THE ENGLISH GENTLEMAN.
YOVTH.
YOVTH.
The dangers that attend on Youth; The vanitie of Youth, display'd in foure distinct Subjects; Three violent passions incident to Youth; Physicke prescribed, and receits applied to cure these Maladies in Youth.
HOwsoever some more curiously than needfully may seeme to reason,Observat. 1. that there be divers Climactericall or dangerous yeeres in mans time; sure I am, that in mans age there is a dangerous time, in respect of those Sinne-spreading Sores which soile and blemish the glorious image of the soule. And this time [Page 2] is Youth, an affecter of all licentious liberty, a Comicke introducer of all vanitie,The Dangers that attend on Youth. and the only Heire apparent to carnall securitie. This it was which moved that princely Prophet to pray, Lord forgiue mee the Sinnes of my youth. Sins indeed; because the youthfull sinner is ever committing, but never repenting, usually provoking God, but rarely invoking God. This is hee who Snuffeth the wind, with the wilde Asse in the desart, being like the Horse or Mule which hath no understanding, by giving Sense preeminence aboue Reason: and walking in the fatnesse of his heart, as one wholly forgetfull of God. He may say with the Psalmist, though in another sense, Vt jumentum factus sum apud te: upon exposition of which sentence,Vnum est inslar belluae humiliari, aliud est belluinos inores imitari. it is laudable (saith Euthymius) that in the sight of God we take our selues as Beasts to shew our humility, but not to resemble beasts in ignorance or brutish sensualitie. Many are the dangerous shelfes which menace ruine and shipwracke to the inconsiderate and improvident Soule, during her sojourning here in this Tabernacle of clay: but no time more perillous than the heat of Vicina l [...]psibus adolesc. [...]a. Hieron. Omnia in hat aetole juvenescunt vitia. Euseb. lib 3.17. Youth, or more apt to give fuell to the fire of all inordinate desires; being as ready to consent, as the Devil is to tempt, and most willing to enter parley with her spirituall enemie upon the least assault. It is reported by Eusebius, that Saint Iohn meeting a strong young-man, of good stature, amiable feature, sweet countenance, and great spiri [...], straightway looking upon the Bishop of that place, he said thus unto him: Christ being witnesse and before the Church, I commend unto thee and thy care this young man, to be especially regarded and educated in all spirituall discipline. Whom when the Bishop had received into his tuition, and promised that he would performe whatsoever he ought, S. Iohn againe and againe gives his charge, and contesteth his fidelity: and afterwards he returnes to Ephesus. The Bishop takes the young man home: [Page 3] brings him up as his owne sonne, keeps him within the limits of his dutie, intreats him gently, and at last baptiseth him, and confirmes him. Afterwards, upon remitting something of his care, and giving freer reines to his libertie, the young man takes occasion to shake off the yoake of tuition, and falls into bad company, who corrupt him: diverting his course from the path of vertue by these meanes. First, they invite him to banquets, then they carry him abroad in the Night, afterward to maintaine their profuser expence, they draw him to theevery, and so by degrees to greater wickednesse, being now made Captaine in this theevish company. At last Saint Iohn returnes and saith; Goe to Bishop, give me my depositum, which I and Christ committed unto thee in the Church which thou governest. The Bishop was astonied, thinking that he had deceitfully demanded some money which he never received, and yet durst scarce distrust the Apostle. But as soone as Saint Iohn said, I demand the young man and soule of my brother: the old man hanging downe his head, sighing and weeping, said; ille mortuus est, he is dead. How and with what kinde of death, said Iohn? Deo mortuus est, hee is dead unto God, answered the Bishop: Nam nequam & perditus, & uno verbo Latro evasit: for he is wicked and lost, and in a word a Theefe. Much matter might be collected from this Story, to enlarge the ground of our Proposition, to wit, what imminent dangers are ever attending on Youth, and how easie it is by the painted flag of vanity, and sensuall pleasure, to draw him to ruine. For doubtlesse, many excellent rules of instruction had this grave Bishop delivered and imparted to his young Pupill: many devout taskes and holy exercises had hee commended to his practice: many prayers full of fervent zeale had hee offered for his conversion: many sighes had he sent, many teares had he shed to reclaime him from his former conversation. Yet see, how soone [Page 4] this youthfull Libertine forgets those instructions which hee had taught him, those holy taskes which were injoyned him, those zealous prayers which were offered for him, those unfained sighes and teares which were shed for him I hee leaves this aged Father, to become a Robber, he flies from the Temple to the mountaine; he puts off the roabe of truth, and disguiseth himselfe with the vizard of theft. And no small theefe, but a Leader. Rachel was a theefe, for shee stole idolls from her father; Iosuah was a theefe, seeing hee stole grapes from Canaan; David was a theefe, seeing he stole the bottle of water from Saul; Ionathas was a theefe, since he stole hony from the Hive; Iosaba was a theefe, since he stole the infant Ioash. But here was a theefe of another nature; one, whose vocation was injury, profession theevery, and practice crueltie: one, whose ingratitude towards his reverend Foster-father, merited sharpest censure: for Bysias the Grecian, Osige [...] the Lacedemonian, Bracaras the Theban, and Scipio the Roman, esteemed it lesse punishment to be exiled, than to remaine at home with those that were ungratefull for their service.Si ingratum dix [...]ris, omnia dixeri [...]. Min. Publianus. So as, it is not only a griefe, but also a perillous thing, to have to doe with ungratefull men. And wherein might ingratitude be more fully exemplified than in this Young-man, whose disobedience to his Tutor, sleighting his advice that had fostered him, deserved severest chastisement? But to observe [...] the cause of his fall; wee shall finde how soone those good impressions, which he had formerly received, were quite razed and defaced in him, by reason of depraved company: whence we may gather, that Youth, being indeed the Philosophers rasa tabula, Quisimus, Quinam [...]mus, in Ephebio constitu [...]um est. is apt to receive any good impressure, but spotted with the pitch of vice, it hardly ever regaines her former puritie. Whence wee are taught, not to touch pitch, lest we be defiled: for as that divine Father saith, Occasiones faciunt Latrones. [Page 5] Truth is, the sweetest Apples are the soonest corrupted, and the best natures quickliest depraved. How necessary therefore, the care and respect Youth ought to have in the choyce and election of his Company, may appeare by this one example, which sheweth that Society is of such power, as by it Saints are turned into Serpents, Doves into Devils: for, with the wise wee shall learne wisdome, and with the foole we shall learne foolishnesse. Dangerous therefore it is, to leave illimited Youth to it selfe: yea, to suffer Youth so much as to converse with it selfe.Diog. Cyn. So as, that Greeke Sage, seeing a Young man privately retired all alone, demanded of him what hee was doing? who answered, he was talking to himselfe. Take heed, quoth he, thou talke not with thine enemie. Lectum non citius relinquens, quàm in Deum delinquens: n [...]n citius surgens, quàm insurgens. The vanitie of Youth displ [...]yed in foure distinct Subjects. For the naturall pronenesse of Youth to irregular liberty is such, as it is ever suggesting matter of innovation to the Soveraigntie of reason. Now to reduce these enormities incident to Youth, to certaine principall heads, we will display the Vanitie of Youth in these foure distinct Subjects▪ Gate, Looke, Speech, Habit: that by insisting and discoursing on each particular, we may receive the feature of Ladie Vanitie portrayed to the life.
IT is strange to observe how the very Body expresseth the secret fantasies of the minde:GATE. and how well the one sympathizeth with the other. I have seene even in this one motion, the Gate, such especiall arguments of a proud heart; as if the body had beene transparent, it could not have represented him more fully. And I have wondered, how Man endued with reason, could be so far estranged from that where with he was endued; as to strut so proudly with feet of earth, as if hee were never to returne to earth. But especially, when Youth is employed in ushering his Mistresse hee walkes in the [Page 6] street as if hee were dancing a measure. He verily imagins the eyes of the whole Citie are fixed on him, as the very patterne which they esteeme worthy imitation: how neerely then concernes it him to stand upon his equipage. He walkes, as if he were an upright man, but his sincerity consists onely in dimension. He feares nothing so much as some rude encounter for the Wall, Audacia pro [...] habetur. Salust. in Bell. Cati [...]. and so be discredited in the sight of his Idoll. Now I would be glad to weane this Phantasticke from a veine of lightnesse, and habituate him to a more generous forme. First, he is to know, how that which is most native and least affect [...]ve, deserves choisest acceptance. We were not borne to glory in our feet, the Bases of Mortalitie: but to walke as children of light, in holinesse and integritie. Safer it were for us, to observe and make use of that, which the Swan is reported to use, when at any time shee glories in the whitenesse of her colour, to wit, shee reflects her eye upon her blacke feet, which qualifies her proud spirit: making her so much the more dejected, as joying before in her owne beautie, shee was erected. Excellently was that Embleme of humane frailtie shadowed in the image of Agathocles the Syracusan tyrant, who commanded his Statue to be composed after this sort: the Head to be of gold, signifying purenesse, the armes of ivory, intimating smoothnesse, the body of brasse, implying strongnesse, but the feet of earth, importing weaknesse. Be the Head-peece never so pure; be it a Diadem of gold wee weare, it cannot promise to us perpetuitie; wee stand on earthen feet, how may we then stand long, relying on such weak supporters? Though Nebuchadnezzer strut never so proudly upon the turrets of his princely Palace,Dan. 4.27. saying, Is not this great Babel which I have builded? hee knowes not how soone he shall be deprived of his glory,29. and be enforced to feed with the Beasts of the field,30. being as one estranged from his former [Page 7] magnificence. Quid ergo ad nos consolatio mundi? Let us not glory in mundane vanitie, nor repose too much confidence in these feet of frailtie.Seneca. Sipes interris, mens sit in coelis; Though our foot be on earth, let our minde be in heaven: knowing, that (as Saint Augustine saith) Three cubits of earth doe expect us; and how little or much so ere wee possesse, this is all that shall be left us.
