substance did us substance give,
So of your substance, Father, let us live:
[Page 62] We are your off-spring, issu'd from your loynes,
What nearenesse more respective care injoynes?
Let pitty move you to respect your owne,
Compassion, fitly, first at home is showne:
We wholly yet upon your hand are staid,
We onely doe relye upon your ayde.
If you have not a Fatherly respect,
If you, deare Father, doe our caseneglect,
What kindnesse, or what comfort may we then
Expect to finde from any other men?
Deare Father, let affection then beare sway,
Prevent your Childrens ruine and decay,
And as our teares you doe in pitty tender,
Be, as you are our Father, our defender,
That so the tender seed that you have sowne
May be preserv'd, and flourish when tis growne.
These are the voyces which me thinkes, I heare,
Unto which voyces who can but give eare?
What Father living can refraine from teares,
That thus his Children sad complaining heares?
But, doubtlesse, double cruell is that swine
Which gives his child this reason to repine.
For my part, as it is my duty, so
It shall be my endeavour thereunto,
Whiles with my children here I have my stay,
To doe my children all the good I may.
The working Pysmire and the labouring Bee,
As if they did insuing wants fore-see,
Doe aptly teach us, in the time we may,
To get in store against another day;
Lest we, or those that we are bound to feed,
Should stand in want, in time of greatest-need.
Yea, as tis said, all Creatures teach the same,
Both Birds, and Beasts; then were it not a shame
If I; who should have reason for my guide,
Should not with prudence for mine owne provide?
Besides, I seeing earthly wealth is such
That nought else, earthly, is esteem'd so much;
And men, without it, are accounted base,
What other gifts soever doe them grace:
If I have any true desire to see
My tender children here respected be:
Or when I shall surcease to be, and leave them,
Would have the world respect and honour give them.
It doth behove me, whiles I here remaine,
To heedfull be, and slip no meanes of gaine,
But use my best endeavour, in this kinde,
To leave them credite, that I leave behinde.
That so when I shall cease, or fall asleepe,
My wealth, which then I shall no longer keepe,
May grace my issue which shall then survive,
That so my credit may be kept alive
In my posterity, in that my seed
Shall live and flourish, when I shall be dead.
When otherwise, if I shall waste my store,
And, through my folly, leave my issue poore,
They shall be sure to feele the irksome want
That doth attend the state where things are scant,
With the disdaine, reproachfull titles, shame,
And miseries that waite upon the same.
Besides, my children shall have cause to curse
Their fate, if not their Father, which is worse:
Their fate for frowning, but their Father, I,
Not for meere frowning, but for cruelty;
[Page 64] Who, when I ought, and might have purchas'd here,
Hard heart, was carelesse of my children deare.
Thus, if I be not provident, tis plaine,
Both I, and mine, whiles here I doe remaine,
Must fare the worse: and when I must away,
And in my grave be moulded up in clay:
Where, one would thinke, I might remaine in peace:
Yet with me there the world will not surcease,
But call my follyes up, to my disgrace,
Appearing in the poorenesse of my race,
Who, through my want of dilligence and heed,
Shall taste of want, and miserable need.
Oh cruelty! what creature hath thus done?
Tis pitty Father ever should have Sonne,
That shall thus farre unnaturall be knowne,
As not to make provision for his owne.
Then who is so unnaturall, so blind,
So void of care, or reason in his minde?
As to contemne the providence of such
As for their children lay up treasure much.
Sure none that are of any substance will,
None that have wit will so condemne their skill,
None that have Fatherly affection can,
None that retaine the nature of a man.
If Fathers here should faile, and were not mov'd,
Through tender care of children dearely lov'd,
To take much paines, and have a prudent heed
To lay up store, for times that shall succeed;
Their hot affections would herein abate,
And care of things to come would out of date:
And so, by setting providence a stay,
The world would quickly ruine and decay.
But God, out of his goodnesse and his care,
His infinite of wisedome to declare:
Hath in each heart imprinted, as Creator,
A care of the preserving kinde by nature.
Which tender care of off-springs future good,
Hath beene a meanes the world so long hath stood:
And when this care shall cease, the world, tis plaine;
Shall run to a confused heape againe.
I might inlarge this further, to make cleere
The case in question, but it doth appeare
So plaine and evident unto the wise,
That, what is showne already may suffice.
Then what shall stay, or hinder my intent?
As if it justly might the same prevent.
This is the treasure: whatsoev'r men faine
Of mentall, or imaginary gaine.