THe next Subject we are to treat of in this Display of youthfull vanity,LOOKE. is his Looke: wherein hee is ever noted to shew a kinde of contempt, expressing by his eye, what he conceives in his heart. Here is oculatus testis, an eye-witnesse to tax him of his pride; disdaining to fix his eye upon the lower shrubs, as if a reflex on them should derogate from his glory. They that looked upon Sylla's ring,Plutarch. in vit. Syll. could not choose but take notice both of Sylla's seale and the treason of Iugurth; so he that should but eye a proud Look, could not choose but collect from what heart so disdainfull a Looke proceeded. I have ever observed, the most generous to be least affective in this kinde: for it is, and hath beene ever an inherent propriety in them, to expresse a generous affability as well in Looke as Speech. August. The eyes (saith a good Father) are members of the flesh, but windowes of the minde; which, Eagle-like, should be ever erected to the beames of righteousnesse, and not depressed by any unworthy object of externall basenesse. The only Sight of God is the true food and refection of our minds: Gregor. we look to be satisfied, but satisfaction we cannot finde in any outward object; much lesse in contempt of our poore brother, who many times exceeds us more in worth, than we him in birth. But tell me, Young Gallant, what it is that moveth thee to this contempt of others? Is it thy descent? alas, that is none of thine; [Page 8] thou derivest that glory from thine Ancestors, whose honour by thy vertues as it liveth, so obscured by thy ignoble life, dieth. Yea, recall to minde how many glorious Houses now lye buried in the grave of oblivion, by the vicious course of irregular Successours: and again, how many Houses, whose Names formerly were not so much as knowne, either raised from others ruine, or advanced by industrious merit, usurpe their glory. Is it thy Riches? Indeed, if the Philosophers axiom bee true; Riches is a signe of eternall glory, there were some reason to glory in them: but we shall finde this glory meerely imaginary, yea a great darkner and blemisher of the internall glorie and beautie of the minde. For as the Moone doth never eclypse, but when she is at the full: so the Minde is never so much obscured, as it is with the superfluitie of Riches. And againe, as the Moone is farthest off from the Sunne which giveth it light, when it is at the full; so a Man, when he is the fullest of Riches, is farthest off from that equitie and justice, which ought to give him light in all his proceedings. And therefore, he might doe well herein to imitate the Fly, which putteth not her feet in the great masse of honey, but only taketh and tasteth with her tongue so much thereof as serveth her turne, and no more, lest by doing otherwise, she might remaine taken and drowned therein. Yea, if we should but reflect and take a view of certaine Ethnicks, whose [...]dmirable contempt of Riches eternized them, wee should observe what inimitable continencie was in them, and what an Hydropticke thirst of avarice remaineth as yet unquenched in us. And though we must live according to Lawes, and not to Examples, yet Cicero held that nought could be taught without example; wherefore, to enforce this argument further, wee will here produce certaine Heathens, who contemned Riches so much, as being offered, yea obtruded, they would not [Page 9] accept them. Anacharses refused the treasure sent him by Croesus: Anacreontes refused the treasure sent him by Polycrates: and Albionus refused the treasure sent him by Antigonus. The like moderation we reade in Fabius Maxim. Crates, Mimus, and most of the Greeke Philosophers. This indifferencie towards Fortune, is excellently described by the sententious Seneca, concluding, Nihil eripit fortuna, De tranq. an. nisi quod ipsa dedit. To insist on more examples, were to enlarge this branch too much; we will therefore shut them all up with that divine observation of the wise Simonides; who being asked once, whether Vertue or Riches were of more reputation, made answer, That the vertuous did more frequent the doores of the rich, than the rich the vertuous: Thence inferring, that Wealth was a great nourisher of Vice, Quo altior in divitiis, eo cop [...]ostor in vitiis. and Povertie of Vertue; or rather implying, how those who are richest are oft-times the retchlest, being ev [...]r with vices more infected, who are to highest fortunes advanced. Wherefore I assure me, thou wilt not glory in riches, for they deprave the Soule, which should be in the Body, Ber. de inter. Dom. like a Queene in her Palace. Whence then proceedeth this haughty Looke? perchance thou wilt object, that thou art a man of Place; admit thou beest: is there nothing thou canst finde to expresse the eminence or greatnesse of thy Place, to which thou art called, save a disdainfull or surly Looke, [...] neglectfull or scornefull countenance, contemptuously throwne upon thy inferiour? Surely, if such an one thou be, how great so ere thou be, I will admire rather thy Seat than thy Selfe: and conclude with Aristippus, A stone sits upon a stone. These are they, at whom our Moderne Poet glanced pleasantly, when he saith:
So punctuall and formall they are, as besides a kinde of [Page 10] formall and phantasticke humour they are nothing: or to expresse them better; They thinke it a derogation to honour, to converse with basenesse; They shew a great deale of peremptory command in an awfull Looke, imagining it a sufficient argument of greatnesse, for Midas Asse to have Minos countenance:
Since then neither Descent, for that is derived from others; nor riches, aptest to deprave us of all others; nor place, being worst expressed in glorifying our selues and contemning others; should move us to put on the countenance of disdaine to our inferiours: we are to conclude, that Humilitie, as it opens the gate unto glory, so Affabilitie, a vertue right worthy of every generous minde, cannot be better planted than in the eyes, those Centinels which guard us, those two Lights which direct us, those adamantine Orbes which att [...]act affection to us.
Let not then any other object entertaine it, at least, not retaine it: if they be to be employed in any worldly object, let them be employed in contemplating his workes who made the world; for all other objects are but meere vanitie and affliction of spirit.
SPEECH.THe third Subject we are to discourse of, is Speech; a proprietie wherein Man is distinguished from other creatures: yea, the only meanes to preserve societie among humane creatures.Sine loq [...]la non potest sla [...]e societas. Ar [...]st. Aug. de Magist. Quant [...]meliu [...] est docere quàm loqui, tanto melior est quàm verba locutio, saith S. Augustine: By how much better it is to teach than to speake, by so much better is Speech than words. Here this learned Father maketh a maine difference betwixt [Page 11] Speech and Words: which distinction may be properly applied to the argument whereof we now treat. The rash Young man, who useth no guard to his mouth, nor no gate of circumstance unto his lips, Psal. 141.3. inureth himselfe to many words, but little Speech. Now to define Speech, it is nothing else than an apt composing, and an opportunate uttering of words; whence it is said, Words spoken in season or opportunitie, Prou. 25.11. are like apples of gold with pictures of silver. And herein is Youth many times blameworthy, who will professe himselfe a Speaker, before he know what to speake; yea, putting his oare in every mans boat, admits no conference, no treatie, no discourse, how transcendent soever, but he will be a Speaker: though it oft-times move some wise Phocion to say to this jangling Pithias, In vit. Phoc. Good God, will this foole never leave his babbling? Aristotle debating of the convenience and proprietie of discourse before Alexander, In lib. desecr. secret. maintained that none were to be admitted to Speake, but either those that managed his warres, or his Philosophers which governed his house. Observe here what strictnesse was imposed even upon Heathens, to restraine them from too much libertie of Speech, onely such being admitted to speake, whose approved judgement in militarie or philosophicall discourse might worthily be said to deserve attention.Two reasons why Young men were not admitted to deliver their opinions in publike assemblies. Divers reasons of no small consequence might be here produced, why Young men were not to give their opinions in any matter of State in publike places; but we will reduce them to two. The first whereof may be imputed to their rashnesse in resolving; the second to a passionate hotnesse in proceeding. For the first, to wit, rashnesse in resolving: it is the propertie of Youth without premeditation to resolve, and without counsell to execute. Now as it possible any good effect should succeed from such unsteadie grounds? Yes, you will say; some are of that present and pregnant conceit, as a matter is no sooner [Page 12] imparted, than they apprehend it: and for Speech, divers haue had such excellent gifts, as they would shew more native eloquence in a Speech presently composed, than upon longer preparation addressed. Did not Tiberius better in any Oration extempore, than premeditate? Have not many in like sort, as if secretly [...]. inspired, expressed and delivered abundance of profound learning upon the present? It is true, yet are wee not hence to collect that premeditation is fruitlesse, that rash and inconsiderate resolves are to be admitted, or Young mens advice, which is for most part grounded on opinionate arrogancie, [...], not [...], secundum opinionem, non secundum veritatem, should be authenticke. For admit Young men were eloquent, yet foolish eloquence (which must needs be in unseasoned Youth) is as a sword in a mad-mans hand,Pic. M [...]rand in epist. ad H [...]r [...]ol. it cannot but hurt much; being first, apt to perswade, and likewise by delivering dangerous matter, no lesse prompt to depra [...]e the eare that is perswaded. The second reason which we observed, why Youth was not to give his opinion [...]n any publike place, was his hotnesse in proceeding. It is intolerable for these Young-heads to be opposed: they are deafe to reason,Ne (que) locus, ne (que) amious quisquā teget, quem arma non texerint. Salust. in Bell. Iugurth. Ferociam animi, quam habebat vivus, in vultu retinust Catilina Salust. in Conjur. Ca [...]il. as if opinion had possest them of purpose to oppose reason. This appeared in those violent attempts of Catiline, Cethegus, Lentulus, and their factious adherents; who, though privately cautioned and friendly advised by such, whose long experienced loue and fidelitie assured them of their unfained amity yet rather than they would lose the opportunitie of their aimes, all counsell must be rejected, and their own private opinions (without ground of reason) embraced. But to come nearer them in our discourse: these Young-blouds use rather, Catiline-like, to speake much and doe little, than Iugurth-like, to speake little, and doe much.Salust. Of all Innes, they loue not that of Harparates, with the signe of the finger on his mouth. They [Page 13] are unmeasurably passionate in any argument, and so nailed to their owne opinion, as conceit transports them aboue reason, and leaves no place for contradiction. It is commonly said,Law, Logicke, and the Sw [...]tzers may be hired to fight for any one. that Law, Logicke, and the Switzers, may be hired to fight for any one; and wee have found out one that will match them. Now you have received the character of his Speech, I would labour to reclaime him from his errour; which to effect the better, he must know, that being a Gentleman, (for to such an one chiefly doe I direct my discourse) he can asperse no greater imputation on Gentry, than in exercising his tongue in fruitlesse and frivolous discourse, or spending his breath in uselesse or needlesse contention. The tongue (as one observes) is a small member:Blos. but very glibbery and proane to ruine: apt it is to rebell, if not restrained, prompt to innovate, if not confined. But of all the sallies or excursions which are made by the tongue, none in my conceit lesse beseeming a Gentleman, than in giving reines to passion, to slave himselfe to illimited fury: much more profit should he finde in expostulating with passion, recalling to minde that saying of Archytas so much commended; who being angrie with one of his hindes, said; O how would I have beaten thee, had I not beene angrie with thee! Where two meeke men meet together, their conference (saith Bern [...]rd) is sweet and profitable; where one man is meeke, it is profitable; where neither, it proves pernicious. May your Speech, [...]. Basil. Virtus maxima, in mole minima. (Gentlemen) be so seasoned, as it may relish of discretion: rather learne the art of silence, than to incurre the opinion of rashnesse: for the one seldome gives argument of offence, but the other ever. Speak, but not with affectation, for that gives a better rellish to the eare, than to the conceit: Speake, but not in assentation, for that is mercenarie, and seemes better in the mouth of a slavish Sycophant, than a generous professant: Speake freely, yet with reservation, [Page 14] lest the Comedians phrase have some allusion to your opennesse; being so full of chinkes, as secrecie can haue no hope to finde harbour in your bosome. As to Speak all that we know, sheweth weaknesse; so to impart nothing of that we know, inferres too much closenesse: to observe a meane in these extremes, choice respect is to be had with whom we converse. If we finde him apt to conceale, we may more safely and freely deliver our minde; but where suspicion of secrecie ministers argument of distrust, we are to be more cautelous: for it is great folly to engage our thoughts to the secrecie of him whom wee know not. Worthy commendation was Augustus in this respect, who was so choice in the election of a friend, to whom he might communicate his privatest thoughts, as he would employ much time in searching and sifting him, ere he would retaine him. And hence I might take occasion to tax divers, who are too readie to open their bosoms unto all encounter [...]; and yet I must freely confesse, that this credulitie [...]f theirs, meerely proceeds from the goodnesse of then nature: for they imagine (such is their easie simplicitie) that others are as secret, as they open. Such is the affabilitie of unexperienced Youth, as they cannot reserve the secret'st of their thoughts, but must discover them upon the first view to their first acquaintance: whence Plautus, Benignitas ejus ut adolescentuli est; wherein he seemes to instance Youth, as a patterne of ingenuous affabilitie, no lesse readie to utter his thoughts, then his subtill applauder is to heare them. Much more fruit should hee reape by observing that divine precept of Ecclesiasticus: Thou that art young Speake, if need be, and yet scarcely when thou art twice asked. Eccles. 22.8, 9. Comprehend much in few words; in many be as one that is ignorant: be as one that understandeth, and yet hold thy tongue. Wherein he proposeth an exact rule to be observed by Youth, even in circumstance, as well as substance of [Page 15] Speech. Now it may be expected, that I should propose a forme for words, as I have proposed a rule for discourse; but my reply to him, who expects this, shall be the same which Demosthenes made to Aeschynes the Orator; who having found fault with Demosthenes, questioning him of certaine words which he had pronounced, something rare and strange, was in this sort answered by him; That the fortunes of Greece depended not upon them. Only thus much I will adde, to reclaime him, who more curiously then pertinently, insisteth rather on Words than Substance: that as there is no man but would esteeme him for an indiscreet builder, who preferreth the care of his frontispice before the maine foundation, or such an one for a foolish Painter, who bestoweth more art upon the varnish than the picture: so whosoever intendeth his care rather to finde out words than matter, may be holden for a verball Rhetorician, but no serious Orator. To be short, if you will have my opinion touching the use of words: I esteeme such to be most elegant, which are least affected; for there [...] proprietie of Speech which best becomes us; being adorned with such ornaments, as grace our discourse better than adulterate art, which many times bestowes so much time upon beautifying her selfe, as shee forgets whom shee should serve.
WEE are now to descend briefly to the last,HABIT. though not least vanitie incident to Youth; and it is Habit or Attire. Wherein I have not a little wondered, falling now and then into more serious meditation with my selfe, how any man, having reflex, by the eye of his Soule, to his first fall, should glory in these roabs or rags of shame, being purposely invented to cover his sinne. Sinne indeed; for had not man sinned, his shame had never beene discovered. Poore [Page 16] Fig-leaves were then the onely shelter, to shroud from shame this miserable sinner. Then was Adam his owne Taylour, and stood not much on fashion, so his nakednesse might finde a cover. Come then and heare mee, thou perfumed Gallant, whose sense chiefly consists in sent; and observe how much thou derogat'st from thy owne worth, in covering a shell of corruption with such bravery. All gorgeous Attire is the attire of sinne; it declines from the use for which it was ordained, to wit, Necessitie, and dilates it selfe purposely to accomplish the desire of vanitie. Forraine Nations, on whose flowrie borders the glorious Sun-shine of the Gospell hath not as yet shined, though for their Silkes and Sables, none more plenteous or precious, yet with what indifferencie doe they use these riches? It may be you will object, that Art hath not as yet showne her cunning amongst them; so as their neglect of fashion meerely proceedeth from want of skilfull Artists, to introduce the forme or fashion of other Countries (by meanes of civill government, more curious and exquisite) to their people. But I shall [...]ov [...] and that by impregnable arguments, how this contempt of pride is naturally planted in them; yea, with what scorne and derision they looke upon other Countries, usually affected to this delicacie and effeminacie in apparell. Such as have travelled, and upon exact survey of the Natures of forraine Countries, have brought the rich fraught of knowledge stored with choicest observations to their native home, have confirmed this: for they have found such contempt in other Nations, touching these fruitlesse vanities, wherein we idolatrize our owne formes, as it strucke admiration in them, as their Records, to this day extant, doe apparantly witnesse. To instance some whereof, as the Russian, Muscovian, Ionian, yea even the barbarous Indian, it may appeare with what reservancie they continue [Page 17] their ancient Habit; loth, it seemes, to introduce any new custome, or to lose their antiquitie for any vainglorious or affected Noveltie: with a joynt uniformitie (as it seemes) resolved, Tam in cultu Numinis, quàm apparatu corporis, moribus legibus (que) uti praesentibus, etiamsi deteriores sint. But leaving them, because we will a while insist upon prophane authorities; let us reflect our dim eyes, bleered with the thicke scales of vanitie, to those Divine Sages, whose excellent instructions no lesse imitable than admirable, merit our approbation and observation.In vit. Solon. It is reported by Laertius, that on a time Croesus, having adorned and beautified himselfe with the most exquisite ornaments of all kindes, that either Art, or cost could devise; and sitting on a high Throne, to give more grace or lustre to his person, demanded of Solon if he ever saw a sight more beautifull? Yes (quoth he) House-cockes, Phesants, and Peacocks; for they are clothed with a naturall splendour or beautie bestowed on them by Nature, without any borrowed elegancie. The like contempt appeared in Eut [...]apelus, who valued the internall beautie of his mind, more than the adulterate varnish of Art. Besides, hee was of this opinion, that hee could not doe his foe a greater injury, than bestow on him the preciousest garments he had, to make him forgetfull of himselfe and his owne frailtie; whose nature the Poet excellently describeth thus:
Amongst many profitable Laws enacted by Numa, the Law Vt in exequiis epu [...]s (que) celebrandis n [...]mioque apparatu corporis, omnis inutilis sumptus prohibeatur. Sumptuaria conferred no small benefit upon the State publique. For by that Law was prohibited, not only all profuse charge in Funerall expences, but likewise the excessiue use of Apparell, whereby the Roman [Page 18] state grew in short time to great wealth, labouring to suppresse those vices, which usually effeminate men the most, to wit, delicacie in fare, and sumptuousnesse in attire. Now there be many, I know, who invent fashions meerely to cover their deformities, as Iulius Caesar wore a garland of Laurell to cover his baldnesse withall; and these seeme excusable, but they are not: for did not he who made thee, bestow this forme on thee? Could not he have stamped thee to the most exquisite or absolute feature, if it had so pleased thy Creator? And wilt thou now controule thy Maker, and by art supply the defects of Nature? Beware of this evill: I can prescribe thee a better and safer course, how to rectifie these deformities. Hast thou a crooked bodie? repaire it with an upright soule. Art thou outwardly deformed? with spirituall gra [...] be thou inwardly beautified. Art thou blinde, or lame, or otherwise maimed? be not there with dejected, for the Bl [...]nd and Lame were invited. It is not the outward proportion, but the inward disposition; not the feature of the face, but the power of grace which worketh to salva [...]on. Alcibiades, Plutarch. in vit. Alcibiad. Socrates scholer, was the best favoured Boy in Athens; yet, (to use the Philosophers words) looke but inwardly into his bodie, you will finde nothing more odious. So as, one compared them aptly (these faire ones I meane) to faire and beautifull Sepulchres; Exterius nitida, interius faetida; outwardly hansome, inwardly noysome.Socrates. Notable was that observation of a learned Philosopher, who professing himselfe a Schoole-master, to instruct Youth in the principles and grounds of Philosophie, used to hang a Looking-glasse in the Schoole where he taught; wherein he shewed to every scholer he had, his distinct feature or physnomy: which he thus applied. If any one were of a beautifull or amiable countenance, hee exhorted him to answer the beautie and comlinesse of his face, with the beautie [Page 19] of a well-disposed or tempered minde; if otherwise he were deformed, or ill featured; he wished him so to adorne and beautifie his minde, that the excellencie of the one, might supply the defects or deformities of the other. But thou objectest; How should I expresse my descent, my place; or how seeme worthy the company of eminent persons, with whom I consort, if I should sleight or disvalue this general-affected vanity Fashion? I will tell thee: thou canst not more generously, I will not say generally, expresse thy greatnes of descent, place, or qualitie, nor seeme better worthy the company with