That is to be commended, I confesse;
And, such as doe injoy it, are no lesse.
But this is that same providence, which here
Affords the profit that is held most deare:
Yea, tis so usefull that, it seemes, the frame
Of all the world depends upon the same.
Then this shall be my study, and my art,
That of this building I may beare a part:
That, if hereafter, any man shall looke,
He may perceive what prudent care I tooke:
And such as shall succeed me, may be bold
To take the part, which thus I did uphold.
Sweet comfort, doubtlesse, and to be admir'd:
Who will not with these profits be inspir'd?
They doe possesse me in so deepe a kind,
And have indeed, so ravished my minde,
[Page 66] That, if to speake the truth I may not blush,
I count all profits, else, not worth a rush.
Discretion in Age.
IF home-bred, or domesticke foes be such
As cause more dread than forraigne foes by much:
Then much more may the inbred foe be thought
Most hard to be into subjection brought:
Because the neerenesse of a foe, we finde,
Doth adde advantage to a cruell minde,
Deare selfe, consider, this is just thy state,
Within thy bosome there is this debate;
This most irreconcilliable jarre:
There Passion, and Discretion are at warre:
There Nature seekes its freedome to defend:
There reason with affection doth contend:
Or rather there, to pen the title right,
Proud flesh doth with the humble spirit fight.
Mine own deare heart, then arme thy selfe thou must,
These fatall foes of thine are not to trust,
Their force is great, their malice is not small,
Their arguments most dangerous of all:
And when by force thou wilt not be subdu'd,
They then will fawne and flatter to delude:
And if all this can not agreement draw;
They then will plead their quarrell good by Law:
That if thou stand it not, to withstand them fast,
They will prevaile and make thee yeeld at last.
But mine owne heart, be thou advised here
To shun those dangers, which thou seest so cleare,
[Page 67] And let the knowledge of the same suffice,
To make thee loath the baite they would disguise.
Here Passion is impatient to seduce,
Under the shadow of a lawfull use
Of worldly wealth, and pleads by reasons strong
That it, in reason, doth to men belong
To be most wise and provident for gaine,
As that wherein such safety doth remaine
That they without it cannot well subsist,
And as they wish their children should be blest,
Or would have happinesse betide them,
They must this meanes of happinesse provide them.
In deed, deare selfe, this argument, in shew,
Is of much force, and in some kind is true,
The Father is most strictly ty'd, I grant,
To have a care his children may not want:
And children, when they come to goe, I yeeld,
May walke the better, by this stay up-held,
And by the portion that their parents give,
May be the more incourag'd, whiles they live,
To store up for their issue too: and so
To doe to theirs, as they were done unto.
All this seemes equall, excellent, and fit,
And that which truth, and reason both admit:
That if there were no more to say but this,
This, doubtlesse, were the onely way to blisse.
But mine owne heart, the sting remaines behinde;
This is the hony that deludes the minde:
Men dore upon the sweet that riches bring,
But never once suspect they have a sting:
A sting lies hid, by honey over-cast,
Which will be felt, when honey failes at last,
[Page 68] And make men know, as tis well knowne, that stings
Doe still lye hidden under golden wings.
Deare selfe tis so, then let it be thy care
To shunne the danger that is in the snare:
Doe thou no further unto wealth incline
Then may be for the good of thee, and thine,
But if thou hast a fatherly desire,
(As fit, and that which reason doth require)
To store up riches for thy tender seed,
Which may relieve and helpe them at their need:
Then in providing thou must be more wise
Than to weave webbes, as Spiders doe, for flyes,
Which are so fraile and subject to decay,
That the meere wind doth blow the same away.
Thou must be carefull that thy store uplaid,
Intended for thy tender childrens aide,
Be goods well gotten, honestly attain'd,
Not by deceit, or meanes unlawfull gain'd,
But such as Truth may warrant will abide,
When Justice cals the matter to be tryde.
For, otherwise, thy ill got wealth, intended
To grace thy children, when thy grace is ended,
It will be, like the Spiders web, as though
It were meere nothing, when the wind doth blow;
When God shall breathe upon it, in displeasure,
To blast the fruite of such ill-gotten treasure.
That, as 'twas gotten by deceit by thee,
It to thy children may deceitfull be;
And, when they thinke it should become their stay,
Then waste, or make it wings and flye away.
Thus, for the most part, goods ill gotten wast,
Though for an age they, peradventure, last,
[Page 69] Which is not often: but that bides not long,
(This is most certaine) which is gain'd by wrong.