whom thou consortest or frequentest, than by erecting the glorious beames of thy minde, aboue these inferiour things. For who are these with whom thou consortest? meere triflers away of time, bastard slips, degenerate impes, consumers of their patrimonie, and in the end, (for what other end save misery may attend them) Haires to shame and infamie. These (I say) who offer their Morning-prayers to the Glasse, eying themselves [...] till Narcissus-like they fall in love with their owne shadowes.Mihi mirabile fit quòd non enecentur, cum tantum onus bajulent. Clem. Alex. 2. Paedag. O England, what a height of pride art thou growne to? yea, how much art thou growne unlike thy selfe? when, disvaluing thy owne forme, thou deformest thy selfe by borrowing a plume of everie Countrey, to display thy pie-coloured flag of vanitie. What painting, purfling, powdring and pargeting doe you use, (yee Idolls of vanitie) to lure and allure men to breake their first faith, forsake their first love, and yeeld to your immodestie? How can you weepe for your sinnes,Hieron. ad Fur. de vid. Serm. Tom. 1. (saith Saint Hierome) when your teares will make furrowes in your face? With what confidence do you lift up that countenance to heaven, which your Maker acknowledges not?Aug. de Christ. fide. Doe not say that you have modest mindes, when you have immodest eyes. Death hath entred in at your windowes; your eyes are those cranies, those hatefull portells, those fatall entrances, [Page 20] which (Tarpeia-like) by betraying the glorious fortresse or cittadell of your soules, have given easie way to your mortall enemie. Vtinam miserrimus ego &c. Tertull. de hab. Mul. cap. 7. I would I poore wretch (saith Tertullian) might see in that day of Christian exaltation, An cum cerussa, & purpurisso & croco, & cum illo ambitu capitis resurgatis: No, you stanes to modestie, such a Picture shall not rise in glory before her Maker. There is no place for you;1 Tim. 2.9, 10. but for such women as array themselves in comely apparell, with shamefastnesse and modestie, not with broided haire, or gold, or pearles, or costly apparell. But, as becommeth women that professe the feare of God. For even after this manner in time past did the holy women, 1 Pet. 3.5. which trusted in God, tire themselves. Reade, I say, reade yee proud ones, yee which are so haughtie, and walke with stretched-out neckes, the Prophet Isaiah, and you shall find your selves described, and the judgement of Desolation pronounced upon you. Beca [...]se the Daughters of Zion are haughtie, and walk with stre [...] ched-out neckes, and with wandring eyes, walking [...] minsing as they goe, and making a tinckling with the [...] feet; therfore shall the Lord make the heads of the daughters of Zion bald, and the Lord shall discover their secret parts. And he proceeds: In that day shall the Lord take away the ornament of the slippers, and the calles, and the round tyres. The sweet balles, and the bracelets, and the bonnets. The tyres of the head, and the sloppes, and the head-bands, and the tablets, and the eare-rings. The rings and the mufflers. The costly apparell and the g [...]ailes, and the wimples, and the crisping-pins. And the glasses, and the fine linnen, and the hoods and the launes. Now heare your reward: And in stead of sweet savour, there shall be stinke, and in stead of a girdle, a rent, and in stead of dressing of the haire, baldnesse, and in stead of a stomacher, a girding of sack-cloth, and burning in stead of beautie. Now attend your finall destruction: Thy men shall fall [Page 21] by the sword, and thy strength in the battell. Then shall her gates mourne and lament, and shee being desolate shall sit upon the ground. See how you are described, and how you shall be rewarded. Enjoy then sin for a season, and delight your selves in the vanities of Youth: be your eyes the Lures of Lust, your eares the open receits of shame, your hands the polluted instruments of sinne: to be short, be your Soules, which should be the Temples of the Holy Ghost, cages of uncleane birds; after all these things, what the Prophet hath threatned shal come upon you, and what shall then deliver you? not your Beautie ▪ for to use that divine Distich of Innocentius,
Nor Honour; for that shall lye in the dust, and sleepe in the bed of earth. Nor Riches; for they shall not deliver in the day of wrath. Perchance they may bring you, when you are dead, in a comely funerall sort to your graves, or bestow on you a few mourning garments or erect in your memory some gorgeous Monument, to shew your vain-glory in death, as well as life; but this is all: Those Riches which you got with such care, kept with such feare, lost with such griefe, shall not afford you one comfortable hope in the houre of your passage hence; afflict they may, releeve they cannot. Nor Friends; for all they can doe, is to attend you, and shed some friendly teares for you; but ere the Rosemary lose her colour, which stickt the Coarse, or one worme enter the shroud, which covered the Corpse, you are many times forgotten, your former glory extinguished, your eminent esteeme obscured, your repute darkened, and with infamous aspersions often impeached. If a man (saith Seneca) finde his friend sad, and so leave him, sicke without ministring any comfort to him, and poore without releeving him; we may thinke such an one goeth to jest, [Page 22] rather than visit or comfort: and such miserable comforters are these friends of yours. What then may deliver you in such gusts of affliction which assaile you? Conscience; shee it is that must either comfort you, or how miserable is your condition? Shee is that continuall feast which must refresh you; those thousand witnesses that must answer for you; that light which must direct you; that familiar friend that must ever attend you; that faithfull counsellour that must advise you; that Balme of Gilead, that must renew you; that Palme of peace, which must crowne you. Take heed therefore you wrong not this friend, for as you use her, you shall finde her. She is not to be corrupted, her sinceritie scornes it;—Prima est haec ul [...]io, quod se Iudice, ne [...]o nocens absolvitur. Iuv. Sat. 13. Shee is not to be perswaded, for her resolution is grounded; She is not to be threatned, for her spirit sleights it. She is aptly compared in one respect to the Sea; shee can endure no corruption to remaine in her, but foames, and frets, and chafes, till all filth be removed from her. By Ebbing and flowing [...]s shee purged, nor is she at rest till shee be rinsed. [...] ab agro ad civitatem, August. in enar. sup. 45. Psal. à publico ad domum, à domo in cubiculum, &c. Discontentedly shee flies from the Field to the Citie, from publike resort to her private house, from her house to her chamber; She can rest in no place; Furie dogs her behinde, and Despaire goes before. For Conscience being the inseparable glory or confusion of every one, Bernard. de interdomo. cap. 1. according to the qualitie, disposition or dispensation of that Talent which is given him, for to whom much is given, much shall be required: We are to make such fruitfull use of our Talent that the Conscience wee professe may remaine undefiled, the faith wee have plighted may be inviolably preserved, the measure or Omer of grace we have received, may be increased, and God in all glorified. Which, the better to effect, wee are to thinke how God is ever present in all our actions; and that (to use the words of Augustine) Whatsoever [Page 23] we doe, or addresse our selves to doe, it is before him that we doe, yea whatsoever it be that wee doe, hee better knowes it than we are selves doe. An [...] Sol [...]loq. cap. 14 Sen. [...] Lucil. It was Seneca's counsell to his friend Lucilius, that whensoever he went about to doe any thing, he should imagine Cato, or Scipio, or some other worthy Roman to be in presence. In imitation of so divine a Morall, let us in every action fix our eye upon our Maker, Whose eyes are upon the children of men; so shall we in respect of his sacred presence, to which we owe all devout reverence, Abstaine from evill, Tuscul. quaest. lib. 1. doe good, seeke peace and ensue it. Such as defil'd themselves with sinne, by giving themselves over unto pleasure, staining the Nobilitie and splendour of their Soules through wallowing in vice; or otherwise fraudulently, by usurpation or base insinuation, creeping into Soveraigntie, or unjustly governing the Common-weale; such thought Socrates, that they went a by-path separated from the counsell of the [...]ds: but such, as while they lived in their bodies, [...]nitated the life of the gods, such hee thought had an [...]sie returne to the place from whence they first came. If the Pagan had such a divine conceit of those, whose approved life represented a certaine similitude or resemblance of God, as he imagined, no glory could be wanting to them, in regard of their integritie: let us embrace the like opinion, and expresse such apparent demonstrations of sanctitie, that as we exceed the Pagan in regard of that precious light wee enjoy, so wee may exceed him in the conversation of the life we lead. But how should these painted Sepulchres, whose adulterate shape tastes of the shop, glorying in a borrowed beautie, ever meditate of these things? How should their care extend to heaven, whose Basiliske eyes are only fixed on the vanities of earth? How should that painted blush (that Iewish confection) blush for her sin, whose impudent face hath out-faced shame? Two [Page 24] Loves (saith that learned Bishop of Hippo) make two Cities. Hierusalem is made by the love of God, but Babylon by the love of the world. Aug. sup Ps [...] 64. And these are they, who engaged to worldly love, have forsaken their true love; they have divided their hearts, and estranged their affections from that Supreme or Soveraigne good. O then (Young men) come not neere the gates of this strange woman, Prov. 5.5. whose feet goe downe to death, and whose steps take hold on hell. This is the woman with an Harlots behaviour, and subtill in heart. This is shee, who hath deckt her bed with ornaments, Prov. 7. carpets and laces of Aegypt: and perfuming her Bed with Myrrhe, Aloes and Cynamon. Take heed thou sing not Lysimachus song; [...]. Archi [...]. Ta [...]ent. The pleasure of fornication is short, but the punishment of the fornicator eternall. But of this Subject wee are more amply to treat hereafter; onely my exhortation is to Youth, whose illimited desires tend ever to his ruine, that if at any time it be your fortune to encounter with these infectious ulcers, these sin-soothing, and soule-soiling Lepers; and they like that whorish woman in the Proverbs, invite you to their lothed daliance, saying. Come, Prov. 7.18. let us take our fill of love untill the morning: Come, let us take our pleasure in daliance: that you shake off these vipers at the first assault, and prevent the occasion when it first offers it selfe. For know, that which a devout and learned Father saith concerning the dangerous Habit of sinne,Aug. Ser. 44. is most true: Prima est quasi titillatio delectationis incorde, secunda consensio, tertium factum, quarta consuetudo. Sinne begins with an itch, but ends with a skar. The first degree begins with delight, the second with consent, the third with act, and the fourth with custome. Thus Sinne by degrees in men of all degrees, like a broad-spreading tetter, runnes over the whole beautie of a precious soule, exposing the fruits of the spirit to be corrupted by the suggestion of the flesh. But too farre (I feare mee) have I digressed [Page 25] from this last branch, whereof I was to discourse, to wit, of Habit, or Attire: albeit I haue enlarged my selfe in nothing which may seeme altogether impertinent to our present purpose. For discoursing of the vanitie of women (whose phantasticke Habits are daily Theames in publike Theatres) I imagined it a necessary point to insist upon: partly to disswade those Sheepainters of this flourishing Iland from so base and prostitute practice. Base, for Festus Pompeius saith, that common and base whores, called Schaenicolae, used dawbing of themselves, though with the vilest stuffe. Partly to bring a loathing of them in the conceit of all young Gentlemen, whose best promising parts use often to be corrupted by their inchantments.Nazian. contra [...]uli res immudice comptas. [...] &c. there is one flower to be loved of women, a good red, which is shamefastnesse. Saint Hierom to Marcella saith, that those women are matter of scandall to Christian eyes,Hieron. de exitu Lea. Quae purpurisso & quibusdam fucis ora oculos [...] depingunt. I might here likewise justly tax such effeminate Youths, whose womanish disposition hath begot in them a love to this hatefull profession; but I will onely use Diogenes speech,Lacrt. lib. 6. which hee made to one that had anointed his haires: Cave ne capitis suaveolentia vitae maleolentiam adducat. Or that saying he used to a Youth too curiously and effeminatly drest: If thou goest to men, all this is but in vaine; if unto women, it is wicked. So as, being asked a question of a Young man, Lacrt. ibid. very neatly and finely apparelled, he said, hee would not answer him till he put off his apparell to see whether he were a man or woman. There is another Objection, which I imagine Youth will alledge, to prove how expedient it is for him to be choice or curious in respect of apparell. It gaines him more acceptance and esteeme with men of eminent place. But harken how the Apostle opposeth himselfe to this; reproving such whose judgement consists in the eye rather than in the braine, [Page 26] proceeding thus: If there come into your company a man with a gold-ring, and in goodly apparell, and there come in also a poore man in vile raiment, Iames 2 [...] ▪ and yee have a respect to him that weareth the gay cloathing, and say unto him, Sit thou here in a goodly place; 3. and say unto the poore, Stand thou there, 4. or sit here under my foot-stoole: Are yee not partiall in your selves, and are become judges of evill thoughts? So as, howsoever these diffident worldlings, Annulo magis credunt quam animo;Seneca. It is not the Habit, but the heart which God accepts: yet most acceptable is that Habit which is not so sumptuous as seemely, not so costly as comely. True indeed it is, that the popular eye, which cannot distinguish of the inward beautie, but observeth rather what wee weare, than what wee are, admires nothing more than the outward Habit; as we may reade how much Herod, Act. 12.21, 22. being arrayed in royall apparell, was applauded by the people, who gave a shout, [...]. saying, The voice of God, and not of man. But that All-seeing and All-searching eare of the Divine Majestie seeth not as man seeth. He prefers L [...]zarus rags before Dives roabes. Though the one be clothed in purple and fine linnen, and the other seeme despicable in the eye of the world, in respect of his Nakednesse; yet,Aug. mortua necessitate, peribunt opera necessitatis: the one is translated to glory boundlesse, the other to misery endlesse: for this sorrow which he here felt, ended when he did end; but the joy which he obtained, exceeded all end. Thus farre have I laboured to answer all such objections as might be proposed in defence of this generall-approved vanitie, concluding; Quod peccata Sericea teterrima sunt vitia; No sinnes like to Silken sinnes, for they ever crave impunitie, the foster-mother of all impietie. I intend yet to proceed in decyphering the lightnesse of Youth, Three violent passions incident to Youth. by expressing three grand Maladies incident to Youth; whereof I purpose to dilate particularly, to move the Young man [Page 27] to be more cautelous of his wayes, in the mazie Labyrinth of this life. These three (for all the rest may be reduced to them) are comprehended under Lust, Ambition, Revenge: of which briefly, according to our former Method, we purpose here to intreat.
SO exposed is Youth to sense, LVST. and so much estranged from the government of reason; as it prosecutes with eagernesse whatsoever is once entertained with affection. This might appeare in the ruines of Troy, occasioned by the unlawfull love of Paris; where the violent intrusion and usurpation of anothers Bed, brought an irreparable fall to the Trojans. Some have given two reasons,Two reasons why Youth is [...]aturally subject to this ill [...] mited passion. why Youth is more subject to this illimited passion, than any other age. The first is, that naturall heat or vigour, which is most predominant in Youth, provoking him to attempt the greatest of difficulties, rather than suffer the repulse where hee affects. The second is, want of Employment: which begets this distemperature; whence the Poet:
This want of employment was it, which moved Aegistus to shew himselfe more familiar with Clytemnestra, than stood well with his honour; for had he ranked himselfe with those valiant Greekes, whose resolute adventures gain'd them generall esteeme, he had prevented occasion, and purchased himselfe equall renowne by his valour, as by vaiue expence of time he incurred dishonour. Wittie and proper was that elegant invention of Lucian, who faining Cupid to invite the gods to an amorous feast, prevailed with all of them to give way to Love, till he came to Pallas; but she was found conversing with the Muses, and would admit of no time to enter parly with Cupid. True it is, that exercise [Page 28] draweth the mind from effeminacie, as remisnes [...]e feeds the desire, and addes fuell to unlawfull heat. And no lesse occasion gives wanton discourse, or Lascivious Bookes to the enraged affections of distempered Youth: so as, much more blessed were the State, if restraint were made of composing or publishing such Subjects, where every leafe instructs Youth in a new lesson of folly. Alcaeus, a man of good reputation and generall observance in the Common-wealth; what toyes wrote he of the love of young men? All the writings of Anacreon, are only of love. But most of all other, Rheginus even burned with love, as appeareth by his writings. Yea even Philosophers (and that by the counsell and authoritie of Plato, whom therefore Dicearchus did worthily reprehend) became the commenders and honourers of love. Such Discourses should be throwne to the darkest corner of our studies, as that of Ovids was by Augustus, which tend to corrupt Youth, and divert his minde from the exercise of vertue. But alas; to what height of licentious libertie are these corrupter times growne? When that Sex, where Modesty should claime a native prerogative, gives way to foments of exposed loosenesse; by not only attending to the wanton discourse of immodest Lovers, but carrying about them (even in their naked Bosomes, where chastest desires should only lodge) the amorous toyes of Venus and Adonis: which Poem, with others of like nature, they heare with such attention, peruse with such devotion, and retaine with such delectation, as no Subject can equally relish their unseasoned palate, like those lighter discourses. Yea (which hath struck me to more admiration) I have knowne divers, whose unriper yeers halfe assured me, that their greene Youth had never instructed them in the knowledge, nor brought them to conceit of such vanities, excellently well read in those immodest Measures; yea, and prompt enough to shew [Page 29] proofes of their reading in publike places. I will not insist upon them, but leave them, to have their names registred amongst those infamous Ladies; Semphronia, Scribonia, Clitemnestra, Cleopatra, Faustina, Messalina, whose memories purchased by odious Lust, shall survive the course of time; as the memory of those famous Matrons, Octavia, Porcia, Caecilia, Cornelia, shall transcend the period of time. To expresse what especiall motives tend most to increase of this passion, I thinke it not amisse: because I hold it necessarie to propose the cause, before we come to cure the effect. For I thinke, according to the opinion of Socrates, that then my instructions have brought forth good fruit, when by them any one shall be provoked to apply his disposition to the knowledge and practice of vertue.An especiall motive tending to the increase of this Passion. Venus in vinis. Which, the better to effect, you shall know, that there is no one Motive more generally moving, or enforcing to an eager pursuit of our immoderate affections, than curious or luscious fare, delicious liquors, which might appeare (if we should have recourse to History) in those prodigall feastings of Anton. and Cleopatra: Nunquam e [...]o ebr [...]um pu [...]bo cas [...]um. Hi [...]ron. where no cost was spared to give more free course to lascivious desires. To prevent this, (as may be probably gathered) Greece in her flourishing estate, restrained women both publique and private accesse to Banquets: and kinsmen kissed their kinswomen, to know whether they drunke wine, Plato. or no, and if they had, to be punished by death,Plutarch. or banished into some Iland. Plutarch saith, that if the Matrons had any necessitie to drinke wine, either because they were sick or weake, the Senate was to give them licence; and not then in Rome neither, but out of the Citie.Macrob. Macrobius saith, that there were two Senators in Rome chiding, and the one called the others wife an Adulieresse; and the other his wife a Drunkard; and it was judged that to be a Drunkard was more infamie. Here we may collect what strictnesse, [Page 30] even the Heathen used, to observe a morall course, and to represse such inordinate motions, as most commonly invade the eminent'st States, when long peace hath rockt her people asleepe, snorting in the downebed of securitie. Sure I am, as there is nothing which brings either publike or private State to a remisnesse of government sooner than peace or plentie; so nothing effatuates the understanding of man more, than excesse in meat or drinke, subjecting the intellective part to the bondage of Sence. For what may be the discourse of Epicurists, but lascivious, begot on excesse of fare curious and luscious? These are dilating ever on the rape of Ganimedes, Lais in Euripides. Beautie is their object, and Vanitie their subject. White teeth, rolling eyes, a beautifull complexion (an exteriour good) being that which Euryala praised, when shee washed the feet of Vlysses, namely, Gentle speech, and tender flesh. Thus are their tongues tipt with vanitie, their desires ayming at sensualitie, and their delights engaged to fleshly libertie. Amongst the Romans, Venus or Cous was the best chance at dice: And no chance, (till some heavie mischance over-take them) more happie in their opinion, than to receive a loving smile or cheerefull aspect from their terrestriall Venus. Some Countries I haue read of, whose naturall basenesse, being given to all avarice, induced them to dis-esteeme all respects in this kinde, and to make merchandize of their womens honour. Such are the women of Sio reported to be, who are reputed for the most beautifull Dames of all the Greekes in the world, and greatly given to Venery. Their Husbands are their Pandors, and when they see any stranger arrive, they will presently demand if hee would have a mistresse: and so they make whores of their owne wives, and are contented for a little gaine to weare hornes: such are the base minds of ignominious Cuckolds. Here is a dangerous Ile for our amorous [Page 31] Gallant, who makes his Travell (with griefe I speake it) too oft the ruine of himselfe and his estate. Happie are those (but too few are those) who with wise Ithacus stop their eares to these Soule-tainting and Sintempting Syrens. Yet some there are, and some there have beene ever (I perswade mee) whose noble conquests over themselves and their owne desires, have seconded, if not surpassed those many conquests which they atchieved in foraine Nations. As the admirable continencie of Alexander the Great,Q. Curt. lib. 3. in sparing Darius wife and his three daughters. The continencie of Scipio during the space of foure and twentie yeeres, wherein his prosperous exploits could purchase him no more glory, than in the besieging and taking of a Citie in Spaine, he gained him renowne, by repressing his flame of Lust, when a beautifull Maid was brought him: restoring her with a great reward to Allancius, a Celtiberian Lord, to whom she was espoused. No lesse worthy was that part of Marius, who having Sylla's wife and sisters in his power, sent them nobly, unattempted. An example of like continencie might be instanced in Solyman the Magnificent, towards the faire Irene. Greeke; whom, albeit he entirely loved, yet to shew unto his Peeres, a princely command of himselfe and his affections; as he had incensed them before by loving her, so he regained their love by sleighting her; whence the Poet:
Many such instances, ancient and moderne Histories afford, but I must not insist on each particular, lest I should enlarge my selfe too much in this Branch. My [Page 32] exhortation shall be to such, whose unmellow yeeres crave instruction, that they would betake themselves to employment: for Idlenesse maketh of men, women, of women, beasts, of beasts, monsters. And amongst employments, ever mix such Readings as may minister matter, either Divine, or Morall, to allay the heat of this distempered passion. We reade of the Roman Stilpho, that albeit he was naturally addicted to all incontinencie, yet by reading certaine precepts of Morall Philosophie,What rare effect the precepts of Morall Ph [...]losophie wrought in Heathen men. he became an absolute commander of his owne affections. Hate to consent to that, which so transformes man, as hee wholly loseth the true title of man, and becommeth meerely bestiall. Nos qui accepimus rationis lucem communem cum Angelis, non transiamus vitam in silentio cum pecoribus. Thou art beautified with an Angelicall feature; let it not participate of any inferiour creature. To be short, art thou a Gentleman? beare that posture still: staine not a native glory with an infamous blemish. [...]tiam seris ac B [...]b [...] [...]. Ambr [...]s lib. 1. d [...] [...]rah [...]m. This vice of all others, derogates most from Honour: for we commonly say, Such whose lightnesse incurres scandall, to have lost their Honour. O let not the Honour of a generous minde suffer eclypse, for a minutes pleasure! Lais asking of Demosthenes so much for one Nights-lodging, he presently replyed:Vid. A [...]l. Gell. i [...] N [...]ct. Att [...]s. I will not buy repentance at so deare a rate. Dearer is the rate of shame, than of Come. Prize Honour at that estimate, as the height of pleasure may never have power to surprise it. Canna, wife to Synattus, whom one Synoris, of greater authoritie than Synattus, loved: making no small meanes to obtaine her love, yet all in vaine; supposed the readiest way for effecting his desire to be the death of her Husband, which hee performed. This done, he renewed his suit, to which shee seemingly consented. But being solemnly come into the Temple of Diana for celebrating the Nuptials, shee had a sweet potion ready, which shee drunke to [Page 33] Synoris, wherewith they both were poisoned, to revenge her Husbands death. Here is a Pagan patterne of inimitable continencie; who rather than shee would consent to contract Mariage with her Husbands foe, disvalued all future hope of preferment, yea embraced Death, as a happie Agent of her intended revenge. The wise (saith that sententious Philosopher) may gather gold out of dung;Seneca. which may be thus applyed. The wise Christian, may cull excellent flowers from an Ethnicke garden: for the Envious man he is the Spider, which sucks poison from the fragrant'st and freshest Flowers. I will conclude this point, and intreat the generous affected, whose glory should be Vertues Bootie, and whose best beauty to be enriched by her bounty; to make Vertue their Prize, being so praise-worthy of her selfe, as shee needs no outward praise. To purchase which incomparable blessing, I could wish, Gentlemen, that your resort to eminent places be more spare, till you finde in your selves an aptnesse to resist, if any vnchaste motion make assault. Yet good it were not to presume, upon one single triall: for the disposition may be more temperate at one time than another; and the assault also more perillous.—Rara est concordia forma, A [...] (que) pudicitiae. Iuven. Sat. 10. To court Beautie is an enterprize of danger: for some I have knowne, who upon their accesse to Beautie, have beene free-men, who upon their returne, became slaves. But you will object; to vanquish where there is no assault made, is a weake conquest; True, but to play with the candle till we suffer our wings to be cing'd, is a greater folly. I would not hazard my honour upon those termes, as by affronting temptation, to be caught. To conclude this Branch, as the substance of the Soule is pure, so this masse of flesh is corrupt: staine not the puritie of the former, by conversing with the latter: for to parley with so subtill an enemy, is to give way to his policy. Observing these, you shall goe to your graves with Honour; not to the [Page 34] graves of Lust, the Sepulchres of shame, and receptacles of corrupted love. We will now descend to the second Maladie incident to Youth;Numb. 11.34. that Eagle-soaring passion, Ambition.
AMBITIONTHose who are affected to this, vse to say with Tiridates in Tacitus: Sua retinere, privatae domus, de alienis cer [...]are regia laus est. These can never confine themselves to their owne, raising their hopes above possibilitie: but are building airie castles, of purpose to confront greatnesse. We shall never heare them talke of any subject save soveraigntie or dominion. One termed an Empire, a monstrous and untamed beast; and so may this Passion be well defined:Nullus enim magnisc [...]eris labor— I [...] en. Sal. 14. whose aime is onely to purchase glory, albeit her aymes be planted on indirectest termes. We reade how Pa [...]sanias killed Philip of Macedon only for fame or vain-glory: so did Herostratus burne the Temple of Diana at Ephesus, with this resolution: because he could not by any act of renowne eternize his memory, he would gaine him fame, though by an act of infamie. How violent these Ambitious heads are, and have beene ever, there is scarce any State which hath not felt: where civill wars have menaced no lesse danger to the State, than forraine powers; private factions, than open hostilitie. In some likewise, so deepe impression hath Ambition wrought, as the Envie which they conceive at others greatnesse, deprives them of all rest: This appeared in Themistocl [...]es, who walked in the Night-time in the open street, because he could not sleepe: The cause whereof, when some men did enquire, he answered, that the triumph of Miltiades would not suffer him to take his rest.Tusc. l. Quaest. lib. q [...]art. The like height of Ambition shewed Alexander, weeping bitterly to see his father win so fast before him, fearing nothing should remaine for him to conquer. Now, how [Page 35] naturally Youth is affected to this illimited motion, may be observed even in usuall games; where Youth, rather than hee will endure the foile, exposeth himselfe to all encounters. It is glory which he aimes at, and before he lose it, he will hazard himselfe for it. His Prize is his praise: he values nothing more than to get him a name, which may brute his renowne, and gaine him respect with his Dearest. His disquiet, (for what is Ambition, but a Distraction of the mind?) as to affect that best, which doth afflict him most. Augustus had broken sleepes, and used to send for some to passe the Night away, in telling tales, or holding him with talke. See the misery of Ambitious spirits, whose ends are without end, limiting their desires to no other period then sole soveraigntie. Their ayrie thoughts (like Icarus wings) are ever mounting, till the Sunne, which they threatned,—tolluntur in altum, Vt lapsu gr [...]vi [...] reruam— dissolve them. Inferiour taskes they as much sleight, as Eagles doe Flies: they love not to stoope to basenesse, when many times lowest fortunes entertaine them with no lesse discontent, than despaire can force them to. And in their lowest ebbe, when Hope forsakes them, and their neerest (like Tiberius friends) shrinke from them, and no comfort remaines, save expectance and sufferance of all extremities; you shall heare them upbraid Prince or State; relating (with much vain-glory) what dangers they have undergone for them. Instance whereof, even in these latter times, might be produced; as in that Ambitious French-man, the brave Byron, who seeing no way but one, burst out into these violent extremes: I have received three and thirtie wounds of my body, to preserve it for him, and for my reward, he takes my head from my shoulders: He now quencheth the torch in my bloud after hee hath used it. This is the condition of high spirits, whose aimes were transcendent, to close up their Tragicall scene with a vain-glorious boast of what they have done: little considering, [Page 36] how their Countrie might lawfully exact and expect as much as was in them to performe, a [...] they still debtours to her, because they had their being from her. Yet see (though sometimes they stand upon termes of resolution, desiring to die standing;) when the sentence of death is pronounced, and all future hope extinguished, they will be (as that great French-man was) Supple as a glove: presenting their heads [...]s willingly to the sword, as Agis did his unto the halter. It is strange to note, how these men walke in clouds, imagining themselves most secure, when imminencie of perill assures them nothing lesse. The reason whereof may seeme to be this; they flatter themselves in their vanitie, as Pigmalion with his Image, or Narcissus with his Shadow; reposing more confidence in their owne valour; and the aide, which (Themistocles or Pausanias-like) they contract abroad, linking and uniting themselves with forraine powers, than on all the information of friends, or the perswasions of a loyall and uncorrupted heart.Hen. the fourth whose Name deserves to be enrouled among the ancient Worthies. But these (as that Heroick Prince noted) must bow or breake: be their persons never so hopefull, or directions behovefull to the State, they must be curbed, or the State endangered. Their proprietie is ever to swim in troubled waters: nor can they endure to be mated. Though their aimes bee to perpetuate their greatnesse, yet those Beasts, which are bred about the River Hypani [...], Aristot. and live but one day, may oft-times compare with them for continuance: whence the Poet saith excellently, out of his owne observation:
There is nothing which the Ambitiou [...] man hates so much as a corrivall; he hopes to possesse all, and without a sharer. But so indirect are his plots, and so insuccessive their end, as hee findes to his great griefe, that the promise of securitie had no firme foundation to [Page 37] ground on: nor his attempts that issue they expected.