Besides, tis plaine and evidently seene
That goods which have unjustly gotten beene,
As they were badly gotten, by as vaine,
Or sordid meanes they doe consume againe:
For tis a Maxime, with a full consent,
Goods badly gotten, will be badly spent:
As if the father did the child constraine
To spend in vice, what he in vice did gaine;
Which is a curse; though children judge amisse,
The largest portion is the greatest blisse:
And thinke them fooles that thinke there is a curse
That children may inherit from the purse,
Or from the portion that their Parents give them,
So it be large or great enough they leave them.
Although experience teacheth, the conclusion:
Of goods ill got, is ruine and confusion.
Deare selfe, then doe not thou thy selfe this wrong,
Nor those that doe unto thy selfe belong;
Torment not thou thy body; and thy minde,
To heape up store of riches in this kinde.
What idle madnesse is it, or as vaine,
To lye downe late, and early rise againe?
To eate the bread of carefullnesse, and thinke
The dregges of pleasure good enough to drinke?
And all to gaine a little goods; which, got,
Twere ten times better that thou hadst them not,
But hadst beene, to thy happinesse, more wise
Both for thy selfe, and for thy seed likewise;
For thee, because thy gaine will prove thy shame,
For thine, because deluded by the same.
Deluded? yea, most grossely too, deluded,
It can not sure be otherwise concluded:
For what can more deceitfull be than this,
A curse should be intended for a blisse:
A child which on his portion doth relye,
Should, when he hath it, be undone thereby.
Undone, indeed, because it can not stay,
But as 'twas got, in hast it must away;
And when tis vanish'd out of sight and gone,
How is that child deluded, that alone
Rely'd thereon? is he not quite undone?
Yes, certainely, most wretched is that Sonne,
Whose haplesse Father, or unhappy fate
Provided for him such a failing state.
Had not his Father (by delusion guided)
Such a deluding state for him provided,
He should not then have on that meanes rely'd,
As onely to that meanes of living ty'd)
But should have in his tender yeares, as fit,
Instructed beene to exercise his wit,
To gaine such knowledge in some honest way,
As might have yeelded meanes another day:
Some lawfull Art, or Science, which are sure,
When other portions vanish, to indure.
When he that wholly is without such aide,
Whose meanes, or patrimony is decay'd
(Whiles he on most inconstant fortune waites)
Is urg'd to meanes unlawfull, or to straites.
Mine owne deare selfe, this is a certaine Truth,
Which still hath beene most incident to Youth.
Then if thou wouldst not have thy name defil'd;
Or if thou hast respect unto thy Child:
[Page 71] Then scrape not for him such uncertaine gaine,
But rather teach him that which will remaine:
That so the portion that thou dost provide
May, to thy credit, with thy child abide.
What though the portion that thou giv'st be smal?
Yet, if it hath that blessing there withall
That it was justly gain'd; and, when injoy'd
As justly and as piously imploy'd,
It doubtlesse, shall be for their comfort more
That shall injoy thy riches or thy store,
Then if it had beene ten times more; and got
By meanes unjust, which Truth admitteth not.
Foundations sound, which, like the Rockes, lye low,
Are better farre to build upon, you know,
Then hugest mountaines, that are heapes of sand,
Or hollow caves, where buildings cannot stand.
Even so that well got substance which is sound,
Although it lyes but levell with the ground,
Is very little: Yet tis better sure
To build upon, and longer will indure
Then that estate which by deceit did rise,
Although it threates to reach unto the Skies.
But being windy, hovering, and light,
One blast from heav'n doth overthrow it quite,
And, by this ever sad event insuing,
Brings building, and the builder both to ruine.
But if, deare selfe, thy seed, by thy intent,
Should be the better for thee by descent,
Then thou must labour to be here the same
That may hereafter yeeld thee a good name.
That so that pretious jewell it may live
When thou art dead; and to thy issue give
[Page 72] That true bred worth, or credit; which, I know,
The richest worldling hath not to bestow.
If this, then, thou canst purchase up in store
To leave behind thee, though thou leav'st no more,
This is alone a patrimony great:
The comfort of which portion or estate,
With thy example, may provoke thy seed,
When thou art hence departed, to take heed
To be to their succeeding race so kind
To leave them this inheritance behind.
That, as it in them by descent tooke place,
It may be still descending in their race:
That so they to their issue may restore
What from their parents they receiv'd before;
Which is a debt, or rather duty laid
On men by Conscience, should be duly paid.