Now Gentlemen, you, whose better parts aime at more glorious ends, so confine your desires to an equall meane, that mounting too high bring you not to an irreparable fall.Chrysost. in 2 Corinth. Wee are borne indeed (as that divine Father saith) to be Eagles, and not Iayes, to fly aloft, and not to seek our food on the ground: but our Eagle eyes are to be fixed on the Sunne of righteousnesse, not on temporall preferments. We are to soare to the Tower from whence commeth our helpe. For it is not lifting up a mans selfe God likes, but lifting up of the spirit in prayer. Here are wings for flying, without feare of falling: for other aymes, they are but as feathers in the aire; they delude us, howsoever they seeme to secure us. But I heare some young Gentleman object, that it is a brave thing to be observed in the eye of the world; to have our persons admired, our selves in publike resorts noted, yea our Names dispersed! indeed I grant;
But such, whose solid vnderstandings haue instructed them in higher studies, as much disvalue popular opinion, or the Corkie conceits of the vulgar, as the Nobilitie scornes to converse with any thing unworthy it selfe. Their greatnesse hath correspondence with goodnesse: for esteeme of the world, as in respect of their owne worth they deserue it, so in contempt of all outward glory they disvalue it.Quantumcun (que) le dejeceris, humilior non eris Christo. Come then (yee nobly affected Gentlemen;) would yee be heires of honour, and highly reputed by the Highest? Resemble the Nature of the Highest: who humbled himselfe in the forme of Man,Hieron. to restore miserable man; vilifying himselfe, to make man like himselfe. It is not, beleeve it, to shine in grace or esteeme of the Court, which can ennoble you: this glory is like glasse, bright but brittle: and Courtiers (saith one) are like Counters;Plutarch. which [Page 38] sometime in account goe for a thousand pound, and presently before the Count bee past, but [...] single pennie. It is more glory to be in the Courts of the Lord, to purchase esteeme with him, whose judgement never erres, and whose countenance never alters. It is reported by Commine, in his French Annals, that Charles, whom he then served, was of this disposition, that he would make assay of the greatest matters, revolving in his mind how he might compasse them: yea perchance (saith he) assayes farre above the strength of man.Semper hia [...], semper tenuem qua v [...]s [...]tur auram reciprecavit Chamaeleon. Et [...] utat faciem vari [...]s sumitque colores, praeter rubrum & candidum. See the picture of an Ambitious spirit, loving ever to be interessed in affaires of greatest difficultie.
Let no such conceits transport you, lest repentance finde you. It is safer chusing the Middle-path, than by walking or tracing vncouth wayes, to stray in your iourney.Alciat. More have fallen by presumption, than distrust of their owne strength. And reason good; for such who dare not relie on themselves, give way to others direction; whereas too much confidence, or selfe-opinionate boldnesse will rather chuse to erre, and consequently to fall, than submit themselves to others judgement.Nil tam metuens, quàm ne dubi [...]a [...]e aliqu [...] de re videretur. Of this opinion seemed Velleius the Epicurean to bee, of whom it is said; that in confidence of himselfe hee was so farre from feare, as hee seemed not to doubt of any thing. A modest or shamefast feare becomes Youth better: which indeed ever attends the best or affablest natures. Such will attempt nothing without advice, nor assay ought without direction: so as their wayes are secured from many perills, which attend on inconsiderate Youth. My conclusion of this point shall be in a word; that neither the rich man is to glory in his riches, the wise man in his wisdome, nor the strong man in his strength: for should man consider the [Page 39] weaknesse and many infirmities whereto he is hourely sub [...]ect hee would finde innumerable things to move him to sorrowing, but few or none to glory in. Againe, if he should reflect to the consideration of his Dissolution, which, that it shall bee, is most certaine, but when it shall be, most vncertaine: he would be forced to stand upon his guard with that continuall feare, as there would be no emptie place left in him for pride.
What confidence is there to be reposed in so weake a foundation; where to remaine ever is impossible, but quickly to remove,Petrarch. de remed. utrius fort. most probable? Then (to use Petrarchs words) be not afraid though the house, the Bodie be shaken, so the Soule, the guest of the Body, fare well: for weakning of the one addeth for most part strength to the other. And so I come to the last passion or perturbation incident to Youth.
REvenge, REVENGE. is an intended resolve arising from a conceived distaste either justly or unjustly grounded. This Revenge is ever violent'st in hot blouds, who stand so much upon termes of reputation, as rather than they will pocket up the least indignitie, they willingly oppose themselves to extremest hazard. Now this unbounded fury may seeme to have a two-fold relation: either as it is proper and personall; or popular and impersonall. Revenge proper or personall, ariseth from a peculiar distaste or offence done or offered to our own person; which indeed hath ever the deepest impression. Which may be instanced in Menelaus and Paris; where the honour of a Nuptiall bed, the Law of Hospitalitie, the professed league of Amitie, were joyntly infringed. Or in Antonie and Octavius; whose intestine hate grew to that height, as Antonies Angell was [Page 40] afraid of Octavius Angell. Which hatred, as it was fed and increased by Fulvia, so was it allayed and temp [...] red by Octavia: Appian. Alexan. though in the end it grew irreconciliable; ending in bloud, as it begun with lust. Revenge popular or impersonall, proceedeth extrinsecally, as from factions in Families, or some ancient grudge hereditarily descending, betwixt House and House, or Nation and Nation. When Annibal was a childe, and at his fathers commandement, he was brought into the place where he made sacrifice; and laying his hand upon the Altar, swore, that so soone as he had any rule in the Common-wealth, he would be a professed enemie to the Romans. Whence may be observed, how the conceit of an injury or offence received, worketh such impression in that State or Kingdome where the injury is offered, as Hate lives, and survives the life of many ages, crying out with those incensed Greekes;
But wee are principally to discourse of the former Branch, to wit, of proper or personall Revenge: wherein wee shall observe sundry Occurrents right worthy our serious consideration. That terme (as I said before) usually called Reputation, Facili redimunt qui sanguine famam. Martial. Epigr. hath brought much generous bloud to effusion: especially amongst such, Qui magis sunt soliciti vani nominis, quàm propriae salutis: Prizing vain-glory above safetie, esteeme of valour above securitie of person. And amongst these, may I truly ranke our Martiall Duellists, —Impium est mortis statum praeripere tempus. who many times upon a Taverne quarrell are brought to shed their dearest bloud, which might have beene employed better in defence of their Countrey, or resistance of proud Infidels. And what is it which moves them to these extremes; but (as they seeme to pretend) their Reputation is engaged, their Opinion in the eye of the world called in question, if they should sit downe with such apparant [Page 41] disgrace? But shall I answer them? The opinion of their valour indeed is brought in question, but by whom? not by men of equall temper, or maturer judgement, who measure their censures, not by the Last of rash opinion, but just consideration. For these cannot imagine how Reputation should be brought in question, by any indiscreet terme uttered over a pot, whereof perchance the Speaker is ignorant, at least what it meant: But of these distempered Roisters, Galeatilepores. Pet. Mart. whose only judgement consists in taking offence, and valour in making a flourish; of these, I have seene One in the folly of my youth, but could not rightly observe till my riper age: whose braving condition (having some young gooselin to worke on) would have made you confident of his valour: instancing what dangerous exploits hee had attempted and atchieved, what single fields hee had pitched, and how bravely he came off: yet on my conscience, the Battell of the Pygmeies might have equall'd his, both for truth and resolution. Yet I have noted such as these, to be the Bellowes which blow the fire of all uncivill quarrells; suggesting to young Gentlemen (whose want of experience makes them too credulous) matter of Revenge: by aggravating each circumstance to enrage [...]heir hot bloud the more. Some others there are of this band, which I have likewise observed: and they are taken for grave Censors or Moderators, if any difference occur amongst Young Gentlemen. And these have beene Men in their time, (at least accounted so) but now their fortunes falling to an ebbe, having drawne out their time in expence above their meanes, they are enforced (and well it were if Misery forced them not to worse) to erect a Sconce, whereto the Roarers make recourse, as to their Rendevou: And hereto also resorts the raw and unseasoned Youth, whose late-fallen patrimonie makes him purchase acquaintance at what rate soever: glorying much to be esteemed one of the fraternity. [Page 42] And he must now keep his Quarter, maintaine his prodigall rout with what his Parcimonious [...]a [...]her long carked for; prepare his Rere-suppers, and all this, to get him a little knowledge in the Art of roaring.The proper [...]. And by this time, you may suppose him to have attained to some degree, so as he can looke bigge, erect his Mouc [...]atoes, stampe and stare, and call the Drawer Rogue, drinke to his Venus in a Venice-glasse, and to moralize her Sex, throwes it over his head and breakes it. But for all this, he hath not fully learned his postures: for upon discourse of valour, he hath discovered his Cowardize; and this gives occasion to one of his Cumrades to triumph ore his weaknesse. Who entring upon termes of Reputation, and finding himselfe wrong'd, he would gladly wipe off all aspersions, and gaine him opinion in the eye of the world: but recalling to mind, the dangers incident to Quarrells, he thinkes it best to repaire to that Grand Moderator (whose long experience hath made his opinion authenticke) to receive satisfaction, whether hee may put up the injury offered him, without touch of disgrace. Now he must be feed for his opinion, (as if he were some grave legall professour:) which done, his reply must tend to the defini [...]tion of a wrong, and what the law of valour holds fo [...] satisfaction in actions of that nature. Againe, (for still he workes on this Young-gallants weaknesse) how the world esteemes his Opponent to be a brave sparke; one, whose spirit cannot be daunted, nor fury appeased with lesse than bloud: drawing him in the end by some Rhetoricall perswasion (as nothing more smooth than the oyly tongue of an insinuating foist) to some base composition, whereof he and his complices are made equall sharers. Now Gentlemen, I could likewise produce certaine wofull occurrents, which have befallen some of your ranke and qualitie, and that within these few yeares, by consorting with such Grand Cutters: who [Page 43] pressing them to offence, could not endure such affronts, but with [...]solution (which ever attends a generous spirit) encountring them, have been utterly overthrowne, either in doing or suffering. But you will aske me, how should this be prevented? Can any Gentleman suffer with patience his Reputation to be brought in question? Can he endure to be challenged in a publike place, and by that meanes incurre the opinion of Coward? Can he put up disgrace without observance, or observing it, not revenge it, when his very Honour (the vitall bloud of a Gentleman) is impeached? Heare me, whosoever he be that frameth these Objections! I am not ignorant how many unjust and immerited aspersions shal be throwne upon men of eminent'st desert, by such, whose tongues are ever steeped in calumnie: But who are these, save such as the glory of Greece (the everliving Homer) displayeth in the contemptuous person of Thersites;Homer. in Odyss. whose character was, More deformed in minde than bodie? Their infamous and serpentine tongues inured to detraction, deserve no other Revenge, (next legall punishment) save avoiding their company, and bruting their basenesse in all Societies, where their names are knowne, to caution others of them.Seneca ad Galion. de remed. fortuit. I am spoken evill of (saith Seneca) but the evill speake it: I should be moved, if M. Cato, if wise Lelius, or the two Scipio's should speak this of me; but it is praise for mee, to have the evill displeased with mee. It is true; for as no imputation can truly be said to staine a pure or undefiled soule, whose inward sinceritie (like a brazen Wall) beats backe all darts of envie or calumnie; so it is not in the power of the evill to detract from the glory of the good: for what then should remaine secure from aspersion of the vicious? But I imagine, you will reply; it is not only the report or scandall of these men of uncurbed tongues, (for so Pindarus termes them) but of such, whose eminent esteeme in the world, gives approbation [Page 44] to what they speake, which awakes my Revenge. If they be as you terme them, Men of eminent esteeme, and that esteeme by merit purchased, (for all other estimation I exclude it:) I need little doubt, but the distaste which you conceive against them, hath proceeded in some part from your selfe; and that upon maturer consideration you should find your owne bosome guiltie to the cause of these aspersions. If otherwise it happen, (as I grant it may) that upon private surmises, or suggestions derived from some factious heads, these men of more eminent note and esteeme have brought your name in question, because (as they were informed) you formerly aspersed a blemish upon their Honour: I would not have you to erre so farre from your owne judgment, as without further discussing the cause, to fall into desperat extremes: for were it not much better for you to sift the cause, how you both are abused, whereby that base suggestour might be duely censured, and your wrongs mutually redressed, than to vow Revenge ere an injury be offered? Yes Sir, beleeve it, much better and safer, and in the opinion of discreet men, wiser: howsoever our hare-brain'd Gallant, whose property is to act before he resolve, esteeme it a derogation to ex [...]postulate on termes of disgrace, but to publish war ere the league be broken. We account him who can beare the most, to be the strongest; yet esteeme we him who can beare injuries most, to be the weakest; so ill disposed is mans temper, as for an opinion of Reputation, hee will incurre apparant errour. Now there is another Revenge, which proceedeth from a nature farre more inglorious than the former. And that is, when for some little distaste conceived against our inferiour, (even in worldly respects) wee labour his undoing: yea many times, because hee stands too resolutely for right, wee threaten his ruine: But true shall we finde it:
Quicquid à vobis minor extimiscet
Major hoc vobis Dominus minatur.
Horat.
And this might appeare in poore Naboth, who because he would not give the Inheritance of his Fathers, his Vine-yard, he must be stoned. But of this Revenge I am not to insist; for this is an evill more properly inherent to our rich oppressours, who grind the face of the poore,1 King. 21.3, 11. and raise them an house to their seldom thriving Heires out of others ruine. Only my wish shall be, that their dwelling may be with Owles and Ostridges in the wildernesse, and not in the flowry borders of this Iland, lest shee be forced to vie sighes for their sinnes. I might now in this Subject of Revenge, inlarge my discourse by speaking of Anger, from whence Revenge may seeme to receive her originall being: which Anger the Poet termes a short fury:
For what differs an angrie man from a mad-man, save onely in this; his violence of passion continues not so long: for the time it is as vehement and as violent. Excellent therefore was that precept of Moderation given and observed by that renowned Emperour Theodosius, drawne (as may appeare in the like example of Augustus) from a former patterne: of whom it is written, that he would never in his anger proceed to Revenge, or so much as shew any argument of distaste, till hee had repeated over the foure and twentie Greeke letters. But to conclude this last Branch, my exhortation to all young Gentlemen shall be,Basil. Homil. de Ira. Greg. Moral. l. 5. cap. 32. whose high spirits cannot endure affronts, that they would labour to expostulate with passion; which if once protracted, will be sooner tempered, meditating also of these divine places of Scripture: which receits are indeed most powerfull and effectuall to allay this Passion. We that are by nature children of wrath, Ephes. 2.3. ought to give place unto wrath. For the [Page 46] wrath of man doth not accomplish the righteousnesse of God. Yea, we ought to imitate God, which if we will doe,Rom. 12.19. Iam. 1.20. we must not continue in wrath, knowing, God will not contend, nor be wroth for ever. Hee is slow to anger. Yea,Is [...]ay 57.16. [...]. 1.2.3. N [...]mb. 14.18. Iam 1 1 [...]. Prov 14 29. 1 Co [...]. 3.5. P [...]o [...]. 22 21. Ec [...]l [...]s. 8 15, 16. Prov. 15.1.18. every man ought to be slow to wrath: For it is wisdome. If we will joyne in the true Lovers knot, we must not be angry, for, true Love is not provoked to anger. And if we will prevent the effect, we are to avoid the occasion; therefore are we taught to have no familiaritie, neither strive with an angrie man. Would wee appease anger? we must doe it by meeknesse. Lastly, may we be angrie?Ephes. 4.26 27. Yes, but how? Be angrie, but sinne not. Let not the Sunne goe downe upon your wrath. Neither give place to the Devill. Thus have we runne over all those predominant humours, which beare most sway in distempered Youth. Let us now, according to our former purpose,Physicke prescribed, and [...]e [...]ceits applied to cure these maladies in Youth. proceed in applying certaine Receits to cure these dangerous Maladies. Which briefly (to avoid all curious divisions) may be reduced to these two: Active and Contemplative. The one in exercising and performing the offices of our Calling: The other in practising workes of pietie, exercises of Devotion, Meditation, Contemplation. For the former, to wit, Active, everie action hath two handles (to use the Philosophers words; [...].) the one whereof consists in plotting or contriving; the other in effecting. Without the former, the latter is precipitate; and without the latter, the former is frustrate: but both concurring, the Action becomes absolute. But to speake generally of Action, as it is the represser, so Idlenesse is the producer of all vice. Whence came that ancient Edict amongst the Romans, In lib. de leg. mentioned by Cicero; that no Roman should goe thorow the streets of the Citie, unlesse he carried with him the badge of that Trade whereby he lived. In so much that Marcus Aurelius speaking of the diligence of the Romans, writeth; That all of them followed their labour. [Page 47] Now Gentlemen, I perswade my selfe, you will most of you object and say with the displaced Steward in the Gospell,Luke 16.3. We cannot digge: (and I could wish that many of our eminent ones, would adde unto it, and to begge we are ashamed.) It is true indeed; I know your Breeding hath beene otherwise; but admit you cannot dig, doe yee inferre hence that yee are exempted from all labour? In no case are you so to argue.What employments deserve entertainment from a Gentleman. There are other Taskes, other employments besides Manuall and Mechanicke labours, which require your furtherance. And these are Forraine or Domesticall: Forraine, as to benefit your Countrey by rare Discoveries, reconveying the rich freight of knowledge (by conference with forraine Nations) to your Native soile: or by personall adventure, to stand resolutely in defence of the Faith, against those profest enemies of Christendom, the Turks; whose furie and hostile crueltie, the Easterne parts (to our great griefe be it spoken) have alreadie wofully sustained. Domesticall; as in studying the practice of Lawes, or other humane studies, in labouring to determine differences betwixt partie and partie, in chastising and due censuring, (as farre as their callings give leave) of such factious or litigious Sectists, as either in Church or Common-weale disturbe the quiet of the Realme, and distract the State with frivolous or fruitlesse ambiguities. Here are Labours fit to entertaine Gentlemen, and nought derogating from men of eminentest descent or qualitie. For in Actions of this nature haue the best and most renowned States and Princes in Christendome beene trained and exercised: glorying no lesse in the happie and successive management thereof, than in subduing the potent'st and flourishing'st Kingdomes. Secondly, for the Contemplative, which participates more of the minde: I could wish all Gentlemen (as they claime a prerogative in height of bloud) so to erect their Contemplations above the Sphere of [Page 48] these lower and inferiour Mortalls, whose cogitations pressed downe with the rubbish and refuse of earthly preferments, cannot distinguish light from darknesse: that they may imagine (as in truth they ought) that whatsoever is sought besides God, may possesse the minde,Blos. but cannot satisfie it. Now, of all exercises of Devotion, I must principally commend Prayer; being (as one excellently noteth) to be numbred amongst the chiefest and choisest workes of Charitie. For by Prayer are digged forth those treasures, which faith beholdeth in the Gospell:Chrysost. lib. de [...]rand. Deo. being Gods Sacrifice, Mans Solace, and the Devills scourge. For the time and place of Prayer, I will not insist much of it; howsoever, divers more curiously than profitably, precisely than wisely, have quarrelled about the place: excluding withall, some places as unfit for Prayer. But in a word, for the place of Prayer or Devotion, this shall be my conclusion; as there is no place exempted from tempting, so there is no place excepted from praying: and for the time, as we are continually assaulted, so are wee exhorted to pray continually, Luke 21.36. Rom. 12.11, 12. Ephes. 6.18, 19. Col. 4.2, 3. that we may be the better provided to resist those temptations which are usually suggested. Amongst those many devout and divine Prayers commended to Youth, none more needfull or effectuall than that of the Psalmist:Psal. 25.7. Remember not the sinnes of my youth. Nor any Memoriall more powerfull, than that of the Preacher: Remember thy Creator in the dayes of thy youth. Eccles. 12.1. For by the Latter are we put in mind of him, whose grace is to preserve us from sinne; and by the Former to call on him, whose mercie it is to forgive sinne. Now Gentlemen, have I composed and perfected what I purposed touching my first Observance, entituled Youth. Wherein I have inlarged my selfe so much the more for two principall respects: The One, lest by being unprovided you should flie away naked (as the young-man in the Gospel) wanting sufficient instruction [Page 49] to informe your weaker understandings: which moved me to amplifie each particular Subject with varietie of Morall reading; because I knew how such discourse would relish more pleasantly to a Young-mans palate, than graver or more serious matter. The other, lest wanting a convenient foundation to worke on, the maine building might shrinke. Now, this I purposely framed for the Basis or ground-work, the rest as Stories, which are made to beautifie the foundation: for in these Observances ensuing I intend brevitie, yet with such perspicuitie, as the Gentleman to whom I write, may the better understand himselfe, and direct his courses to that Bent of Honour, whereto all generous actions are directed.